Umlomo wengane unyanisile. Ukuqinisekiswa kwesi binzana kufumaneka ngumzali ngamnye. Kwaye wonke umntu uya kuqaphela ukuba akukho mzuzu onokuvuya ngakumbi xa umntwana eqala ukuthetha. Nangona kunjalo, akubona bonke abazali abahloselwe ukuziva olu lonwabo. Ixesha lidlulayo, kwaye kufuneka sichaze inyaniso edabukisayo-umntwana unokulibazisa intetho. Yintoni enokuyenza kule meko kunye nendlela yokujonga ukuba ixabiso le-alamu lifanelekile?
Imigangatho yokukhuliswa kwentetho yabantwana
Kukho ezinye iinkalo zokukhuliswa kwentetho yabantwana okufuneka wonke umzali azi. Umzekelo, into yokuba amantombazana aqala ukuthetha phambi kokuba amakhwenkwe aziwa. Bakhawuleza ukukhumbula amagama amatsha, kodwa baqala ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kunye nezivakalisi ezipheleleyo. Ngamakhwenkwe, intetho epheleleyo ikhula ixesha elide, kodwa ngokukhawuleza bafunde amagama ezenzo ezahlukeneyo. Nangona kukho ukungafani, abantwana bobabini besini banokuqhagamshelana ngokupheleleyo nabanye ngo-3-4 iminyaka. Qinisekisa ukuba ngaba ukhathazeka, unokwazi ukuba ngumgangatho wokukhulisa intetho yabantwana. Umntwana uphelele ngokupheleleyo ukuba:
- Ukukhula kwakhe ngokomzimba kufana neminyaka yakhe;
- umntwana akanalo izifo zengqondo;
- umntwana ukhulumisana nabanye ngokuzithandela kunye nabantu abangabaziyo;
- inkunzi iphinda iphinda ithi yonke into abantu abadala bayithethayo;
- umntwana uva intetho yakhe kwaye uzama ukulungisa iimpazamo kuwo;
- umntwana ubika iingxaki zakhe ngokuthetha.
Ukungabikho kweyona mbonakalo omnye akuyikho isizathu sokuba i-alarm. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba umntwana wakho ulungile, umele umlinde. Ngoko, umntwana uhlehla emva kokukhulisa intetho ukuba:
- Kwiinyanga ezi-4-6 azikho kwisiqulatho sakhe solu hlobo iileta "b", "m", "n";
- Kwiinyanga ezili-10-12 akaxelisi izandi zentetho, akaguquki xa igama lakhe likhona, kwaye uthetha ngeengxaki zakhe kuphela ngoncedo lokulila;
- inesitokisini angabi ngaphezu kwamazwi angama-20 kwaye akayixhumeli nayiphi na indlela;
- kwiminyaka eyi-1,5-2 ayiqondi izicelo zokuqala ezifana "vula umlomo wakho", njl., akakwazi ukubonisa emfanekisweni oko ufunwayo kwaye uvale izinto;
- kwiminyaka emi-2,5 -3 ayikwazi ukwenza umyalelo olula njengokuthi "ndizise ibhola" okanye "thatha ibhotile;
- kwiminyaka eyi-3-4 ayikwazi ukuphendula imibuzo "apho", "ngubani" okanye "yintoni" kwaye ubize umntu osuka kumalungu entsapho;
- umntwana akayidlala kwaye akadibanisi nabanye abantwana.
Izizathu, Ukuxilongwa kunye nokunyangwa kweNtetho yokulahla kwabantwana
I-psychology yentuthuko yentetho yomntwana kuxhomekeke kwimeko apho azalwe kwaye iyaqhubeka ikhula, kwakunye nendlela yokukhulelwa komama. Phakathi kwezinto ezibonakalayo, ngenxa yokuba kunokulibaziseka ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho kubantwana, ukwahlula oku kulandelayo:
- kwiintsholongwane ngexesha lokugaya;
- izifo zentsholongwane okanye izifo zangaphakathi;
- ukulimala kwe-craniocebral okanye izifo zobuchopho.
Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo ukuphulwa kwentetho yentetho kubantwana kubangelwa izizathu zentlalo:
- ukungabikho koqhagamshelwano olusebenzayo phakathi komntwana kunye nomntu omdala, okanye ukuzaliseka kwezicelo zomntwana ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba yentetho;
- iingxaki ngokuva, ukungakwazi ukuphinda oko abanye bathi;
- ithoni ebuthathaka obusweni bobuso okanye i-musculature engahlambulukanga;
- logoneurosis okanye stammering.
Ukuxilongwa kokuphuhliswa kwentetho yabantwana, njengokulawula, kuthatha malunga neminyaka emithathu. Kule nkalo, kukho iingxaki ezininzi. Oogqirha basoloko balindele ukuba ngeminyaka emithathu umntwana uya kubambisana noontanga aze aqale ukuthetha ngokwakhe. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuxilongwa "kokuphuculwa kokuphuculwa" kufakwe kuphela xa engazange aqale ukusebenzisa intetho. Kule meko, amanyathelo okulungisa anesimo esiyinkimbinkimbi kunye nesigxina. Ngoko ke, abazali abaqaphelayo ngokuthetha nomntwana into engalunganga, kuya kwenzeka ukuba kulungiswe ukulungisa isifo.
Ukuba uqinisekile ukuba ukuphambuka kwimiqathango eqhubekayo kuqhubeka, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nomlomo weengcali kunye nengcali yeengqondo ukuze uqale unyango lokulibazisa intetho. Kwabantwana abangenayo ingxaki yezifo ze-neurological and hearing hearing, ulungiso lukhawuleza kwaye lubuhlungu.
Nangona ungazange uqaphele iingxaki ngokufunda intetho yengane yakho, khumbula ukuba kuphela kuwe kuxhomekeke ekuphuhlisweni kwayo. Uyimodeli yokuxelisa kwaye ingqwalasela yakho yinto ebaluleke kakhulu yintsana, engayisindisi kuphela kwiingxaki zesicwangciso soqhagamshelwano kunye nengqondo, kodwa iya kumnika ikusasa elithulekileyo neliyolo.