"Uthando lwenkwenkwezi luqala ngentsapho" - la mazwi, athetha ngokufihlakeleyo nguFrancis Bacon, ubonisa ngokucacileyo indima enkulu eyenziwa yintsapho kwinkqubo yokuba kuluntu. Ukuba sicinga ukuba umntu uyintlalo yakhe, akunakunzima ukuqagela ukuba yintsapho, njengeyona nto yincinci yoluntu, isiseko sokwenza ubudlelwane obuninzi kunye nenkqubo yonke.
Nangona kunjalo, indima yentsapho kwintlalo-ntle, leyo, njengoko iyaziwa, yinkqubo ende ebomini, ayikwazi ukunyanzeliswa. Yilentsapho eyiluntu lokuqala. Kuyo, sichitha iminyaka yokuqala, ngexesha lokubaluleka kobomi kunye nezinto eziphambili, kwaye iinkqubo zokuziphatha kwezentlalo zenziwa. Iminyaka emithathu yokuqala yokuba ngumntu, njengomntu, ujikelezwe yintsapho. Kwaye iindima zamalungu entsapho eyona nto yokuqala yokuhlalisana komntu, apho "i-violin yokuqala" idlaliswa ngabazali, kunye nalabo baqaphele ngqalelo le nxaxheba. Ngoko, ngokomzekelo, kwezinye iintsapho ezingasebenzi, abantwana banokunyamekelwa kakhulu kwamanye amalungu entsapho (odade, abazalwana, nootatomkhulu). Kubuphi ubudlelwane obuye lwaphuhliswa kwiintsapho zethu, iimfuno zethu ezongezelelweyo kwihlabathi kunye nekamva zixhomekeka. Ngaphezu koko, impembelelo yentsapho iimeko zonke, nokuba zilungile okanye zibi.
Indima yentsapho ebomini bendoda yanamhlanje
Umkhonto ophezulu ongabonwa namhlanje, kwaye yintoni umphumo wecala lobuchwepheshe bezentengiselwano kunye nokukhawuleza kwantyaba yobomi, yinkonzo yentsapho ekukhuliseni, njenjalo. Abazali abahamba phambili banikela abantwana ngokukhawuleza ezandleni zamannies, ootitshala bezontanga, kwilizwe leemidlalo zekhompyutheni, iipilisi kunye neetoni. Umntwana uchitha ixesha lokuzilibazisa kunye nabazali bakhe okanye abahlobo egcekeni, iplanethi yakhe igxininiswa kwihlabathi lonwabo kunye neyona nyaniso. Nangona kunjalo, "imbobo" ekunxibelelweni yenziwa kwimimiselo ethile yokuziphatha komntu ngamnye. Ukongezelela, abaphandi bathetha ngokutshintshwa kweminye imodeli yentsapho yanamhlanje, ngoko ke, kuluntu ngokubanzi.
Iimpawu zendabuko ngokukhawuleza zinika indlela entsha. Ukwanda kwenani lomtshato kunye nezinga lokuzalwa eliphantsi kwimvelaphi yokuzalwa ngaphandle komtshato, oko kukuthi, ukungena kokuqala komntwana kwisisele esingaphelelanga koluntu lwabo lokuqala - bonke badlala indima. Nangona kunjalo, amaqhinga okukhuliswa kweentsapho zezemfundo zentsapho azihlala zingatshintshi:
- ookuqala umyalelo , xa abantu abadala beyinyanzela iminqweno yabantwana, basoloko na, ngokubona kwabo, ukuphambuka komntwana kwiimbono zabo, njengendlela yokulima kwesebe, ukwenza ubuntu bakhe ngendlela yakhe;
- uhlobo lwesibini lunokuchazwa njengentsebenziswano. Olu luphuhliso oluhlangeneyo, umsebenzi kunye nokuchitha ixesha. Kule meko, indima yentsapho ebomini komntu omncinci ingabizwa ngokuba yimpilweni kwaye ilungile;
- umgcini. Abantwana, bakhula phantsi kweemeko ze-hyperopic, siyazibiza ngokuthi "hothouse". Abazali bazama ukukhusela umntwana wabo kwizinto eziyinyani zehlabathi, ezibhekwa njengento enobubi. Kule meko, umntwana uhlakulela isimo sengqondo ngokubhekiselele kwihlabathi, kwaye uyaba ngumntu ongenakunceda,
okanye kukho umnqweno wokungena kuwo onke "ukungcola", apho abazali bakhe bamlinda khona. Njengombhikisho; - amaqhinga okungaziphazamisi. Abazali abaphazamisi kwiingxaki zomntwana, becinga ukuba indlela enjalo iya kumnika ukuzimela kwaye imfundise ukuba aziqhelise ngokomntu omdala.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngabazali abazali bakhetha njani umntwana wabo, kufuneka bakhumbule ukuba umntwana uza kweli hlabathi, ukuze asifundise, ukubonisa iingxaki zethu zangaphakathi, zibonise njengesibuko. Ngoko ke, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ubomi obungakumbi bomntwana kuluntu luxhomekeke kwimozulu kwintsapho yakho.