Okokuqala, makhe sibone ukuba kuphelelwa yintoni ukuphazamiseka kuthetha kwaye ukuqonda indlela yokuphathwa ngayo kwengqondo. Ukuphazamiseka kukuba nomoya ongeyonto kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo somzimba nomzimba, ukuziphatha ngokuzibulala kunokuhlaselwa kukudakumba. Ngokwenkolo, ukuphelelwa lithemba kuthethwa ngenye yezono ezisixhenxe ezibulalayo.
Umxholo othi "ukuphelelwa yithemba" ngokuvisisana neemfundiso zonqulo. Ukuphazamiseka kuyona nomnqweno wokuba namava ngenxa yokuba yonke into ebomini ikhula ngale ndlela. Abantu abafumana le ntliziyo abafuni ukuhlukana nokubandezeleka kunye nokulila kwabo, bathanda ukuzibandakanya ekufumaneni , kwaye abaphulaphuli izimvo zabanye abazama ukubonisa ukuba konke kulungile.
Izizathu zokudangala
Ukuba uzama ukukholisa umntu odimazekile ekuziphatheni kwakhe kakubi, ngoko uya kutshutshiswa ngokukhawuleza, ukungaqondi kunye nokunganakwa . Enyanisweni, umntu onjalo akanakonwaba kakhulu, akafuni ukubona ubomi kwimbonakalo emihle. Enye yemibonakalo yokuphelelwa lithemba ikwazela.
Ngexesha le ncokola kunye neentsapho, umntu onomdla obonwabileyo uchaza iingxaki ezizayo, kwaye uchaza isikhundla sakhe ngendlela efanayo: "Ndiyazi ukuba kwakungekho nto!". Abadaniweyo baya kukhangela ngokukhawuleza le nkxwaleko, nangona ukubonakala kwabo akubikezeli nantoni na.
Ukuphazamiseka kuyisono, kuba iyanciphisa umntu wovuyo olupheleleyo, ngexesha elifanayo lokuzibulala komphefumlo. Emva koko, umntu obandezeleka akafuni ukulwa nobunzima, kungcono ukuba ashiye yonke into njengoko engayi kukulungisa imeko. Akafuni
Iimbangela zokudangala zizinto ezilandelayo: ingxoxo engqongqo, umsebenzi ogqithiseleyo, ukunyaniseka nokunyamezela komphefumlo. Ukuphelelwa lithemba kungavela ngenxa yokuzithemba okukhulu, i-narcissism kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Isixazululo sokuphelelwa lithemba - ukuhleka kweyeza
Makhe sizame ukujonga ukuba singanikezeli ukuphelelwa lithemba kunye nendlela yokuyithatha. Ukuphuma kweli lizwe, eqinisweni, akulula. Ngoxa uncedo lwezidalwa ezidandathelwanayo apha azikwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo. Ukuba ukuxinezeleka kwakho kubonakale ngenxa yoxinzelelo kwaye uphilise kulula, ngoko ukuphelelwa yithemba kukusetyenzwa kweengxaki ozivuselelayo.
Nguwe kuphela ongayinqoba le meko yengqondo engonakaliyo. Iyeza elincinci lingahle lihlaziye, ngoko kunika ixesha lokuvuya, iincwadi ezintle, ufunde amahlaya kunye namabali ahlekisayo. Mhlawumbi oku kuya kukunceda ukuba ujamelane nesifo esinokuphelelwa yithemba.