Ngokuqhelekileyo isikhungo somtshato siqabane esandula kutshata, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo oku kunjalo. Kodwa kukho ezinye iibalo ezibalulekileyo, ezidibene nemikhuba yomtshato yendabuko. Eli nqaku liza kugxininisa kwendima edlalwa nguyise womtshakazi emtshatweni.
Ngona umtshato wamandulo kakhulu usekelwe kwizithethe ezinde. Kwaye ke, zenziwa yimimiselo yokuphila kookhokho bethu. Abafazi ngelo xesha bakhuselwa ngabantu bonke ubomi babo. Kwakusemtshatweni ukuba uyise wanikela intombi yakhe kumyeni wakhe, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo wamnika uxanduva lokumkhusela aze amnyamekele. Kuze kube ngoku, abantu abaselula bacela "isandla sendodakazi yakho" kubazali babo. Eli binzana livela ekutshintshisweni kwentombazana - uyise uhola umtshakazi esibingelelweni, aze abeke isandla sakhe esandleni somyeni.
Umdaniso womtshakazi kunye noyise
Umzuzu oshukumisayo kakhulu wokubhiyozela ngumdaniso womtshakazi kunye noyise. Umntwana omncinci wethenda uye waba intombazana ekhulile. Emva kwakhe - iminyaka emininzi yobuntwana, ngenxa yakhe - inzala. Kodwa ngaloo mzuzu abantu ababini abadala bajonga omnye nomnye. Umdaniso womtshato womtshakazi kunye nobaba wenza ukuba bakwazi ukuba bobabini baziva ukuba ixesha lifikile lolwahlukileyo.
Amaxesha, xa umtshakazi edlala kunye noyise, abe ngumhlobiso womtshato. Umdlalo wokumemeza uphela imizuzu embalwa, ngamnye okhoyo ukhumbula izihlandlo ezichaphazelayo ebomini babo. Ukulungiselela umdaniso womtshakazi kunye noyise, ingoma efanelekileyo ifanele ikhethwe kunye nomdaniso owenziweyo. Kwiingoma zesiRashiya ezidume kakhulu:
- "Intombi" eyenziwa nguJoseph Kobzon;
- "Mema uyihlo kumdaniso omhlophe" ngu-Igor Demarin;
- "Abantu basekhaya" abenziwe nguDiana Gurtskaya noJoseph Kobzon.
Umtshato we-choreographer uya kubangela ukuba uthintele kulo nyathelo. Ngomncedi, umdaniso uya kubonakala njengebali eliphelile, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, luyakwenza ngakumbi ukuvakalisa iindwendwe kwaye kuya kukhunjulwa ngabathathi-nxaxheba.
Intetho yomntwana womtshakazi emtshatweni
Ngokuqhelekileyo abapapa bafumana uvuyo olukhulu kwisidingo sokugcina intetho phambi kweendwendwe. Lo ngumqondiso omele ulungele ukulungiselela kwangaphambili, kwaye usebenzo lukabawo luya kuba ngumzuzu wokukhumbula umtshato.
Kuphi i -sissis kufanele isekelwe kumalungiselelo amagama kayise womtshakazi:
- ukubonga abo abakhona ngenjongo yokuzukisa;
- khumbula umzuzu ochaphazelayo okanye ochaphazelekayo ovela kumntwana womtshakazi;
- xelela ngeemvakalelo zakhe zobubele - ukuzingca, ukunyamekela, malunga nendlela abantwabayo batshintsha ngayo ubomi okanye uphawu olubhetele;
- xelela malunga nomyeni kunye neemvakalelo zakhe ngaye - xa zithandekile. Ukuba akunjalo, kungcono ukuthula ngowabo;
- ukuvakalisa abantu abasandul 'ukutshata iimfuno zikayise.
Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba intetho yomtshato kayise womtshakazi iya kuba neenkcukacha kumava akhe - ukuba umtshato womzali awuzange udibene,
Ngaphandle kweminyaka ekhulileyo kunye namava amaninzi okuphila, umtshato wentombi unokuba ngumvavanyo onzima wobawo. Izinguqu ezibalulekileyo ekupheleni komntwana othandekayo, isidingo sokugcina intetho phantsi kweendwendwe - zonke ezi zinto zinokubangela ukungathandabuzeki kwintsebenzo ephumelelayo. Kukho ezinye iimeko. Ngokomzekelo, inani elikhulu lamathole phambi kwentetho kayise. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, intetho egameni likayise ingaphathiswa kumalume okanye umzalwana womtshakazi.
Ewe, ulwalamano nentombi kunye noyise aluphazanyiswa emva kokudala intsapho yakhe. Ngaphambili kweminyaka emininzi, ubudlelwane obusondelene nabo buyacetyiswa ngabantu abatsha abathathi-nxaxheba. Yaye malunga nomzuzu oshukumisayo kunye nomoya othabathayo uya kufana neefoto zomtshato.