Ingaba le meko ijwayele kuwe: umntwana uyakhala, ebonisa ukucaphukisa kwakhe, kunye nomama ngokukhawuleza ampophise i-pacifier? Malunga neminyaka emashumi amathathu edlulileyo le nto yayimpendulo ngokuqhelekileyo yowesifazane ongumhlengikazi kwixhala lomntwana wakhe, kuba ngelo xesha unina walelwa ukuba agcine ulawulo olungqongqo kwaye angabhubhisi umntwana "ngokuphindaphindiweyo" kwisicelo esifubeni. Namhlanje imeko yatshintshile: nangona ubuninzi beentlupheko kubantwana kuma-pharmacy, abaninzi abanamama bayakwazi ukuyenza ngaphandle kwabo. Kwaye oogqirha bezilwanyana kunye nabacebisi bokuncelisa babizwa ngokuthi i-dummy kuphela njengotshaba lokuncelisa. Makhe sibone ukuba kutheni.
Dummy kunye ne-HS - phi ingozi?
Ngaphambi kokuba azalwe, esesisu somama, umntwana wafunda ukuncelisa: waqeqesha ngeminwe yakhe nangamaqhawe. Ngelo xesha wayefudumala, ekhululekile kwaye ephephile. Emva kokuzalwa, umntwana uvakalelwa ngeengcamango ezifanayo ngexesha lokuncelisa. Uziva ekhuselekile nonina, uqhubeka efumana ukutya kunina.
Ukuba esikhundleni somntwana umntwana unikezwa i-rabra enye, umntwana ngokuzithandela okanye ngokungenakuzibandakanya kufuneka athathe lo myalelo. Le yilapho ingozi ilala khona: i-dummy ekunceliseni iqala ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo iyichitha umama - iya kubathuthuzela kwaye iyathuthuzele. Umama unikezwa indima "yomniki wokutya" kwaye kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, ingono ikwazi ukunyusa umama phambili.
Siyazi ukuba umntwana kufuneka aqonde kakuhle ibele : kungekhona nje ingono, kodwa inxalenye enkulu ye-areola. I-dummy ayifani ngokupheleleyo nebele, kwaye umntwana akayi kukwazi ukusebenza "ngokuchanekileyo" kweso simulator. Ukuba i-dummy inikezelwa rhoqo, emva kwexesha umntwana usakhula "inkunkuma" esondayo: kunzima ukuthatha isifuba, ijwayele ukuthatha ingono kwaye ayikwazi ukufumana ubisi obaneleyo.
Kwakhona kunzima kumama onomnyoko: Ukunyuka okungekho nto "kubangele ukubonakala kwemifuziselo kwiingxobo , inani lobisi linciphisa kancane kancane. Ingane ayitholi isisindo somzimba, kwaye iqala ukumondla ebhotile. Zininzi iintsana kule ngxaki nje zishiya amabele.
Ngaba ndifuna idummy?
Abacebisi be-GV baphendula ngokuvumelana: iimbumba kunye nokuncelisa akunxulumani. Unina unakho kwaye kufuneka azinqabise umntwana. Kodwa iintsana - "i-dummy" iyadingeka! Xa engekho isifuba somama, nguye owanelisa i-reflex yokutsala.
Ewe, umama kufuneka anqume ukuba angamnika umntwana umntwana owenza i-pacifier. Musa ukuphulaphula "abafuna kakuhle". Inkxalabo ebalulekileyo yengane yakho yimpilo kunye nenhlalakahle. Ukuba usenokugqiba ukuzisa umntwana kunye ne-pacifier ngexesha lokuncelisa, ulisebenzise ngaphandle kobuqili.