Ulwimi lwezandla: Ingqondo

I-Psychology ye-gestures ihlala kwindawo ebalulekileyo ekufundeni kwengqondo yengqondo. Kukho inani elikhulu kakhulu lezinto zentetho yezandla kunye neentsingiselo zabo. Ngo kunceda ulwimi lwezandla ungakwazi ukufunda ngomntu izinto ezininzi ezithakazelisayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukuqwalasela yonke imibala yemifanekiso yale nzululwazi kwinqaku enye, ngoko ke namhlanje siya kubeka ingqalelo ngakumbi kulwimi lwezenzo zomntu.

Ulwimi lomzimba kunye nezenzo zomntu

Kakade ke, elo lonke ibhinqa ubuncinane kanye kanye ebomini bakhe bayihlushwa ngumbuzo wendlela ayeyithandayo ngayo indoda ayithandayo. Ubundlobongela obuqinileyo bunomkhuba wokugubungisisa ngokuvakalela iimvakalelo zakho neemvakalelo zakho, ngoko kudla kunzima ukufumanisa oko umntu enomphefumlo wakhe. I-Psychology iya kunceda kule nto.

Indlela yokufunda ulwimi lwezandla?

Amadoda asebenzise kakhulu ukuthetha xa bethetha kunowesifazane, kwaye le nyaniso iyayenza lula umsebenzi wakho. Fumana impendulo yalo mbuzo, unokufunda ngokulinganisa umntu, ukuziphatha kwakhe, ukuziphatha. Musa ukuhlala uthembela amagama omntu, kodwa umzimba ungakwazi ukuxelela okungakumbi.

Ulwimi lwezandla lunokuhambisa umyalezo othile. Ukuba umnxibelelwano wakho uhlala ekhangele emehlweni akho aze aphendule umlomo wakho, ubonisa ukuba unomdla wokuzikhethela kwaye ulungiselelwe ukuthetha.

Iimvakalelo zentsimbi nazo zibalulekile. Ukuba ukuxhaphaza umntu uthatha isandla sakho ngezandla zombini, oku kuthetha ukuba uyavuya ukukwazi nawe kwaye unokuvulela.

Akunakwenzeka ukuba ungakhankanyi ukuvala okuvaliweyo. Awunomdla kumnxibelelwano wakho xa ebeka izandla zakhe emapokothini akhe, ehleli emanqeni, efihla izandla zakhe.

Unokumisela umdla womntu ngale miqondiso:

1. Ukujonga kwakhe kuvulekile, ubheka ubuso bakho, ngokubhekisele ngezantsi. Umntu unomdla.
2. Umlomo ovulekileyo, ngokukodwa xa ephawula amehlo akho, ungumqondiso othe tye.
3. Umnxibelelwano uzama ukutsala ingqalelo yakho, ulungisa imikhono okanye i-collar yeengubo zakhe, uguqa iinwele zakhe.
4. Wakwazi ukuvavanya umzekelo wakho kwimimiselo yokuqala yokumazana naye. Ukuba ngoku ukhangele ngenyameko kuwe, kuthetha ukuba ngoku unokuba yinto enokwenza ngokwesondo.
5. Indoda idonsa esiswini sayo, ilungise amahlombe akhe, i-tucks isithupha sayo phezu kwebhanti okanye ihlambulule isandla sayo epokothini. Ukuba uqaphela ukufana okunjalo, oku kubonisa ukuba umnxibelelwano uzama ukunqoba ingqalelo yakho.

Igalelo linokuxelela ezininzi. I-gait jumping ibonisa umoya oqinileyo. Kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba isantya sokunyakaza silingana, silinganiswa, oko kubonisa ukuba le ndoda ayinakutyekela ekubonakaleni kwemvakalelo.

Ukuba usondela, kwaye indoda ibeka isandla sakho emhlane okanye emagxeni - uyakuxabisa kwaye akafuni ukuba umshiye. Ukususela kwicala lokuziphatha oku akusiyo inkcazo yemfundo ephezulu, kodwa lo mqondiso ubonisa ukuba unomdla kumntu. Kwaye ukuba indoda ithe yafaka ibhatyi okanye ijeyethi kuwe, xa ushushu, ithetha kakhulu. Umnxibelelwano uyakubona njengowesifazane, lowo ufuna ukukhusela nokukhusela ukuba kuyimfuneko.

Ulwimi lwezandla: umyalezo

Kwaye ncinane malunga nempawu ezithwala ulwazi ngolwabelana ngesondo:

1. Le ndoda ibeka imilenze yayo ngokubanzi kunokoqobo.
2. Ukhangelelwano luhamba emzimbeni wakho, lukhuphe.
3. Izitrasi kwicala lakho. Ukuba ngelo xesha ulungelelanisa iinwele zakhe, ngoko awukhathaleli.
4. Ukuhlala, ulula imilenze kwaye akukhokele.
5. Ubonisa umzobo wakhe, udlala kunye nezihlunu zakhe, uhlambulule amahlombe akhe.
6. Ngokuqhelekileyo uthinta umqala wakhe ngesandla sakhe.
7. Xa bevuya, abafundi banepropati yokwandisa.
8. Xa uvela, kuqondisa ityala, ungabona kwakhona iifayile eziqhelekileyo.
9. Xa ehlasela indawo yakhe engqinileyo, akazami ukusuka kuwe.

Ukuqwalasela zonke ezi zihlandlo, ungalibali kwakhona ukuba umntu ngamnye uyimfuneko, ngoko umntu othile unokungahambi ngokulula kwiluhlu oludweliswe.