Wonke umfazi ufuna ukuthandwa kunye nokuzikhethela. Nangona kunjalo, akuwona wonke ummeli wesiqingatha esihle angalitsalisa ingqalelo yindoda ayithandayo. Ukusebenzisa ngobuqili amaqhinga amabhinqa kunye namaqhinga, unokuphumelela ubudlelwane obunobunye kwaye unqobe intliziyo yomthandi.
Indlela yokufunda amaqhinga amabhinqa?
Abasetyhini abavela ekuzalweni banako ukuzithoba ngamadoda kunye nokuthabatha ingqalelo yabo. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha olu buchule luseburhulumenteni obunzima. Ukuze uzivuselele ngokwakho, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba yiziphi iimfihlelo zentombi kunye nobuqili obukhona kwaye ziphuhlise kakuhle:
- Yazi indlela yokuthoba . Fumana kwiimpawu ezilungileyo kunye neepropati oyithandayo, uze umxelele ngazo. Indoda ibaluleke kakhulu ukuba ihlonishwa kwaye iyanconywa, ngoko uya kuphulaphula ngokunyanisekileyo ukuthokoza kwindlela yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, zonke izibongozo kufuneka zinyanisekile kwaye zinyani, kuba ukunyaniseka kungonakalisa yonke into.
- Bonisa ubuthathaka kunye nesidingo somntu onamandla . Abameli besigqeba esomeleleyo sabantu abathandani abafazi abanamandla kunabo ngokuziphatha okanye ngokwenyama. Bathanda ukuba bade kwaye baqaphele. Unokumcela umntu ngomntu omncinane okanye uncedo, oluya kumnceda ukuba abonise iimpawu zakhe.
- Ukwazi ukuphulaphula . Zama ukukhupha loo mntu ukuba uthethe, uze umxhase. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba umntu uphila kwaye uphefumulela. Bonisa ukuba awunamdla kwiminqweno yakhe, kwaye uyamqonda kakuhle. Unxibelelwano olungileyo unalo. Kwaye ukuba umntu uyaqonda ukuba uyamqonda kwaye uyathanda ukuphulaphula, uya kuvuyela ukuthetha nawe.
- Ungabonakali ukuxhomekeka kwakho ngokupheleleyo kumadoda . Indoda ithanda ukunqoba, ngoko umfazi kufuneka ahlale emele kwaye azimeleyo.
- Hlalani mfihlelo . Ungazivuli ngokupheleleyo kwaye uxelele onke amaxesha obomi bakho. Kwinkwenkwezi kufuneka ihlale ibonakala kwaye imfihlelo. Iyakwelela yona kunye
kubangela umnqweno wokuthetha. - Ubuqili bamabhinqa ebudlelwaneni bubandakanya ukukwazi ukunyamekela nokunyamekela . Emva koko, indoda ikhangele ibhinqa lesini esahlukileyo njengowesifazane, ububele kunye nobubele.
Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba amaqhinga amabhinqa ekusebenzelaneni namadoda anokusetyenziswa kuphela xa umntu ekulungele. Kumele ukuba abe nokuthintana nokuqhagamshelana, ukuphumla, ukutya, njl. Ngaphandle koko, ezi zinto ezingabonakaliyo zingonakalisa nayiphi na unxibelelwano kwaye zikhusele ukuqiniswa kobudlelwane.