Iintyatyambo kwidesktophu okanye emnyango wendlu, iipostcards kunye nezibongo ezintle kunye nezinye iimpawu zengqwalasela kumntu ongeyenazisi. Indlela yokufumana ngubani othandayo kunye nendlela yokuqonda ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba unengqondo iya kuxelwa kule nqaku.
Unokubala njani isoka?
Enyanisweni, akayi kukwazi ukuhlala incognito ixesha elide, kuba indoda ethandwayo ifuna ukusondelana nomnqweno wakhe. Ukuba umntu osebenza naye, isikolo somfundi okanye unyana womngane kamama uhlale ejikeleze kwaye ngokukodwa kumzuzwana onzima, ngoko unokuqiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba zonke izinto ezintle kunye nezipho ezithe zafunyanwa kungekudala.
Uyazi njani ukuba umntu uyakuthanda?
Ngoxinano oluninzi olunxibelelwano, sele sele kunokwenzeka ukufumana izigqibo ezicacileyo. Izipho ezidumileyo, ukutyelela kwii-coffee, iindiyetha kunye nemibukiso ayithethi nto: mhlawumbi indoda ilandela ezinye iinjongo zayo zobugovu. Kubalulekile ukujongisisa ngokukodwa ukuba uyayithobela njani into enqwenelayo: uyayibona imicimbi ekhoyo, iimfuno, iinketho. Ngaba uyayiphulaphula into yonke into intombazana emxelela yona? Ukuba uyaphawula ukuba ngethuba le ngxoxo uyaphazamiseka, ahlasele emafini, okanye adibanise, unokufumana izigqibo ezidakisayo.
Abo banomdla kwindlela onokuyifumana ngayo ukuba umntu uyakuthanda kufuneka ukhangele amehlo akhe rhoqo. Bathi le sibuko somphefumlo kwaye unokuqonda okuninzi ngabo. Abo babathanda ngokwenene, baninzi babezibamba ngolu hlobo lweqabane, lizele ukukhulelwa. Xa umntu evakalelwa iimvakalelo, akaqwalaleli nje umfazi ngendlela ethile, kodwa uzama ukuhlala esondele kuye. Inkampani ihleli ngasemva, kwaye yedwa isebenzisa wonke amathuba ukuthabatha isandla, inxiba inqeni, njl.
Unokufumana njani kunye naziphi iimpawu ukuba uyandithanda?
Izenzo zixelela wonke umntu malunga nomntu. Ukugula kunye nomfazi wakhe othandekayo, uya kuzisa ii-oranges esibhedlele, kwaye ngexesha lokungabikho kwakhe, uya kuthatha umsebenzi wokutya nokuhamba inja yakhe. Izibhengezo kwivili lesondo, unokuqiniseka ukuba indoda enothando ishesha ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ayiyi kuphuma neqela lezizathu zokungahambi. Fumana into oyithandayo kunye nesizathu sokuba uziphatha ngayo nenkampani yakhe ethandekayo. Uninzi luyabonakalisa ngokwabo, lubelana ngeemvakalelo zabo kunye namava, buyisela, kuba luziva lukhululekile kwaye lukhululekile kwinkampani. Abanye "behla phantsi ophahleni" kwaye bayazikhohlisa, behleka baze bahlekise, nangona kukho abo baziva bexhamle ngokubambisana ngokusondeleyo kunye neminqweno yabo.
Fumana ukuba uyayithanda ngokwenene indlela umntu enza ngayo izicwangciso zobomi. Ukuba uthe "thina" esikhundleni sokuba "mna" kwaye uthetha ukuba unomfazi osondeleyo oza kuba nekhaya elifanayo, intsapho kunye nabantwana, kodwa unokuqiniseka ngokuvakalelwa kwakhe. Kodwa izicwangciso zokwakha ikusasa, kwaye zicwangcise izinto nje ngoku, umntu uhlala ecinga ngoluvo lwakhe lomlingane. Ukuba uyabonisana nayo nayiphi na isizathu kwaye uyayixabisa imbono yakhe, ngoko,
Ufuna ukuba malunga neeyure ezingama-24 ngosuku kwaye wenze konke, kodwa ngelo xesha lihlonipha ilungelo lomntu kwisithuba somntu. Akayi kuluxhathisa intlangano yenkampani yenkukhu, kodwa uya kuthatha nawuphi na umfazi kwi-cafe aze amhlangabeze apho. Abathandi abaninzi bayaqaphela ukuba iingcamango zabo ziguquka kwaye zivame xa umntu eqala ibinzana, enye iphelile. Kwimeko nayiphi na, intliziyo ayiyi ku khohlisa kwaye iya kuxela indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ukuba bathanda kunye nokunyaniseka.