Iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo zemihla ngemihla, ukungabikho kokulala, iivithamini kunye nokukhanya kwelanga kunokubangela ukuba kubonakale isimo sengqondo esicindezelekileyo kwengqondo kuwo wonke umntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubudala.
Iintlobo zengqondo ecindezelekileyo yengqondo
- Umoya . Ungamangaleli umntu ngokungabonakali nayiphi na imvakalelo. Emva koko, ukhetho alukhutshelwe ukuba ngoku ebudeni bokuba ubandezelekile. Ubume balesi sizwe bufihliwe ebuntwaneni. Kukho uluhlu lwabazali ukuba usuku nosuku luphindaphinda kumntwana wabo: "Uyintoni na ukukhala? Ngubani othandayo ngoku? Kutheni le miva ? ". Ngenxa yoko, ukungabikho kwembonakalo yemoya kuthathwa njengesiqhelo.
- Lwangaphakathi . Ngokukhawuleza amandla okuzonwabisa ubomi alahlekile. Oku kungabangela ukulahlekelwa ngumthandayo, ukungaphumeleli kwimicimbi ebalulekileyo yomntu. Ukongeza, konke oku kuhambelana nomnqweno wokufihla kwihlabathi elikujikelezayo, kuye.
- Yengqondo . Ixinzelelo, uxinzelelo lombutho lunokuba bubungqina bokuba ukwesaba ubomi buntu, uloyiko lokuba akukho nto iya kufezwa ebomini, ukwesaba ukuba le nto ayiyi kuyenza.
Ukuxinezeleka, ukuxinezeleka, imeko ephilileyo - njani ukuhlangabezana nale nto?
Kukho rhoqo indlela yokuphuma. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba usebenze ngokwakho "I". Musa ukulindela ukuba eli lizwe liya kuhamba ngaphandle kwencedo lomntu. Ngeshwa, iyakhula ibe yinto engakumbi, iyingozi. Ngoko, isazi sezengqondo esikhulu A. UAlller wayesoloko etshela abafundi bakhe: "Ukuba ufuna ukulahla uxinzelelo, ukunyamezela, ukuphelelwa yithemba, kufuneka ukhumbuze imihla ngemihla ukuba ufuna umntu akholise." Yintoni ebangela ukuvakalelwa? Iingcamango eziqhubekayo ngobuntu bakhe, kwaye xa umntu ekhathalela abanye, ubamncumo, kumnceda athole uxolo aze aphelise ukucindezeleka.