Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bafumana ubuninzi beentlanzi ezahlukeneyo, baninzi babo bengenasiphelo. Ezinye zizithuba zesikhashana kwaye zivele kuphela kwixesha elide. Uloyiko olunjengokuxhalabisa, ukuxhalaba okanye ukwesaba iindawo eziphakamileyo zivame ukukhathazeka ngokwemvakalelo nangokwemvelo, ininzi yabantwana abazalwa ngumntwana. Kuye kuthengwa. Ezi ziquka ukwesaba okubonakala kwinkqubo yokwesatshiswa ngabazali. Kuye ngabo baya kuxutyushwa kule nqaku.
Ngoobani abantwana abesaba ngabazali babo?
Kwilizwe ngalinye kukho inkcubeko, ingqondo, ngokukodwa ukukhuliswa komntwana kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, iindlela zabo zokuxhaphaza umntwana, ukuba wenqaba ukuthobela. Ngoko makhe sibone umzekelo wamazwe athile, abanoyikisayo abazali bezingane zabo:
- ENgilani, izilo ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo ziye zaqulunqwa kule njongo, kodwa ezona ziwayo kwaye ziyaziwa kwi-cinema yi-Boogeyman. Kwiminyaka emakhulu eminyaka, iNgesi yatshitshisa abantwana babo ngeengongoma zesiganeko esibi esifihla kwindawo ethile kwigumbi kwaye ukuba umntwana akayithobeli, ngoko iBogegeyman iphuma kwindawo eyimfihlo kwaye iyamoyikisa.
- EFransi, ukuduma kweendlobongela zasebusuku, yiKostoprav, kwi-professional real profession. Ngokuqhelekileyo ubonakaliswa njengomntu omdala onomsindo ophethe isikhwama apho efihla abantwana abangenanto. Ngokutsho kwamabali, uKostopravy uhambahamba kwiidolophu aze athathe kunye nabantwana abaye badlala kwaye abafuni ukulala. Kwaye indawo ayithandayo yokuhlala phantsi kwebhokisi lendlu, apho ehlala khona ngaphambi kokuba kube mnyama.
- EJamani, ukuthandwa kweKrampus. Le ngqungquthela efana neyinyama, elandelwayo, ihamba kunye neTt Nicholas nge-Krismesi kwaye ijezisa abantwana endleleni eyahlukana nayo yonke loo nyaka. Kukho iinguqulelo uKrampus ezinamantombazana angathobeliyo kwisigxobo sakhe, amthwala emqolombeni, apho adla khona isidlo sakusihlwa okanye amthabise kwiqonga lakhe, aze ahlasele elwandle. Yilo hlobo luni lomzali ayithandayo.
- E-Rashiya, njengoko kunamabali amaninzi amankqantosa yokwesabisa abantwana abangathobeliyo. Ingaba ngabalinganiswa beengoma zomntu (Baba Yaga, Koschey, Nightingale iRobber, njl.), Impisi, ingcuka, abanye bayesabisa iphoyisa elinomalume. Phakathi kwabo, ininzi ethandwa kakhulu yi-butterfly. Udlalwa ngokubanzi ngabazali bakhe xa befuna ukubeka abantwana ukuba balele, ngaphandle komnqweno okhethekileyo wabantwana. Ngoko ibhentshi ibonakala ngathi? Ngokuqhelekileyo akachazwa ngandlela-thile, ukuba abantwana banokucinga ngomfanekiso wesona. Nangona abanye beyidonsa ngendlela yendoda endala enemfumba okanye i-monster enesisu. Ngokweembali zabazali bakhe, uyazifihla phantsi kombhede kwaye xa umntwana ephuma ebhedeni, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuwela ezandleni ze-babayka.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukwethusa umntwana?
Makhe sibone ukuba kunokwenzeka yini ukwesabisa umntwana kunye nomfazi kwaye nokuba kungenzeka yinikisayo umntwana. Iingcali zengqondo zithi le yenye yeendlela ezimbi kunazo zonke zokukhulisa umntwana, umda ngokusetyenziswa kwamandla omzimba. Ukuba umntwana usoloko eyika ama-militiamen ngeentonga, oogqirha abaneesirring, i-sweaters, ngokugqithiseleyo ulahlekelwa ithemba kwihlabathi, uya kutsala kakhulu. Oku kungaguqulela kwiingxaki ezintsha, ezifana: ukwesaba kobumnyama, ukwesaba ukuba yedwa, ukuhoxiswa. Ukwesatshiswa kwengane esikhundleni sokuxhaswa kwabazali uvakalelwa uxhala kunye ne-alarm, ukuba inokunika kunoma yimuphi umalume okanye iya kudliwa yi-monster enkulu.
Bonke abazali abanalo ixesha elaneleyo lokuchazela ngokucacileyo umntwana ukuba kutheni bengenakukwenza, nantoni na. Kulula kakhulu ukumsongela nge-monster okanye kumbi, ukusebenzisa amandla, kodwa ezi ndlela ziza kubakho nto. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntwana aziva uthando kunye nenkxaso yabazali bakhe, kwaye ahlale eyoyika rhoqo ukubonakala kwe-bamboo.