Ngokuvisisanayo, ngokuqhelekileyo sicinga malunga nokuba lukhulu kangakanani ukuba siphile, ukuba yonke into ivele yodwa, kodwa ngosuku nosuku sibhekene nobunzima obuhlukahlukeneyo. Baye balinda nathi kwisinyathelo ngasinye. Nangona ukuze uye kwivenkile elisondeleyo yesonka, kufuneka sizenzele ukuba siphume ebhedeni, sigqoke size siphumke. Yintoni esinokuyithetha malunga nemisebenzi ebalulekileyo enxulumene nomsebenzi okanye ukuziphucula. Nangona kunjalo, siya phambili, kuphela kuphela okhetha indlela yakhe. Ubungakanani kunye nesantya sokunyakaza kuyo kuxhomekeke ekubeni umntu uphatha njani ubunzima, uninzi kangakanani ukulungela ukunqoba ukuze ufezekise injongo. Oko kukuthi, ukuthanda kunye neempawu zemiqathango yomntu ziza kudlala, apho isihloko sethu sinikezelwe.
Iimpawu zobuntu neempawu zabo
Izimpawu ezinamandla ezinqwenelekayo zomntu ziquka:
- Ukulungelelanisa - ukukwazi ukukhawuleza ukukhetha iinjongo kunye nendlela yokufezekisa ngayo, kwimeko enzima yokukhetha, xa imeko ibandakanya umngcipheko;
- Injongo - ukunyaniseka kwintembeko ekujoliswe kuyo, ukuzimisela ukunika ixesha elininzi kunye namandla okuphumeza;
- ukuphikelela - ukukwazi ukuzisa ityala ekupheleni, kungabuyiselanga kwaye ungabuyi kumendo wayo ube lula;
- nesibindi - ukukwazi ukunqoba ukudideka kunye noloyiko, kwanokuqonda ngokucokisekileyo kweengozi ezinokwenzeka;
- ukuzithoba ekuziphatheni kokuziphatha kwimimiselo ethile kunye nemithetho;
- ukuzithiba-ukuzithiba, ubuchule, ngoncedo lokunika amandla, ukuvimbela izenzo ezithintela ukuzaliseka komntwana;
- ukuzimela - ukukwazi ukuzenza yedwa, ngaphandle kokukhathalela abanye, nokuvavanya indlela abaziphatha ngayo, ngokusekelwe ekukholweni kwabo.
Ukuqulunqwa kweempawu zobuntu ezinamandla
I-Psychology yezinto ezinamandla ezinqwenelekayo zokuthi abantu abayithandi. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba basencike kwisimo sengqondo, esinqunywe yimpawu zomzimba zesistim se-nervous. Indlela abantu abasabela ngayo kwiinkathazo zifikelela kwinqanaba elithile elinxulumene nesantya kunye namandla okuphendula ngengqondo, kodwa ngokubanzi ukuphuhliswa kweempawu zobuntu ezinqwenelekayo kubonakala kwinkqubo yomsebenzi kunye nokufumana amava abo.
Izenzo zokuqala zemiqathango zingabonwa ngethuba lokuqala, xa umntwana efunda ukuzilawula, oko akuthi, ayifuni ukwanelisa iimfuno ngokukhawuleza ngexesha lokubonakaliswa kwazo. Kwiinkqubo zonxibelelwano kunye nokuqondwa kwehlabathi elijikelezayo, umlingiswa wenziwa, kwaye iimpawu zemiqathango yobuntu ziza kuqhubeka zihlala kwindawo enye ehamba phambili kwisakhiwo sakhe.
Yenza into ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kwintando kuphela ngokuhlangabezana neemfuno zomzimba okanye umnqweno onamandla. Luhlobo luni lophuhliso kule meko esinokuthetha ngalo? Kodwa ukususela ebuntwaneni siye safundiswa ukuba ngaphandle kwegama elithi "Ndiyifunayo" kukho igama "kufuneka", kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo okwesibini kubaluleke ngakumbi kunowokuqala. Ngoko sithola amandla okufunda nokusebenza, ukwenza imisebenzi ethile imihla ngemihla, kwaye kwakhona
Ukuxilongwa kobunzima obunqwenelekayo bunokubakho kokubili kwimeko yesifundo seengqondo, kunye noncedo lokuvavanya impumelelo kunye neendlela zokuphendula. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukujonga izinga lokuphuhliswa kwabo, iimeko zengxaki zenziwe ngokukodwa, umzekelo, udliwano-ndlebe lwengqesho okanye iimvavanyo ezizodwa.
Uphuhliso lomntu luyenzeka kuphela kwinkqubo yokulwa nemingcipheko. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezinamandla iimpawu zemiqathango, ukuphumelela komsebenzi womntu, umgangatho wokuphila kunye nokwaneliseka ngawo wonke.