Ngamaxesha onke kwakukho abantu ababenokubaluleka ngokomoya ngokwabo. I-Asceticism ayiyona indlela ababuthathaka emoyeni, kodwa nangomntu oqhelekileyo, oye wagqiba ekubeni aziva kwaye wazi ngokwamandla, uyakwazi ukwenza. Umqhubi wendalo unyusela amandla akhe ngokuphindaphindiweyo-ngoko imithombo yobulumko ithi.
I-Asceticism - yintoni na?
Izenzo zokomoya - inxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi be-ascetics-abantu abaye bahamba endleleni yokuxhamla. Umntu uqala ukucinga ukuba akayena nje umzimba, kodwa ungumoya. I-Asceticism iyindlela ekhethekileyo yokuzikhethela kwindlela yokuziphelela, ehambisana nokuzibhokoxa ngokuzenzekelayo ukucoceka ngokomoya nangokwenyama ngokwenza izinto zokuzikhawulela, izibhambathiso ezinzima kunye nokunyanzelwa ngokuzithandela kwezibonelelo ezininzi. Iinjongo zokwehliswa kwezinto ezihlukeneyo zingahluka:
- esondela kwi-essence yakho, ukudibana nomthombo;
- ulwazi loBungqina kunye noxhumano nazo zonke ezikhoyo;
- ukwandiswa kwengqondo;
- ukwanda kwamandla;
- ukwenza iziganeko ezingathandekiyo, imeko;
- ukulahla izifo, izibi, iimpawu ezimbi zobuntu ;
- uphuhliso lwezakhono ezingaphezulu;
- ukuhlanjululwa komzimba kunye nengqondo.
Indlela yokwenza ipeni?
I-Asceticism yindlela ekhoyo kwiinkonzo ezininzi zonqulo kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuyifumana ngokufanelekileyo ukuyiqala. Umtsalane ovela emphefumlweni ngumqondiso kwisidingo sokutshintsha into ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho kwaye oku kukuqala kokucinga malunga nokuxhamla. Isinyathelo esibalulekileyo esilandelayo kukufuna ulwazi kwimvelaphi yonqulo, apho umntu engowakho, yonke indawo kukho ubuqili bayo. Amandla enkqantosi inomdla onyanisekileyo womphefumlo kunye nenzuzo enkulu xa kuqhutyelwa umonakalo ngokulunga:
- Izenzo zomzimba ze-Ascesis . Umzimba uyitempile yomphefumlo, ukuba umntu ukhangeleka kwiindawo zokomoya, yonke into iyawa kwindawo. Ukuhlanjululwa kwangaphandle kusetshenziselwa i-shower epholile 2 ngamaxesha. Ukungcola kwangaphakathi kukufumana ukutya okulula nokuncedo . Ukugcinwa kwezithuba kuhlose ukucoca umzimba. Umsebenzi omzimba oqhelekileyo ubaluleke kakhulu.
- Ubungqina bengqondo . Ukufundwa kweencwadi malunga nabantu abalungileyo abashiya uphawu kwimbali, ngenxa yombingelelo wabo nobubele, bazinyamekela kwizinto ezimbi baza bavuka ebuhle. Ukuhlalutya izenzo zakho emini kwaye ukugcina iingcinga zakho kukunceda ubone oko ufuna ukusebenzisana nayo.
- I-Ascesis yentetho ijoliswe ekunciphiseni ukunyakaza okungekho kwindawo. Ukuhleka, ukugwetywa, ukuchaswa kunye nokuziphatha ngokukhatyathwa kuthatha amandla omntu onyelisa. Ubungqingili bokuthulisa luncedo - umntu ongenamdla kwixesha elithile (imini) kwaye ubhala ukuphuculwa kwintlalo kunye namandla. Ukunyaniseka kwintetho kwandisa intuition kunye neengcamango ezingaphezulu.
Ukunamathela ngokwenene kwi-asceticism kusekelwe kwimigaqo elandelayo ebalulekileyo:
- Ukuhlonela abazali kunye nabadala. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, umntu akanakuphumelela impumelelo kuluntu.
- Ukulula kukubona komnye umntu, ukuba ungabi nekratshi. Ukuzidla kuyisono esikhulu.
- Ukungabi nonyango - bonke ubomi buyingcwele. Wonke umntu unelungelo lokukhetha iindlela zakhe nombono. Ukusebenzisa ukuxhaphazwa ngolwazi lwabanye kukhokelela ekukhohliseni amandla, kodwa ekugqibeleni kunokukhokelela kwimpilo yengqondo. Ukungabi nonyango kwiingcamango, amagama, izenzo zendlela yendoda elungileyo.
- Ubumsulwa, bobabini nabasilisa, buqinisa ubuhle.
Ubungqina bhinqa
Amanqatha amabhinqa enenzuzo kakhulu kwintsapho nakwabanye. Indlela yokomoya yowesifazane iqukunjelwa kwinkonzo yentsapho kunye nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo yabesifazane. Ubungqina obukhulu kakhulu abuyinto yesondo esilungileyo. Yonke loo nto eyenziwa ngumfazi imihla ngemihla yindlela yokuxhamla. Ewe, imisebenzi yabasetyhini, eninzi abangayithandiyo, kodwa xa uqala ngokuzonwabisa kwaye uyazi ukuba umfazi ufumana zonke iinzuzo. Ubuqhetseba besifazane:
- ukudala indawo ehambelana nawe;
- I-handicraft (nayiphi na into enqwenelayo) idibanisa ibhinqa enezithethe zamandulo ezindala;
- igama elinobubele ilungu ngalinye lentsapho;
- inyaniso ngamazwi;
- ukuphuhliswa kobulumko ngokusekelwe kumava kubadala;
- intlonelo kunye nengqalelo kwiintsapho zabo kunye nomyeni;
- ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya ngothando (ukupheka, ukucococa, ukuhlamba, njl.), ke amandla amandla atyalomali kwizenzo;
- banakekele imbonakalo yabo (iingubo ezintle, i-hairstyle).
