Abantu abaninzi bajamelana nale meko xa intloko iqonda ukuba ubuhlobo sele buvele buyeke, kodwa iimvakalelo azikabi. Kule meko, kubanda kukunceda. Izithethe ezilula ziza kwenza ukuba kube nzima ukugqithisa ubudlelwane kunye nokuqala ubomi obutsha. Kubalulekile ukulandelelanisa yonke imigaqo, kuba i-rite ingaba nemiphumo emibi.
Ndizipholisa njani?
Ekubeni i-lapel ithathwa yedwa, ayinakuqwalaselwa njengomlingo omnyama. Kufuneka ukhunjulwe ukuba umkhosi uheha amandla omnyama kwaye ukuba awuzikhuseli ngaphambili, oku kungenza imiphumo engathandekiyo. Kufuneka ukuba uye ecaweni, faka ikhandlela ezintathu kuyo nayiphi na imifanekiso uze ufunde imithandazo enjalo: "UBawo wethu", "Jabula, Theotokos", "Isibonakaliso Sokholo" kunye nomnye umthandazo kumsanta wakho.
Ukuchitha i-lapel imise kwinyanga eyanqamlekileyo kwiintsuku ezifanelekileyo zesini, oko kubamakhosikazi ngoLwesithathu, ngoLwesihlanu nangomgqibelo, nakwabanye abantu. Akunqunyelwe ukuqhuba ubanda kubakho, ukuba ukuthanda umlingo kusetyenziswa ngaphambili. Kubalulekile ukwenza isithethe, xa kwakukho ukwahlukana, kodwa iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu zahlala. Thatha ikhandlela lebandla kunye neenwele zakho kunye nomntu owayesithandayo. Ngobusuku bokuqala emva kwenyanga epheleleyo, beka amabhandlela amabini, uwakhanyise aze atshise ilangabi ngalinye elitsheni. Emva kwemizuzu embalwa, gxotha ikhandlela uze ushiye kwada kwaze kwaba ngobusuku obulandelayo. Phakathi kobusuku, usasaza amakhandlela umgama ukusuka komnye nomnye kwaye uphinde uzikhanyise kwakhona. Phinda le zenzo iintsuku ezisixhenxe. Kubalulekile ukuba ngobusuku bokugqibela ikhandlela zitshiswa ngokupheleleyo. Ngomso ukugubha i-wax eseleyo kwi-rag kwaye uyilahle kuyo nayiphi na into, uthi la magama:
"Andifuni nanto uthando kulokhu olubuhlungu
Andifuni ukulala ebusuku.
Ndiza kukhululeka ngoku
Ndiza kukhululeka ngonaphakade
Kwaye ukuba ndifuna - ngoko ndiza kuthatha isigqibo sokuba ngubani onokuyithanda
Kwaye ndiya kuzinza intliziyo yam
Kule nto iNkosi uThixo, uYesu Kristu, ingqina kum! Amen! "
Ukuba ibanda lichanekile, ngoko akukho miphumo. Ngaphandle koko, ukubandezeleka kunokunyusa kunye nobutshaba kwaye inzondo yeso sangaphambili ingavela.
Ukupholisa kumdlali
Ukuthanda ukulibala elinye ibhinqa, unokuqhuba i-rite elula. Kule nto kufuneka ube nesithombe, ipakethi yetyuwa, ikhandlela ezintathu, iitrato, iingubo kunye nentambo yeboya, bonke abamnyama. Kulo gumbi apho izithethe ziza kwenzeka khona, akufuneki kubekho izixhobo zombane. Beka itafile kunye nosihlalo phakathi kwegumbi. Ngehora enye ekuseni, ngena kwigumbi uze wenze ityuwa ejikeleze itafile kunye nekhanda lesitulo. Yenza yonke into evulekileyo. Xa ungene kwisangqa, akuvumelekile ukuba ushiye kude kube sekupheleni komcimbi . Itafile igqitywe ngeetafile, zibeke amakhandlela ngonxantathu ukuze loo mibini ibone umgama omnye, kwaye okwesithathu ihamba phambili kwaye ichaza ngasentla. Khanyisa amakhandlela ngewashi. Kwisitya esinzulu, faka i-clop flap, phezulu kwetyuwa engathuliyo kunye nesithunzi sombambano. Emva koko, zithi la mazwi: "Njengoko ndakugubungela, ukusuka kwintsimi yam isithandwa, ngoko akudingeki ukuba ube naye, ungamthandi, unqwenela ukutshisa, unike zonke iimvakalelo zetyuwa. I-salon - solonitsa, ungudadewethu, uthando (igama lomncintiswano), thabatha, lipholise intliziyo yakho nomphefumlo. Ityuwa yovakalelo iya kuthatha, (igama lomncintiswano) uxolo luyazi. "Thulula ityuwa encinane kwisithombeni. Thatha umfanekiso ozithandayo ubeke kwisitya, kodwa ubheke phezulu, uthi la magama:
"Mhlobo wam, othandekayo, ungabi nawe (igama lomqhubi),
INkosi ikhoboka likaThixo,
Uvakalelwa ukumbuyisela emuva, ukumthanda ukuba apholise,
Andifanele ndixhalabele ngomnqweno wokufumanisa, akukho umnqweno, okanye ukuthambekela, okanye inkathazo yenhliziyo ukususela ngoku kube sekupheleni kweenkulungwane.
Vumela iqhwa loxhumo lwakho kunye nokujika kwalo,
O ukungabi nandaba kunye nokubanda kuza kuphula. Yiba njalo. "
Kukho ityuwa encinane phezulu. Emva koko gquba intsimbi ukwenza into ibonakale njengemvulophu. Ubophe ngentambo uze uyigqume ngakumbi uthi:
"Yintoni ehleliwe, ayiyi kuphinda iphinde izalwe, kwilizwe lokuphila ngonaphakade."
Isithethe siya kuba namandla okhethekileyo ukuba ungcwaba imvulophu emangcwabeni.