Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abantu bajongana neengxaki zeentsapho. Abanye abantu bawafumana lula, kodwa kwezinye izibini ezi ziqhawule umtshato. Ukuze ungabi phakathi kwehlukaniso, kufuneka ufunde ukujamelana neengxaki ezahlukeneyo.
Iingxaki ezinokwenzeka kwiintsapho zobomi
Awufanelani.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bayavuma ukutshata, ngenxa yentlobo ethile yenzuzo, ngelixa bengayithobeli ingqalelo. Ngokukhawuleza okanye emva koko kuza ukuqonda ukuba akunakulinganiseki ukuba sisondele kulo mntu. Izwi: "Kunzima - kuhlaselwa othandweni" akunakwenzeka kakhulu. Zonke iingxaki zivela ngenxa yemibono echasene kakhulu ebomini.
Ukusombulula le ngxaki yintsapho
Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba umtshato wawuyiphutha elikhulu kwaye ukuba ubudlelwane obusondeleyo bungeke kwenzeke, ngoko kulungile ukuphula uxolo. Kwixesha elizayo, ukusebenzisana okunjalo kuya kuzisa intlungu kunye nokungonwabi, ngakumbi ukuba unabantwana. Emva kokushiya ngokufanelekileyo, kukho ithuba lokugcina ubudlelwane obuhle.
Zihlazo
Xa umntu ekhubekile, injongo yakhe ephambili kukuba kuphumelele ubulungisa kuzo zonke iindleko. Kule meko, yonke imilinganiselo yentsapho iya kwimvelaphi, eyona nto ibangela iingxaki ezintsha kwiintlalontle zentsapho.
Indlela yokusombulula le ngxaki?
Ukuxazulula iingxabano ezivela kwaye ulahlekise ukuhlamba unokucela uncedo oluvela kumntu wesithathu ozimeleyo. Ukongezelela, kukho esinye isixhobo esiza kuphazamisana nokukhawulelana nentlungu. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ubeke kwindawo yeqabane lakho, ngoko unokukuqonda, uhlalise uze uthethe ngoxolo.
Ukulimala kwabantwana
Uninzi lweengxaki zoqhagamshelwano lweentsapho zivela kwiintlungu zobuntwana. Ngokomzekelo, umtshato ongabahlali ngabazali ungabikho nto
Indlela yokusombulula le ngxaki yentsapho?
Kule meko, ingxaki ixazululwa ngeendlela ezininzi:
- Into yokuqala nokulula kukuba kuyingxenye kwaye ufumane ukuzimela.
- Ukuba ufuna ukugcina intsapho, lixesha lokukhula kwaye ulawule ukwesaba abantwana kunye neemvakalelo. Ukufumanisa ukuxhwaleka kwengqondo, kukulungele ukubonisana neengcali. Ndiyabulela uncedo olufanelekileyo, uya kukwazi ukufumana isisombululo kwiingxaki.