Ama-Asceses kwabesetyhini ukutshata
Uninzi lwamantombazana kuluntu luhlala lukhuselekileyo kwiimbono zabo, kwaye badibana nabafana ngaphambi komtshato, beshumayela ngokukhululekayo-abaphantsi kwabo banethemba lokuba bahlangane kunye kunye babo bonke ubomi babo. Ulutsha ludlula, kodwa umviwa akakho. Yintoni umfazi omele akwenze kule meko? Ukucinga nokuphonononga ubudlelwane nabantu kunokunika iimpendulo. Iindlela ezikhoyo zomtshato ezikhoyo:
- UBawo nonina - ulwalamano oluvisisana nabazali. Ukuba kukho ukungqubuzana nokungabikho kwamkelwa kwabazali, ukungabikho kokubulela kunye nentlonelo kubo, ngokukodwa kubabawo-ukutshata kuya kuba nzima. Ukuxhamla kubandakanya ukuwamkela abazali kunye nokurhoxisa amabango abo kunye nokulindela malunga noko bangakhange banikele.
- Uncedo kwabasweleyo.
- Uqhagamshelwano nabasetyhini abasetyhini. Umoya wentsapho unceda ukuba ulungiswe ngobulungisa, onjalo umfazi uyaba umdla kubantu abafuna ubomi bomhlobo.
- Imithandazo okanye ama-mantras anceda ukwakha ibhuloho phakathi komfazi kunye namagunya angcwele, apho umntu angacela umyeni wakhe. Kubafazi, inokuba yiNtombikazi kaMariya, iPasaskeva NgoLwesihlanu , unkulunkulukazi waseSlavka wamandulo waseMakosh, iGreen Tara.
Ukuphakama kokuzalwa kwabantwana
Iimpawu zokukhulelwa zidinga ukuxubusha okuphezulu kwabatshatileyo kwizinto ezifunwayo. Ukuba ibhinqa liyinyumba, iyakwazi ukuguquka ngokuzila ukutya nokuthandaza. Injongo enamandla kakhulu yokuba nomntwana ochazwa ngumfazi ngaphambi kokuba aqale ukukhawuleza, unikwe isifungo sokuzicamngca okanye ukuzila ixesha elithile, ngokubuyisela ukubambelela ekucela umntwana. Yonke loo mandla eqokelelwa kwinto enjalo iguqulwa ibe yintsikelelo yomnqweno.
Ubungqina bendoda
Amanqwenqwa angamadoda agxininisa ukulungelelanisa nokuzinqabisa ngakumbi kunabesifazane. Ukuzimela nokulawula kubalulekile kumntu kunye nomsebenzi wakhe emphakathini - oku kukuhlonipha. Ukwenza isondo esomeleleyo, iziqhamo zincedo:
- indlala;
- ulala embhedeni onzima, phantsi;
- lukhuni ngamanzi e-ice, i-walrus;
- uhambo oluya kwiindawo zamandla ;
- Ukusebenzisa amandla;
- umda kwizinto eziphathekayo.
I-Ascesis yengqondo
Amandla amadoda anika amandla kunye nokunyamezela. Iingxaki zengqondo zinceda ukwazi umhlaba kunye nolwalamano phakathi kwabantu. Umkhuba ukulawula nokulawula ingqondo. Ingqondo engalawulekiyo yimbangela yamathuba amaninzi. Imfundo yeengqiqo ezintle ngokusebenzisa ukucoca iingcamango, ithi imisebenzi yansuku zonke. Intukuthelo, inzondo, inzondelelo imvakalelo engaxhamliyo ekupheliseni ngexesha lokuziphatha kweengqondo.
I-Ascesis e-Orthodoxy
Umkhwa wokuxhamla ebuKristwini ufezwa ngemithandazo. Ngaphambi kokuba umfanekiso kaThixo unikwe isifungo okanye isithembiso, umntu ozama ukuzalisekisa. I-Orthodox i-orceticism iquka ukutyelela iCawa kunye neenkonzo zokuzonwabisa, ukudibana kunye nokuvuma. Ingqwalasela eninzi ihlawulwa kwi-intanethi yentetho: umntu akanakukunyelisa, khumbula igama likaThixo ngento engenanto.
Ubungqina kunye nokuzila
Ukuhlanjululwa komzimba kunempembelelo enomzimba womntu. I-Ascesis kwisondlo yenza i-psyche ihambelane: intukuthelo kunye nokuhaha kuyalala. Ukuzila ukutya kwiiholide zenkolo ezininzi kubomeleza abantu ngokholo lwabo kuThixo. Ukushiya ukutya kwezilwanyana ezinzima kwenza ingqondo nomzimba kulula. Phakathi kweengcali zempesheni, kukho ezininzi iimeko zokuphulukiswa ngokukhawuleza kwizifo ezinzima.