Abaninzi bethu, bejamelene neengxaki kunye neengxaki, beziva ukuba abanakuguqula nantoni na, baqala ukungathandabuzi izenzo zabo baze bawa phantsi izandla zabo, kwaye abazange bafikelele ekupheleni. Kule nqaku, siza kuxubusha indlela yokuguqula iqela elimnyama kwindawo yokuthatha.
Ubomi lukulungiselela izipho ezininzi, kwaye akuzona zonke ezilungileyo. Wonke umntu wayejongene nalokhu, abahluphekileyo nabatyebi. Abantu abaninzi abadumileyo besendleleni eya empumelelweni, badibana neentsilelo, kunye nelokuba bawunqoba kamva bawanceda babe yiloo nto. Ngoko, umzekelo, uSteve Jobs ngo-1985 waxoshwa kwinkampani yakhe. Ukuthotywa, kodwa engaphukileyo, wasungula i-NEXT. Ukusebenza ngenkuthalo kunye nokuyeka ukungaphumeleli, phantsi kobunkokheli beMisebenzi, inkampani ifike kule minyaka eyi-10 inzuzo ye-1.1 yezigidi zeedola. Kwaye emva kweminyaka emithathu, i-Apple yathengwa ngemisebenzi engama-427 yezigidi yabuya isihlalo se-CEO kwinkampani yakhe kwaye yayingabuyisela inkampani kwinkathazo. Wonke umntu uyayazi iphela.
Kodwa yintoni omele uyenze xa ibhola elimnyama likufumene? Musa ukuphelelwa lithemba! Ziziphi iingxaki ezazingekho, zihlala zixazululwa. Musa ukukhangela inetyala, okokuqala, hlalutya imeko, funda iimpazamo zakho, cinga iindlela onokuziphepha kuzo kwikamva. Makhe sijonge kwiindlela ezili-10 ezilula zokuphumelela, eziza kukunceda kwikamva ukuphepha ukungaphumeleli.
Inyathelo ngesinyathelo ekuphumeleleni kwimpilo
- Inyathelo lokuqala: landela amaphupha akho. Khangela. Ngaba unelisekile ngobomi bakho? Wakho nomsebenzi? Wakho ngomvuzo? Ukuba akunjalo, ke lixesha lokutshintsha into ethile. Yenza amaphupha ibe yiinjongo.
- Inyathelo lesibini: Musa ukumisa ukuhluleka, ungayeki, kuya kuhoyisa ekunqobeni. Njalo qhubeka. Hlaziya iimpazamo zakho, kuzo ziza kuzifumana iimpendulo kwimibandela yakho: Indlela yokuphepha iimpazamo ukususela ngoku? Ngubani omele uxanduva? Yintoni efuna ukutshintshwa?
- Inyathelo lesithathu: Fundisisa kwaye uhlakulele ubuchule bakho, qaphela izinto ezintsha kunye nokuqhubeka nazo. Kuphela ngokwenza uzinzileyo kunokunqoba izithintelo zobomi.
- Inyathelo lesine: Yiba nethemba kuwe. Ukuthembela yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yempumelelo. Zive ukhululekile ukuya ekulweni, uzixhobile ngolwazi lwakho kunye neengcinga, kwaye akukho nto inokukuphulaphula.
- Inyathelo lesithandathu: Yenza ubuchule. Ukudlala ngeminye imithetho yabantu, awukwazi ukunqoba umdlalo, ngoko udale ngokwakho. Iimbono ezintsha zihamba ngokukhawuleza kwindlela yokuphumelela.
- Inyathelo lesithandathu: Yenzani yonke into ngokuhlekisa. Le ngongoma ibalulekile, kuba endleleni eya empumelelweni, abaninzi baye balahleka ukubonakala kwabo. Ukumamatheka kuzokukunceda usinde ubunzima.
- Inyathelo lesixhenxe: Qhubeka. Yilokho okukwenza uqhubeke phambili. Ungacingi ukuba ukuhluleka kukutshatyalaliswa. Zama kwakhona, ukuze nje ukwazi ukufezekisa into ethile.
- Inyathelo lesine: Yiba nembono wakho. Yazi indlela yokuyivakalisa nokuyikhusela. Ngoko awuyi kuba nokholo, kodwa ukwandisa igunya emehlweni abo.
- Inyathelo lesithoba: Zihlalutye kunye nabanye. Hlaziya zonke izenzo, wazi indlela yokufumana iimpazamo uze uziguqulele kwizidima.
- Inyathelo leshumi: Yeka ukwesaba ukungaphumeleli. Kwenzeka, kodwa akusisizathu sokuyeka. Ukukhupha kubo inzuzo enkulu, kwaye baya kukunqanda ukugqithisa.
Khumbula ukuba umendo wokuphumelela uhlala unameva, kodwa kuya kukunika ithuba lokufunda ngezilungiso zakho kwaye uphephe umlingisi wakho. Enye yezinto eziphambili zomntu ophumelelayo kukuzithemba kunye nobuchule bakhe. Yiba nesigqibo ekusebenzeni, uphakamise ngolwazi oluyimfuneko, kwaye oku kuya kunika umphumo olungileyo. Khumbula ukuba umbane onamandla ngakumbi nobusuku obumnyama, ukhanyisa umbala kunye nokukhanya kwelanga.
Musa ukulibala malunga nalo kwaye ungazivumeli ukuphelelwa yithemba!