Phantse bonke ubudlelwane bobubele buqala ngokubambisana. Ngokuyinene, abafazi bakhetha iqabane elilinganayo, kwaye ke yonke into eyenzekayo ngokubhekiselele kwimeko esheshayo yehlabathi lanamhlanje. Namhlanje kulula kakhulu ukuxelela intandane "Ukutya" kunokulwela ukuphucula nokulondoloza ubudlelwane. Ngokutsho kweengqondo zengqondo, iimvakalelo ezinjalo zingapheli ngaphezu kweminyaka emithathu, kungekudala okanye emva koko isenzo seepheromones siphela kwaye inzima ibeka ulwalamano.
Ixesha lobudlelwano boluthando
- Ukwanelisa . Kulo thuba yonke into eyenziwa egameni luthando, iindinyana kunye neengoma zenziwe. Eli gama libizwa nangokuthi "uthando lweekhemikhali" kwaye uyilithelekise ngentswelo yokuvuya. Ngeli xesha, abathandekayo bachitha ixesha elininzi kunye kunye nemvakalelo yomnye nomnye.
- I-saturation . Isigaba esilandelayo ekuphuhliseni ubudlelwane bobubele xa kuvela ukuvalelwa kwemiva. Inokufika ngonyaka okanye kwiveki, konke kuxhomekeke kumntu. Sekunjalo le nkoliso yamabhangqa amaninzi yile nyathelo "esuka ekuthandweni kwenzondo".
- Ukulahlwa . Le meko ingafaniswa nokuvuswa, emva kobusuku obunobundlobongela obunobundlobongela. Ubunzima beentsebenziswano zothando lubonakalisa uxinzelelo olunzulu kumlingane, kunye nokudandatheka . Kulo thuba iindidi ezininzi zidibanisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwenzeka ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yomgaqo wokuzingca: namhlanje ndiziva ndilungile, ngoko sinobunye, kwaye kusasa, ndiziva ndibi kwaye asivumelani.
- Umonde . Kule nqanaba lolwalamano lothando lufikelela kumadoda nabasetyhini abasasazanayo kwaye bakulungele ukusebenza. Iimeko eziphambili eziya kunceda ukujamelana neengxaki kunye nokuphumeza umonde kubakho bokubaluleka kobomi. Abalingani mabaqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba kutheni bahlangene kunye nokuba bafuna ukugcina ubudlelwane.
- Amatyala . Kudibanisa umonde kunye nemvakalelo yomsebenzi oya kukunceda ukujamelana neengxaki kwibudlelwane kwaye uqhubele phambili kwisigaba esilandelayo.
Abaninzi banokuthi uthando kunye nomsebenzi zichazwe ngokungafaniyo, kodwa kuphela ezo zintsebenziswano eziza kulwa nazo zixesha elide. Nqabile njengoko kubonakala ngathi, umgaqo othi "Ukunyanzeliswa - owela othandweni" usebenza rhoqo. Akumangalisi ukuba oogogo bahlala ngaloo ndlela, kwaye ipesenteji yowesahlukaniso ngelo xesha yayisondele. - Ukuhlonipha . Ubudlelwane obuye babhekana nazo zonke izigaba zangaphambili, baba namandla kwaye baqala ukubonisa ukubonga nothando. Umntu ocebile ngokomoya kuphela onokukwazi ukunyamezela nokwenza into ngaphandle komsebenzi .
Ukuqonda ingqondo yezobudlelwane nothando kuya kunceda ukugcina ubudlelwane obufudumeleyo kwaye uyenze entliziyweni yakho iminyaka emininzi.