Umtshato awunanto engapheliyo, kwaye ngamaxesha amaninzi kukho iimeko ezithile ezikhutshwe kwi-rut. Ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo kwiintsapho, umbuzo unokuvela: kuthekani ukuba indoda ingenamandla? Okokuqala, hlalutya imeko kwaye ufumane ukuba oko kwenzeka ntoni kwingqondo ... kwaye kuphela malunga nawe.
Indlela yokwenza umyeni wakhe ongenamandla?
Abasetyhini abaninzi abayiqondi into elula: bona, ngokuziphatha kwabo nangendlela abajonga ngayo indoda, yenza indoda ingenamandla. Yintoni ekhokelela ekuphoqiseni ubudlelwane kuze kube lula kangaka?
Umkhwa wokugxeka
Ukuba umntu uva kuwe ukususela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku malunga nendlela engalunganga ngayo nendlela akwenza ngayo into ephosakeleyo, kwaye uvuyo olungenaye ngaphandle kwakhe, uyayeka ukuba ngumfazi kuye kwaye ube ngumdlali. Uthatha indawo ekhuselayo aze athathe onke amagama kunye nobutshaba. Ziziphi iintlobo zesini esingazixoxa ngazo ngolu hlobo? .. Ukugxekwa kuyingozi kakhulu xa kungabonakali yodwa, kodwa esidlangalaleni.
Ukugxininisa kwiingxaki zabantu
Ukuba ubona kuphela into engaziyo, akunakwenzeka, akwazi, kwaye ngokukodwa-ukuxela yonke into yesondo, ukuzithemba komntu kuya kuwa, uya kukhwaza, kwaye akafuni ukuzama ukwenza ngcono okanye ngaphezulu. Uya kukwazi ukudibanisa nembono yakho engafanelekanga, kuba uya kunciphisa izandla.
Ukunganeliseki ngesondo
Ukuba ukhumbuza umntu kukho konke ukungaphumeleli, akayikucinga ngako, ukwesaba ukuyiphinda, ayikwazi ukugxininisa kwinkqubo ... kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uyaphinda ubongamela. Ungalokothi uphawule umntu, zama ukumxhasa. Oku kubalulekile kuye nangentuthuzelo yakho yengqondo.
Ukulahla ukuzinyamekela
Esinye isizathu sokuba umyeni wakho abe nempumelelo malunga nawe-awuzibukeli. Impahla yakho yengubo yengubo okanye i-breeches neT-shirt. Awutshintshi iinwele zakho iminyaka, kodwa ungabonakalisa kumyeni wakho onentloko engcolileyo, kwaye ngaphandle kokuhlanjululwa. Zizo zonke izinto ezincinci - kodwa ezivela kuzo zibonisa ingqiqo. Unokutshatyalalisa lakho iqabane lakho.
Ukukhanyela uphuhliso
Ibhinqa elijolise ekukhuliseni abantwana kwaye ayikho inzuzo ngaphandle kwendlu yayo iba yinto enjani yendlu yomntu. Ukuze indoda ibe nentshisekelo kuwe, kufuneka ube neyakho, iminqweno eyahlukileyo, imisebenzi, izinto zokuzilibazisa, abahlobo.
Ukwenqaba ukugcina unxibelelwano olunobungane
Ukuba awuzami ukumphulaphula, ukuba awukwazi ukuthetha intliziyo yakhe entliziyweni, ukuba unxibelelwano lusekelwe kukufunyaniswa kweephoso, ukunyaniseka kwintloni kunye nokunyanzeliswa kwemfudumalo - ngoko awuzange uthethe ixesha elide njengabahlobo. Ukuba awuyena umhlobo womyeni wakho, ngoko ubonakala ungenaye umntu osondele kuye.
Ezi zezizathu eziqhelekileyo zokuba kungani abafazi bekhalaza ukuba i-muzhik yabo ayinamandla. Nangona, mhlawumbi le nto ingenakusebenza kuphela kumlingane osemthethweni - kuba ubuhlobo buya kubonakaliswa nayo.
Unyango lobuthathaka
Ngoku kukho iikliniki ezininzi ezinikeza izisombululo ezahlukeneyo kule ngxaki. Kodwa khumbula - ukuba umcimbi kukuba ekhaya umntu uvakalelwa ekulweni, kwaye akukho unyango luya kumnceda ukuba atshabele. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo sokuba iqabane lakho linalo
Nangona kuvela ukuba loo nto ayikho imeko yengqondo, kodwa kwingxaki yempilo, akukho mntu uya kuthintela ubuhlobo obufudumele, obuhle kunye neqabane lakhe. Qala utshintsho wena ngokwakho, ungafuneki nantoni na, kwaye uya kuqaphela ukuba intsapho yakho iya kuqala iqalisa ubomi ubomi obutsha.