Uluntu lwangoku luyinkqubo engqongqo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, ukuzama ukulinganisa enye imilinganiselo yexabiso lehlabathi, indlela eye yathonyelwa lifa lemveli neenkcubeko ezahlukeneyo. Njengoko uyazi, nayiphi na i-macrosystem inamalungu amaninzi amacandelo, kwaye uluntu alukhethi. Ngamnye wabameli bakhe, ngenye indlela, igalelo ekuphuhlisweni kwayo yonke "imfuyo" ngokubanzi, kodwa ngokwemvelo imigaqo yengxelo ihlala isenza kwaye, ngoko ke, impembelelo yoluntu ekubunzeni ubuntu bomntu ngamnye ayibalulekanga kwaye kwaye, nokuba akuyona nto ebalulekileyo kunye neyona nto ebalulekileyo.
Uvela phi?
Nawuphi na umntu ukususela ngexesha lokuzalwa kwakhe awela kwindawo ethile yentlalo, apho indima yakhe idlala ngamasiko, amasiko, kunye neenqobo zenkcubeko nezenkcubeko. Intsapho, isangqa sangaphakathi kwaye, ekugqibeleni, imimandla eyamkelwayo jikelele apho ihlabathi esidibanisa nayo iqala, ngokukhawuleza xa singena kwixesha eliqinileyo, njani ukususela kwiplastiki enokubumba kuthi kuthi emva koko ibe yinto engundoqo yethu kwaye sinqume ukuba ngokomoya nokuziphatha vector, egxile kuyo, siya kwakha ubomi bethu besikhathi esizayo.
Ngaloo ndlela, impembelelo yoluntu ekubunjweni kobuntu inkulu kwaye akukho nto inokwenzeka ukuyilungisa ukubaluleka kwayo kule nqanaba. Kodwa kwixesha elizayo, alinqumi. Sisoloko sijonge imigaqo ebalulekileyo yobomi xa sikhetha enye okanye enye indlela yokusebenzisana nabanye kwaye sizame ukunika uvavanyo olujoliswe kuyo ngokuziphatha kwabo ngokwemiqathango. Ngoko impembelelo yoluntu ngobuntu bomntu iyaqhubeka ekupheleni kweentsuku zakhe. Uluntu luyakwenza, kwaye luyakunceda. Uxhoma iilebhile, ngokubhekiselele kuyo isimo sethu kunye nendawo kwindawo yokubala efana nayo. Konke oku kuchaphazela amandla kunye nobuthathaka buntu bethu, kusenza sihlakulele ukukwazi ukulungelelanisa imeko, kuxhomekeke kwiimeko.
Ukholelwa okanye uqonde?
Kodwa impembelelo yoluntu ekuphuhlisweni komntu siqu ayikho kuphela. Ukudideka kweengcamango ezahlukeneyo zenkcubeko okanye utshintsho oluphoqelekileyo (umzekelo, ukufudukela kwelinye ilizwe) kunokukhokelela ekubunjweni komntu ngamnye othathwa ngombono wokungena kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo yomntu ngamnye
Imeko ejikelezileyo ngokuqhelekileyo ibonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba yindawo emnyama, kwaye apho i-white, kodwa phakathi kwala mibala emibini ebomini, njengoko iyaziwa, zininzi iintlobo zee-shades kwaye nangona impembelelo engenakuphikiswa koluntu kumntu, kakhulu ekubunjweni kwayo kunye nophuhliso oluqhubekayo kuxhomekeke kwinqanaba lokuziphucula indoda kunye nomnqweno wakhe wokumelana ngokuvisisana nokuthembeka, kunye nokudibanisa ukusebenzisana noluntu olusingqongileyo.