Kubonakala ukuba ufunde nje ukuba ukhulelwe, kwaye wayenalo ixesha lokujonga emva, njengoko zonke iinyanga ezili-9 zokulinda zidlula, kwaye umntwana ukhula. Kwaye maxa wambi ufuna ukuziva ezi zihlandlo eziqhelekileyo kwakhona! Akukho mfazi oza kukulibala ukuvakalelwa kwengxaki yomntwana, ukuqala kokuqala, ulwalamano lokuqala kunye ne-crumb. Kodwa utshintsho oluthile kwimoya kunye noloyiko olunxulumene nalo lungakhohliwe, kodwa le nxalenye yendlela yakho yokuba ngumama kwaye abafuni ukulahlekelwa. Kwaye kutheni ndibhale onke a mavalele kwidayari "ekhalelwe"?
Idayari yowesifazane okhulelweyo
Uninzi oomama bokamva baya kuhlala bekhalaza malunga nokuvakalelwa kunye nokungabi namsebenzi, kwaye ukugcina idayari yokukhulelwa kuya kunceda kule ngxaki. Unokuya kunoma iyiphi ivenkile uze uthenge ifomu ekhethekileyo, unokuthatha nje incwadi okanye i-albhamu. Yiyiphi inketho oyikhethayo ayikho ebaluleke kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuba kwiminyaka embalwa idayari okanye i-albhamu yokukhulelwa iya kubuyisa umxholo wokulindela novuyo.
Phakathi kwezinye izinto, idayari yowesifazane okhulelweyo unokuba luncedo kakhulu kwiimeko ezinjalo:
- Ngamanye amaxesha, makhe sizukise kumlingane wakho, nangona wangaphandle uyathula, kodwa undikholelwe, ubone ngokuphindaphindiweyo: ngoku unembopheleleko yemiphefumlo emibini; mhlawumbi unomdla kwizinto ocinga ngazo, indlela ojongene nalo xesha kunye nexesha lakho lokukhulelwa liza kunceda oku.
- Xa kuqeshwe ugqirha kunokuba nzima ukuba uthathe kwaye uthethe ngokukhawuleza malunga nazo zonke izikhalazo okanye iimvakalelo. Ekhaya, uhlale uzinzile kwaye ucinezele ukubhala yonke into, kwaye ke unokukunika ukuwufundela ugqirha, mhlawumbi uya kubeka ingqalelo ezinye iinkcukacha.
- Inkqubo yesibini yokukhulelwa, okunokwenzeka, iya kuba yinto ehluke kakhulu kwiyokuqala, kwaye idayari yentlalontle yowesifazane okhulelweyo iya kunceda ukuthelekisa kwaye mhlawumbi ukukhusela iingxaki kunye nokuphazamiseka kokukhulelwa kwesibili.
- Ukongezelela kwiirekhodi zabo zomoya kunye neengqondo, kulungile ukurekhoda ukukhetha okusemgangathweni. Idayari enjalo yowesifazane okhulelweyo uya kunceda ukukhangela into oyidlayo kunye nokuba yiyiphi imilinganiselo, kuba "kwindawo" nangona yintlekele ekuveleni kweemveliso kunokukhupha iingxaki ngokugaya, ngoko ke kulula ukuyiqonda, kwaye ubunzima buza kubeka iliso ngokuchanekileyo;
- Ekubeni, ekugqibeleni, xa kwixesha elizayo intombazana ekhulelweyo-intombi yakho iya kulidla ilifa ledayari, kuya kumnceda ukuba alungise kwaye azi ngokuthe ngangoko iimvakalelo angalindela kunye nendlela aziphatha ngayo esiswini.
Indlela yokugcina idayari yokukhulelwa?
Njengowesifazane okhulelweyo ukugcina idayari kunye noko kubhala phantsi, kuya kuye. Kwabanye, kwanele ukurekhoda imicimbi eyenzeka phantsi kwentliziyo ngexesha lexesha, kwaye abanye babhekisela ngqo kumntwana okanye kumyeni kwiirekhodi. Kodwa kukho iingongoma ezininzi ezinqwenelekayo ukubonisa umfazi okhulelwe kwidayari, bangena kwixesha elizayo:
- bonisa usuku lokugqibela ukuya esikhathini, ngoko unokuqiqa umhla wokuzalwa we-crumb uze uthelekise ukuqikelela ekupheleni;
- ubonise kwidayari yokukhulelwa kokuqala kokukhupha (oku kunceda ukuqikelela umhla wokuzalwa) kunye nokuqala kokuqala;
- unamathisele ikopi yeziphumo ze-ultrasound. Ngokuqhelekileyo kungcono ukwenza iikopi zazo zonke iincwadi eziqokelelwa xa zizalisa ikhadi lokutshintshiselana;
- ubhale ukwesaba, ngoko uya kunceda lakho iqabane (ukuba umvumela ukuba afunde) ukuze aqonde isignali ukuba kufuneka uhlawule ngakumbi kunye nokufudumala.
Njengoko sifumene, idayari yokukhulelwa yinto ethile, ngoko ke ngubani omele anikwe ukuba afunde kwaye kuphi ukugcina khona akubalulekanga. Kodwa yinto enye - ngoku yintsapho ye-relic kwaye phantse incwadi yezityhilelo. Kwaye into eyona nto kukuba kukukunceda ukuba uphinde uzibonelele ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwezi nyanga ezilindelekileyo kunye nesiganeko esibalulekileyo ebomini bakho.