Ukwabelana ngesondo - into ebaluleke kakhulu yothando lwenkanuko, umanyano ophezulu wemiphefumlo kunye nemizimba yabantu abanothando. Ngoko ke, ukungabikho kokuzonwabisa, ukuvisisana ngexesha lobudlelwane obusondeleyo yingxaki yangempela efuna isigqibo esithile esilungileyo solu hlobo, indlela yokuphumla ngexesha lesini.
Kutheni ndikwazi ukuphumla ngexesha lesini?
Ngamanye amaxesha intombazana (okanye nokuba yintombazana) ayikwazi ukuphumla ngexesha lesondo ngenxa yokuba uyazicingela ngokwakhe: kodwa nokuba ndilala kakuhle, ndihamba ngokuthe tye, kwaye kwinqabana izolo iqhume phezulu, kwaye izikali zibonisa i-500 grams - kakuhle, uya kuphumla njani, ukuba uhlala uyika ukubonakala ungendawo okanye ungenayo isondo!
Kule meko, kufuneka uqeqeshe ukuba ungacingi ngakuwe kunye nokungapheleli kwakho, kodwa malunga nomthandayo kunye nomnqweno wokuthandana naye, ngoko uya kulibala malunga nomyeni wakho ongeke akwazi. Ukuba kuhamba kakubi, andinakholwa ukuba umfazi onenkqonkqo unokwenza uxhaso lwezesondo, kufuneka uluhlule ngokwengqondo sonke isidima sakho (inwele ezintle, amehlo ocacileyo, ukuma kwebele, ukuqonda zonke iimpawu zobuntu zesithandana) - abazithethi ngaphezu komntu oyedwa?
Kwenzeka ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwemvakalelo evela kumsebenzi okanye kwindlela yokuthutha: intloko yamemeza, omnye umlumbi owayedala. Yaye zonke iingcinga zibuyela kwisenzo esingekho sikweni.
Kule meko, kufuneka ulungiselele kwangaphambili (thatha ibhokhwe ecocekileyo, mamela umculo omnandi, ubukele ifilimu yothando) - yonke into inokwenzeka kumyeni wakho othandekayo. Kwaye akusekho umbuzo wendlela yokufunda ukuphumla ngexesha lesondo - uza kulungelelaniswa ngendlela efanelekileyo kwangaphambili.
Ukwabelana ngesondo - akukona nje ukubonakaliswa kobuhlobo obusondelene, kodwa komoya. Mhlawumbi isizathu sokuba intliziyo inomntu othandayo. Kungcono ukuba ungabamba ilitye esifubeni sakho. Okanye fumana ubuhlobo, khala, khala, okanye uxolele, ngaphandle kokuxabana, kodwa kwintliziyo. Bobabini, kwaye omnye unceda, kuxhomekeke kuphela kumntu.
Ngamanye amaxesha bayabuza indlela yokuphumla ngexesha lesini lesini . Kodwa kusekho uhlobo olulinganiselweyo lobuhlobo. Mhlawumbi akanakho ukuthambekela, kwaye umzimba uwuphawu? Emva kwakho konke, unokuza nezinye iindlela ezingabangela ukuphendula okubuhlungu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, enye indlela yokukrazula ukudibanisa ngexesha lobudlelwane obusondeleyo kukuphulaphula umzimba wakho. Kwaye zonke izinto ziya kulungiswa.