Kutheni uthatha uneminyaka emibili ubudala ekhaya?
Ukukhupha kwamanzi amanqwanqwa kungakhanjiswa ekuphuhliseni ubuchule. Abantwana bayonwabile ukupenda. Kufanelekile ukunikela iphepha elinamaphepha, kunye neepensele okanye abamakishi. Unako ukunika umntwana i-stencil, apho angenza iimifanekiso ezingenakuthobeka. Ukuba abazali bayesaba ukungcoliseka okukhulu ngenxa yokuzithoba kwezingane, ngoko ke ingcamango ecacileyo iya kuba ukufaka ibhodi yamagnetic.
Ungathenga iiseti zamabhile ahlukeneyo. Abantwana ziindlela zokuchitha ixesha elidlala nabo.
Kwifriji unako ukubeka amatshini ngomfanekiso wemifuno, iziqhamo, izilwanyana. Izingane zingazijonga kwaye zidlala ngexesha umama elungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa.
Abanye oomama abazi ukuba yiyiphi imidlalo ekuthabatha umntwana kwiminyaka emi-2 ngexesha lokupheka. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana babukela ngokuzonwabisa oko kwenzeka ekhitshini. Ingane inokupheka ukutya kwizinto zokudlala. Ungaphinde unikeze ezinye izityalo, i-pasta, apho i-crumb iyakuthululela khona, inyuse. Unokwenza oku ngezandla zakho okanye ngepuni. Ngexesha elithile inkunzi iya kuthathwa yinkqubo yokondla amathoyizi. Masibacele ukuba bazame ukupheka kwabo baze baphathe nganye iipuni. Ukuba unina unika amabhokisi ebusana bobukhulu obuhlukeneyo, ngoko unako ukuwafaka omnye kwelinye. Abantwana abaninzi bayonwabile ukujonga iimbiza, iintsimbi zeplastiki, zithatha iibhondi kubo ngobukhulu. Le mi sebenzi ayiyikuvuyela umntwana kuphela, kodwa inokunceda ukuyihlakulela.
Kuyafaneleka ukuba ucinge, kunokuba uthathe umntwana onobuchopho kwiminyaka emi-2. Emva koko, aba bantwana bahlala bengenasiphelo kwaye behlala bebeka ingozi kubo. Hlela ixesha kunye nosana, unokumnika umdlalo odlala umdlalo. Kwaye kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba umntwana kufuneka anikezwe iindima ezingabonakaliyo. Ekuqaleni, umdlalo awufanele ufune ukugcinwa kwemithetho emininzi. Kwakhona inkwenkwe inokunikezwa kunye nemisebenzi yokuthula (imodeli, ukudweba). Baya kuncedisa ukukhuthaza. Kubalulekile ukukhuthaza iziqhekeza ngokubandakanyeka kwimisebenzi efuna ukuxinwa.
Izifundo kubantwana kwizothutho
Ukuhamba uhambo, abazali kufuneka bathathe isigqibo sokuba benzani nomntwana oneminyaka emi-2 emotweni, ngesitimela, kwi -moya. Ukuba umntwana uxakeke ngezinto ezithakazelisayo, ngoko akayi kuba yinto engabonakaliyo kwaye abonise ukunganeliseki.
Itheknoloji yanamhlanje ikuvumela ukuba uququzelele i-movie malunga naluphi na uhlobo lothutho. Ngenxa yokuba umntwana unokunikela ukuba abukele ikhathuni yakho oyintandokazi. Kwimoto, unokuphulaphula iincwadi ezilalelwayo, iingoma zezingane ezicolileyo. Ukongezelela, ukuphulaphula kwabo kuphucula indlela yokujonga ulwazi.
Xa uhamba nomntwana, kuyimfuneko ukuthatha izinto ezilandelayo eziza kunceda ukulungiselela ukuzonwabisa kwakhe:
umdlalo ozithandayo wengane, emva kwayo yonke into anokuthetha ngayo, xelela malunga nohambo; - iipuzzle ezahlukeneyo kunye namathoyizi eemfundo angayinceda ingqwalasela yeemvuthu ngexesha elithile;
- Iincwadi eziqaqambileyo ezinemifanekiso ziza kuphazamisa inkunzi yenkomo kwithuba elithile;
- Ukuzonwabisa okumangalisayo kunye nokuncedisayo kuzakudlala kunye nomama wakho kwimidlalo yeminwe okanye iimbongo zokufunda kunye neengoma (abantwana bazikhumbula ngokukhawuleza baze bazame ukuphinda emva kwakho emva kokufunda okuqela).
- Ezi zifundo ezilula ziza kunceda xa uhamba naziphi na izithuthi.