Ekuboneni kokuqala, isihloko sesicatshulwa sizwakala singenangqondo, kodwa ukuba ukhangele ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kukho intsingiselo ethile. Yintoni efika kuqala xa uva igama elithi "umfazi"? Uninzi lwethu lucinga malunga negama elithi "isini esinqabileyo". Kule nxu lumano, ibhinqa ithathwa njengobuthakathaka kunomntu kwaye le ndawo ivela phi?
Ukususela ixesha elide, indawo yendoda yayiyinto ephambili, kwaye ubukhohlakele babusa ehlabathini. Okokuqala, le ndoda yayiyiNtloko yentsapho kuba yayingumntu odla ukutya, ngoko ke amadoda anikwe indima ebalulekileyo emphakathini, kuba babefundisiwe, baqeqeshiwe kwimisebenzi, ukufunda nokubhala, ngelixa indima yabasetyhini yayisesekondari.
Ngoku abameli bezesondo ezifanelekileyo bafunde zonke iinkalo zobungcali, umsebenzi wezobupolitika, ezemidlalo kunye nolwazi lokuqhuba imoto. Ihlabathi liyatshintsha, kwaye abafazi bayamnceda kule nto.
Abafazi abomeleleyo behlabathi
Iimpapasho ezidumileyo ngegama lehlabathi ngokuphindaphindiweyo zenza isilinganiselo samabhinqa anamandla kunye anempembelelo kweli hlabathi abengesabi ukuphosa umngeni wokuqala wolawulo lwaloo xesha waza waba ziintombi zamantombazana amaninzi ngexesha lethu.
- Princess Diana. UDi Diana Diana Spencer waziwa emva kokuba watshata ilungu lentsapho yasebukhosini ye-Prince of Wales. Wayebizwa ngokuthi "ubukumkani obunobuso bomntu," kuba ebomini bakhe babenomdla kunye nokunceda abahlwempu.
- Merlin Monroe. Igama lakhe, le nto yokuqala efika engqondweni xa kuthethwa ukuguqulwa kwesondo kwimihla edlulileyo. UMonroe waba ngumqondiso ocacileyo wesini kwaye namhlanje uhlala ungumzekelo welifa lamawaka amabhinqa.
- Marlene Dietrich. Le ntombazana yaba ngumqondiso we-cinema waseJamani kunye ne-American ekuqaleni kwekhulu le-20, kuba abaninzi baya kuba ngumzekelo "wobundlobongela."
- Coco Chanel. Wayengowokuqala ukumema abesifazana ukuba banxibe i-suit shirts, ngaloo ndlela bedale umfanekiso omtsha wobuntombi.
Ibhinqa elinamandla kunye nomntu onamandla
Utshintsho olutshintsho olunjalo kwiimeko zabasetyhini kuluntu alukwazi ukuba lukhokele kodwa lukhokelela kwiingxaki zolwalamano phakathi kwesini.
Amadoda kwabesetyhini abomeleleyo baphathwa ngokuhlukileyo:
- Kwamadoda athile, owesifazane oqine kakhulu, lo ngumzekelo wokukhangwa ngesondo, kuba banomuva wokuba bangenise kumntu ongeyingozi kwaye ngobudlelwane nokuba yikhoboka kuphela.
- Amanye amadoda akwazi ukunyamezela ubunkokheli bebhinqa, ngamanye amaxesha baze bafikelele kwinqanaba lokuba bajonge iinkokheli zamakhosikazi, abafazi abasemva kwevili okanye nje abafazi abaqulunqwe ngengqondo. Ekubeni ngokwemizobalazo enamandla abafuni ukuthobela "ubulili obubuthakathaka", ngokuhlala bencediswa ngokubonisa amandla abo.
Oku kusinika ilungelo lokuba umfazi obuthathaka abe ngumntu onamandla. Kwaye uhlala enjalo uziva efuna ukukhuselwa kwamadoda. Kodwa indoda enamandla kunokuba yinto engekho, ngoko ke ukwamkelwa kokubanzi kwimbono yokuba abafazi
Ukubonakala kweentlobo ezintsha zobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi kuye kwafundiswa kwaye kuxutyushwa kwiimpapasho ezahlukahlukeneyo zenzululwazi kunye nobugcisa kule minyaka emininzi edlulileyo, umzekelo wale nto ingaba yincwadi kaMiranda Lee "Owesifazane oMandla onamandla."
Isikhathi sichaza imithetho yaso, kwaye siyanyanzelekile ukuba sibathobele. Nangona kunjalo, ungayikhohlwa malunga nokulingana ngesini kunye nenyaniso yokuba abafazi, kunye namadoda anelungelo elipheleleyo lokwenza oko akuthandayo, ukwakha imisebenzi yabo kwaye bazibonakalise ngokwabo ubudlelwane boluntu.