Yintoni engayithandiyo uthando ? Uthando lungabonakali, kwaye kuthini uthando ngokubanzi? Ukuba ekugqibeleni sasiyiqonda le ngcamango, sinokucacisa ngokucacileyo ukuba yintoni ubomi bethu, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuba lula, kwaye ... kunokuba kunzima kakhulu. Kodwa, sinakho oko esinakho, kwaye ukuba unokuthandana ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Yintoni enokuyenza kunye nendlela onokuzuza ngayo kweli lizwe, funda.
Ukufunda ukuthanda kude
Uziva ngathi ungumfel 'ukholo, ubuza izulu, kutheni kwenzeka ntoni nawe "ngengozi". Kodwa izikhalazo zakho ziphikisana nomgaqo-mqobo wothando - ukwenza njalo ukuba umxholo wakho uzive kakuhle. Ukuba akayithandi (okwangoku), musa ukuphazamisa kwaye umiselwe kulo mntu, kuba kuya kuba nzima kuwe nakwakhe. Funda ukuvuya ngenxa yakhe, kuba yonke into ikulungele kwaye inomnqweno konke okulungileyo.
Zizinikele kwizinto ezintle
Ukubandezeleka kuyindawo efanelekileyo yokufezekisa. Xa sithandana ngokungathandabuzekiyo, i-palette eqaqambileyo yeemvakalelo , iimvakalelo ezinamandla, ezingapheliyo kufuneka zigijime kumzila othile. Yenza inqaku lakho "lothando", uzive ungumhlaba wezinto zobugcisa uze ufumane kule ndawo. Mhlawumbi awuyi kuba ngumlobi obalaseleyo, oyinakhono yokupenda okanye i-piano yepiyano (nangona oko kwenzeka), kodwa umsebenzi wokudala uza kukunceda ufumane uvuyo lobomi, ube luncedo kwihlabathi kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, vula intlungu yakho ibe yinto enhle kwaye iphakade.
Uthando olungathandekiyo sizathu sokulahlekelwa isisindo?
Ngaba ubuye ulahla inkqubo yakho yokulahleka kwesisindo ixesha elide kunabo bonke kwibhokisi elide kakhulu lemisebenzi kunye nezicwangciso? Emva koko imeko yakho yangoku ingaba ngumzuzu ofanelekileyo wokutshintsha. Ukulawula onke amandla akho kutshintsho, ukufezekisa, kwaye mhlawumbi iifom zakho ezichitshiweyo ziya kufumana abalandeli babo.
Zizenzele!
Abasetyhini bahlala begcina ngokwabo, ngelixa bechitha imali eninzi kwiintsapho ezininzi, izilwanyana, iimfuyo. Uthando lwehlabathi lufanele luqale ngokuthanda uqobo, oku kuthetha ukuba unayo ngokwaneleyo ukuzinzela imali. Qiniseka ukuba kwimeko yangoku ufune ukuzithengela into ebiza kakhulu neyakhawulezileyo, into oyilangazelela.
Yiya kwimidlalo
Ezemidlalo - le yindlela engcono yokuphazamisa iingcamango. Sekunjalo, xa ukuthukuthela kududuza kuwe, umoya uphelelwa kwaye intliziyo iphuma esifuba sakho, kholwa kum, ngeli xesha awucingi naluphi na uthando, kungabikho ngokuthandana, okanye ngokungahambisani. Ukongezelela, ukunyusa ukuphefumula ngexesha lokuzivocavoca umzimba kuncedisa ekuqaliseni i-endorphins - i-hormone yolonwabo, kwaye yile nto ulahlekileyo!
Vumela ukuba uxolo
Mhlawumbi unamhlobo olungele ukubonisa imfesane, wabelane nabo ngentlungu. Bayeke bazisole, bavumele ukuba banakekele kwaye bakukholise. Khumbula, nayiphi na umhlobo oyinyani uza kuqala ukukunika ixesha elide, ukukhuthaza ukunyakaza nokuphuma kwixinzelelo. Kwinqanaba lokuqala liya kuba luncedo kakhulu, kuba kungekhona wonke umntu okwazi ukuzithobela kwi-gym efanayo.
Phumelela iinjongo zakho
Ngokugqithiseleyo amantombazana azama ukuba ngcono "ngobubi" kubabenzi babo. Le ndlela ayilona ihloniphekileyo, kodwa kwimeko ezininzi isebenza. Ziqhelise, zihlale zigqibeleleyo-i-hairstyle efanelekileyo, igqoke ngeenaliti, ize ithwale imfucumfucu kuyo yonke indawo. Inkuthazo eyintloko kukuba "ukuba uya kudibana nam, ndimele ndibukeke ngathi ngu-100, masizisole ngokunganakwa."
Ngoko, konke oku ngasentla kuya kukwanela ukukrazula uthando oluncibilikisayo. Zama ukulandela ezi ngcebiso, kwaye uthando lwakho olungathandabuzeki luya kuba yisinyathelo sakho ebomini obutsha-obuhle, elicucisiweyo, egcweleyo, eyaziwayo kunye nempumelelo.
Ngolunye usuku uya kudibana nomfana wakho olwahlulekayo. Uza kuziva ntoni? Uphazamisekile ukuba unokukulimaza kakhulu, kuba uye waba bhetele ngeli xesha, kwaye wahlala apho, ebudeni obudlulayo.