Mhlawumbi, wonke umntu ebuntwaneni wayecinga ukuba amathoyizi akhe ahlala eyabo, ubomi obukhethekileyo bokudlala. Le ngcamango iyamangalisa kwaye, mhlawumbi, inkwantya yinto encinci: ingancinci iya kufika engqondweni yodonsa othakazelisayo waseBarbie xa inkosikazi yayo imbuyisela. Ikakhulukazi iqala ukuyikrakra xa ukhangela enye ifilimu edizayo, okanye uya kufunda incwadi efana nayo apho idonki, apho umoya okhohlakeleyo uhleli khona, okanye umphefumlo womntu ofileyo, okanye omnye umzimba we-astral, udala izenzo ezahlukeneyo ezimnyama, ukufuna umphefumlo wakhe omnyama, okanye ukuthanda komlumbi oyingozi , elilawulayo.
Uloyiko lwamadonki kunye nezizathu zolu bakala
Ngokuqhelekileyo, imbono yokuba idonsa ingabangela ingozi iyinto eqhelekileyo kwiinkcubeko zenkcubeko zanamhlanje. Kwaye kwintliziyo yalo, njengoko abanye besigqirha sengqondo bathi, uxoka ukwesaba iimboli - into efana nomntu, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo - ngokupheleleyo. UZ. Freud wayekholelwa ukuba ukwesaba iimboli, kufana nokunye ukwesaba - kuvela kubuntwaneni bethu. Ikhula ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba yonke inyane lebhokhwe linalo, ukuba idonsa iphila ngokwenene, kodwa umntu oloyiko olukhulu, okanye (njengoko le nkwantya ikwabizwa ngokuba yi- pedophobia ), ingcamango yokukhuphela le nto yokudlala ayilahlekanga naphi na. Njengoko ekhula, udibanisa nomfanekiso wehlabathi kwaye uvelisa i-phobia ephazamisa umnini wakhe iminyaka emininzi. Ngendlela, i-pedophobes ayesabi ngohlobo lweedodoli ngokwabo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba bangabalimaza: kubangele ukuhlaselwa kwentliziyo, baxakeke ebuthongweni babo, okanye (kwaye oku kunkwantya) ngokuqinisekileyo baqale ukuhamba, okuya kuqinisekisa ukufaneleka okanye ukunganyaniseki kwalo mntu. Ngendlela, kukho imeko ekhethekileyo yokuzithiba-ukuzondla - ukwesaba ukujonga idoli.
Iimpawu ze-phobia ezigqithisileyo zamantombazana
Iimpawu zokwesaba iimboli, njengazo nayiphi na i-phobia, zi:
- Uloyiko olungenangqiqo lwezinto ze- phobia , kwaye umntu uyaqonda ukuba ukwesaba kwakhe akuyi kubolekiswa kwingcaciso engqiqweni;
- Imizamo yokuphepha ukudibanisa nale nto kuyo yonke indlela.
Ukuba umnxibelelwano awakunakuphetshwa, ngoko umntu unokuthi uhlaselwa ngumkhosi. Ibonakala ngoku:
- uvakalelo olusenza lube luvalo;
- ingqiqo yento engenzekiyo;
- ukuphazamiseka kombono kunye nokuva;
- ukuphazamiseka kwisithuba;
- ntliziyo;
- ukuphefumula;
- ukungcola;
- ukuthuthumela.
Unyango lwe-pedophobia kunye ne-glenophobia
Ngokuqhelekileyo ezi phobias azidingi unyango; kunqabile ukuvelisa ubunzima obukhulu, kuba into ye-phobia igwenywa ngokukhawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezinzima, iingqondo zengqondo, iingqondo ze-psychotherapists kunye neengqondo zithatha ityala, ezenziwa ngamacandelo ahlukahlukeneyo ukuba akhombise umntu ukuba iidonki azibangelwa yingozi.