Ikhono lokuthetha ngokuchanekileyo nabantu yindlela ebalulekileyo yokuphumelela empilweni, isisombululo esibaluleke kakhulu sezopolitiko, inkokeli kunye nabani na imisebenzi enxulumene nokuseka oonxibelelwano. Ukuqonda ukukwazi ukunxibelelana nabantu, kufuneka uphulaphule iingcebiso zengqondo zentlalo.
Iingcebiso zezengqondo zengqondo zokunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo
Ukufunda indlela yokuthetha kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane, kufuneka uphephe iimpazamo ezifanayo. Umzekelo - ukuzithoba. Bonke abantu ngabanye, umntu akakwazi ukufikelela kwabanye abantu ngemilinganiselo yabo neenkolelo zabo. Yiba nenjongo, qwa lasela xa ukhuluma ngokugqithisileyo komntu onxibelelana naye njengomntu.
Sebenza ngokubonakala kwakho kunye nemikhwa, gxotha ukunyaniseka nokuqina. Ngomntu ohloniphekileyo, okhangayo kunye onokuzithemba, kulungile ukuthetha nokusebenza. Ukulwa kunye nokungathembi - lo mgangatho unokuphazamisa kakhulu ukuthetha kwakho nabantu. Ungakuphepha ukujonga ngokuthe ngqo-oku kuya kukubonisa ukuba uyamthemba umthungelwano, kwaye unokuthenjwa.
Xa uthetha, zama ukusebenzisa imibuzo evulekileyo ekhuthaza ukuba udibaniselwano uthethe ngakumbi ngaye, abonise izimvo zabo kwimibandela eyahlukeneyo. Endaweni yegama elithi "Ngaba uyayithanda le ncwadi?", Yithi - "Ziziphi iincwadi ozithandayo?". Le ndlela inceda ekufumaneni umhlaba oqhelekileyo kunye nabani na umntu.
Ngenxa yokukwazi ukuthetha nabantu, kufuneka uhlakulele rhoqo, wandise i-horizons yakho, uhlale uhambelana neendaba zakutshanje kunye nemigangatho kwimicimbi yezopolitiko, imfashini, ubugcisa, njl. Ngomntu okhunjini kunye nofundisayo, kuyona nto inomdla ukuthetha, abantu banqwenela ukuya kubuntu obunjalo.
Amandla okuthetha nabantu
Ukukwazi ukunxibelelana namadoda kunomdla okhethekileyo kubasetyhini abafuna ukuseka ubomi babomi baze bafumane "isiqingatha" sabo. Ukufumana indlela kumntu, izazi zeengqondo zicebisa umfazi ukuba athethe ngaphantsi kwaye aphulaphule ngenyameko. Abameli beesondo eziqinileyo bavame ukucaphukisa abafazi, kwaye ukuba unxibelelwano luvela kumsebenzi, lunokubangela ukuphosakela kunye neengxabano.
Ukuze unxibelelwano olungcono, rhoqo ubiza umnxibelelwano ngegama, ngenxa yokuba nawuphi na umntu uthanda isandi sakhe. Isibheno
Musa ukuphazamiseka ngelixa uthetha nendoda. Abanye abafazi ngexesha le ngxoxo banako ukwenza izinto ezimbalwa - thumela imiyalezo, bukela i-movie, njl njl. Amadoda abheka le mpahla ngokungabandakanyeki okanye ukubonisa ukuba lixesha lokuba bahambe.
Enye yeemfihlelo eziphambili zokunxibelelana ngokuphumelelayo namadoda kukukwazi ukufumana "intloko" entliziyweni yakhe. Phantse onke amalungu enothando oluqinileyo lolwabelana ngesondo xa zibhekwa njengezikhono kwinto ethile. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuxolela isiluleko kumntu oyithandayo, kwaye uya kufuna ukuba akwazi ukunxibelelana nawe ngakumbi.