Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba amadoda namabhinqa abemi beeplanethi ezahlukeneyo. Akumangalisi ukuba elowo kubo unezinto eziphambili. Ukongezelela, abesifazana abesinikwa ngokwesini banokutsaliswa kwiimpawu ezithile zamadoda, azingacingi. Makhe sibone uluphi uhlobo lweempawu umntu azixabisa kakhulu ngabasetyhini.
Ziziphi iimpawu ezixabiswa ngabantu?
- Ukholiswa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba abe kufuphi nomnye, obani abafazi abaninzi abaphupha ukuba bodwa, abo bathetha ngabo. Abasetyhini basenabo badibanayo , ngoko ke ukuba babe nomntu onomntu othile, ilitye elihle kumyezo weentombi zamabhongo.
- Indoda yakhe kufuneka ibe nekhwalithi engabalulekanga, njengobungakanani. Wonke umfazi ufuna ukuhlala njengodonga lwamatye, uzive ukhuselekile kwaye ngexesha elifanayo uqonde ukuba banalo ubudlelwane nomntu welizwi eliqinisekisa ukuzithemba kwikamva.
- Amantombazana adibana nalabo abangakhathali ukubonisa imihla ngemihla nokubonisa uthando lwabo. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba akwazi ukuthetha ulwimi lwakhe lothando. Kwaye oku, akukho nto iyakwazi ukuyivuma, yenye yezinto eziphambili zokwakha ubudlelwane obuvumelanayo.
- Ikhono lokuthetha iincoma, apho ukubulela okufihliweyo kukhethiweyo wakhe, mhlawumbi, enye yeempawu zomntu onamandla. Emva koko, ibhinqa kufuneka iziva iyingqayizivele kwaye ingenakwenzeka. Nangona umthandi wakhe uthe oko kuye kwantya kwasekuseni, unxanelwe ukuziva unganakwenzeka, unokuzibonakalisa kuye ngamaxesha amaninzi ngosuku.
- Umgangatho ophambili umntu omele abe nawo uyakwazi ukunyamekela intanda yakhe, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ayinakuzala. Akukho butyebi kunye nokubukeka kwe-Hollywood akusayi kuthatha indawo yokukwazi ukumnkqangaza kumfazi othandekayo ngexesha lokukhathazeka kweemeko kunye nexhala.