Ukususela ngoko, njengoko umhlaba wabonakala amadoda namabhinqa - ukususela ngoko, abamele isigqeba esomeleleyo sobuntu bazama ukunqoba uthando lwesahlulo esinyanzelekileyo.
Izibonakaliso ezingabonakali zenceba yomntu kumfazi
Ukuze ukhange umfazi othandekayo, amadoda akulungele ukwenza izenzo ezingenakulinganiswa, zilungele ukukhupha iintaba ngenxa yabathandekayo babo. Kwintlanganiso bajonge kwiso kwinqununu yabo, baliphulaphule ilizwi lakhe ngeeyure kunye nenye indlela - yenza konke ukukwenza uhleke. Le ndoda ibonisa uthando lwakhe kungekhona nje ngezenzo zakhe nangamazwi, kodwa nangomzimba womzimba, kwisigaba esinqumlekileyo ngoncedo lwempawu .
Izibonakaliso ezingekho phantsi kwesigcawu sokubonisa imfesane kwindoda
Le ndoda ibonisa uvelwano lwakhe ngoncedo lomzimba wonke. Xa umzimba uqhutyelwa kwintsimi yento yovelwano ngexesha le ngxoxo, ukujika okufanayo kuyajika kwaye iinyawo zendoda ziphendukile kunye neenzwane zeenyawo. Ukuba le ndoda ibhekisisa amehlo kunye nabafundi bakhe baxutywa, lo mfazi unokuqiniseka ukuba le ndoda iyanqotshwa naye.
Indlela yokuchonga inceba yomntu kumfazi?
Ukuba amahlombe omntu aqondiswe, amehlo akhe alungile, umzimba wonke uphendukela kuye nawuphi na umfazi, kunye nezandla kwiipokotshi okanye ukuxhonywa phezu kwengubo, ngaphandle kwesiqwenga, ngoko unokutsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba le ntombi yinto yeminqweno yakhe. Esi sandla sisenzo sithetha ukuba indoda, njengokuba kunjalo, ibeka indawo yakhe yobuncwane phambi kwowesifazane ukuze ibonise.
Unokufumanisa ukuba umntu wayethande le nto okanye loo ntokazi, xa eqiqa ngokucacileyo ukuqala phambi kwakhe. Uthoba iinwele, uhlolisise amaqhosha okanye ikhonkco zokunxibelelana kwiikhati, njengokungathi uzihlolisise ngokwakhe kwisibuko. Zonke ezi zibonakaliso ezingabonakaliyo ukuba umntu uthanda lo mfazi kwaye naye ufuna ukumkholisa.