Umtshato ngowona mcimbi ubalulekileyo kwiintliziyo ezimbini zothando, ukhunjulwe ngobomi. Esi sisiganeko esishukumisayo sokuthinta umtshakazi kunye nesinyathelo esinoxanduva kumyeni. Ngokuqhelekileyo banokubhiyozela umtshato kunye nezihlobo, abahlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo. Ukubhiyozela iholide ngenomoya ovuyokileyo kunye nomoya ovuyokileyo, abaququzeleli balungiselela umthendeleko womtshato, kunye neendwendwe kufuneka zinyamekele izipho zomtshato . Ngamanye amaxesha izipho zokuqala zomtshato eziza kumnandi ziyakhunjulwa ngeso sibini emva kweminyaka emininzi. Xa ukhetha isipho, khumbula izikhetho kunye nesifiso somtshakazi nomyeni.
Izipho eziphokozelayo eziselula kumtshato
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abasandul 'ukutshata badluliselwa isitya kunye nezitya, iilinen zokulala kunye nezixhobo zendlu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi - izipho ezithandekayo, nangona kunjalo, zenzelwe ipakethe epholileyo kwaye zanikwa ekuqaleni, izipho ezinjalo zikhangeleka zikhangele. Ngokomzekelo, isitya seitya singapenda, sichaze oko kubalulekile kubantu abatsha. Okufanayo kunokwenziwa ngelinen yelinen: ulandele kuyo imibhalo okanye iifoto, icacise kuphela umtshakazi nomyeni. Unokuza neengubo zeengalo zentsapho kwaye usetyenzise kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zeseyile.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, intsapho encinane idinga imali. Kunokwenzeka ukubonisa imali yokutshatyalaliswa imali kwimvulophu. Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukwenza isipho esihle somtshato. Ukwenza oku, thatha imali embi kakhulu, ubenike, ugibe ngamagama: "Ukuba kwintsapho yakho kwakungekho mpikiswano ngemali." Emva kokuba abasandul 'ukutshata kunye neendwendwe bayothuka, banika iindleko zangempela.
Unokutshintshela imali kwiimali ezincinane kwaye unike isikhwama semali. Okanye wenze umthi wemali, amasebe ayo ahlotshiswe ngamanqaku eebhanki ezahlukeneyo. Ukususela kwimali yamaphepha ungakwazi ukwakha i-bouquet yonke.
Nika abatshangatshangelwe ipakethi yekhefu, kwaye makube ngumhla ovulekileyo: bona ngokwabo banokugqiba isigqibo xa kuya kuba ngcono ukuphumla. Okanye ubanikezele ukubhalisa amabini ukutyelela i-spa. Mhlawumbi, kuya kuba mnandi kubantu abatsha ukuba bahambe ngehashe, bathabhe kwibhaluni okanye batye ngeparachute.
Izipho eziphosakeleyo zeendwendwe kumtshato
Njengoko uyazi, izipho zintle nje kuphela ukufumana, kodwa nokunika. Ngako oko, isiko sibonakala sinika izipho kwiindwendwe ngenkumbulo nangombulelo ngenxa yokuba ezi zilandelayo zazikho kwimicimbi yomtshato. Kwaye iindwendwe nangemva kweminyaka emininzi iya kuvuya ukukhumbula, ukujonga isipho esinjalo, ngomtshato ovuya.
Zininzi izipho zinikezelwa kwiindwendwe ngenxa yokuthatha inxaxheba kwimibhikano eyahlukeneyo yomtshato. Kungaba zonke iintlobo zentengiso yekhaya: izixhobo zokubhala kunye nezinto ezincinci zekhishini, izinto zokuhlamba kunye namakhandlela aphunga, iintlami kunye nezilwanyana ezifakwe kuyo, nokunye okuninzi. Izipho ezigqwesileyo zeendwendwe ziya kuba zizinto ezenziwe ngokwazo: ziboshwe kwaye zihlanjwe kwizinto zokudlala, amakhandlela kunye nesepha ezenziwe ngesandla, iehokerchief broefered or napkins. Kukho mfihlelo: zonke izipho zokuthatha inxaxheba kwiindwendwe kufuneka zihluke: oku kuya kugcina intliziyo yabathathi-nxaxheba.
Isikhumbuzo esilungileyo esilula singasasazwa kwiindwendwe ekungeneni kweholo, apho kuya kubakho ukubhiyozelwa. Ngamanye amaxesha izipho ezincinane zokufuzisela iindwendwe, umzekelo, amatshini anemifanekiso eyahlukileyo, zibekwe kwiidesksi zefowuni nganye. Ukutshatyalaliswa ngokwenene kuya kuba ngumfanekiso womtshakazi nomyeni kumasebe ebhaliso, apho abantu abatsha baya kuboniswa kuzo zonke iindwendwe ekupheleni kombhiyozo.
Isipho esipholile, umzekelo, i-cube kwicala ngalinye apho ukuncoma kwindwendwe esiya kuso isipho esifanelekileyo sibhaliwe.
Izipho ezinjalo zokuqala kunye nezihle ziza kunceda ukwenza umtshato wakho ujabule kwaye awukhunjulwe.