Njengomthetho, iincwadi ezithandekayo kwizengqondo zizo zityhila icala elithile lobuntu bomntu, zisifundise ukufeza naziphi na iinjongo, ukuphucula izakhono zazo kunoma yiphina indawo. Siya kukunika uluhlu uluhlu lweencwadi ezinomdla kwizengqondo ezithintela ngokuqinisekileyo ukujonga umhlaba kunye nomgangatho wobomi.
- "Ukucinga! Umthetho! »URobert Anthony
- "Ulwimi lwencoko" uAlan noBarbara Pease
- "Indlela Yokufumana Abahlobo Nefuthe Abantu" ngoDale Carnegie
- "ULwimi lwezandla, uLwimi loLuthando" nguDivens
- "Iingqondo zempembelelo. Ukunyusa. Impembelelo. Khusela »uRobert Chaldini
- "Ukuyeka ukukhathazeka nokuqala ukuhlala" uDale Carnegie
- "Iingqondo zonyango. Ukusuka kwi-puppet ukuya kubaputi "V. Shapar
- "Iintlobo zabantu kunye nezoshishino" uKroeger Otto
Abantu abaninzi bayayiqonda yonke into ngokugqibeleleyo, nangona kunjalo, ukutshintsha kwimbali yokuzama ukwenza onke amaxesha abaphazamisayo. Le ncwadi ichaza zonke iimpawu ezifunekayo ezenza kube lula ukuba ngumntu osebenzayo, osebenzayo nangempumelelo. Ukukwazi ukubeka iinjongo kuphela , kodwa nokuya kuzo, unokukwazi ukufeza yonke into oyifunayo.
Esi sifundo esihle kulabo bafuna ukufumanisa zonke iimfihlelo zolwimi lwezandla kwaye bafunde ukuqonda ngokucacileyo umdibaniselwano ngaphandle kwamagama. Ukongezelela, uya kufunda ulwazi oluninzi olunomdla malunga nentetho eqhelekileyo yomntu kunye nendlela yokwenza ukuba iphumelele kwaye isebenzise kuzo zonke iinkalo ngokusemandleni.
Le yinto ethandwa kakhulu kwiincwadi ze-psychologist eyaziwayo yaseMerika, apho ekwabelana ngayo ngendawo yakhe ebuthathaka ngabantu, usebenzisa oko unokukwazi ukufikelela kuyo nayiphi na inkampani. Le ncwadi ifaka imizekelo emininzi enomdla kwaye inika iindlela ezithile zokusombulula iingxaki.
Le yincwadi enomdla kwi-psychology yobudlelwane, oya kufunda ngawo ngobulumko bokungaboniswanga kwabantu, apho abantu bafumana ininzi yolwazi malunga nehlabathi elibangqongileyo. Njengomphumo wokufunda, uya kufunda ukukhangela ingqalelo yomntu oyithandayo, ukuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo kwinkqubo yokuphucula ubudlelwane kunye nokuba yinkosi yangempela yokukhohlisa!
Le ncwadi iqwalaselwe ngokufanelekileyo ngenye yezona zinto zilungileyo kakhulu. Ayinakulinganiswa nemigaqo eqhelekileyo yobungcali, ibhaliwe lula, ngokucacileyo kwaye inomdla, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu-isiluleko esinikezayo siyasebenza empilweni. Lo msebenzi uye wanceda inani elikhulu labantu, kuba le ncwadi yathengisa ikopi yezigidi.
Lo ngumsebenzi omkhulu kakhulu we-psychologist owaziwayo waseMerika, obonisa iindlela ezilula zokuphila ngokuvisisana naye kunye nehlabathi elikufutshane naye. Le ncwadi iguqulele izigidi zabantu kwaye yenza kube lula ukunqoba naluphi na ubunzima kunye nemingcipheko endleleni eya kulonwabo .
Umbhali uqinisekile ukuba umntu wamhlanje uchitha ixesha elide kwimicimbi eyahlukeneyo, kwaye akanako ukuziphawula ngokufanelekileyo. Emva kokufunda lo msebenzi, uya kufunda ukuthi "cha" ngokuqinile, kwaye uphile njengoko ufuna, kungekhona njengabantu abathile. Emva kokufunda, unokukhetha ngokulula
Le ncwadi iyimfuneko kunoma yiphi na iqalo kunye nosomashishini ofezekileyo, kunye nalabo baceba ukuvula ibhizinisi labo. Kwiyiphi na le meko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda abantu, bakwazi ukulawula abasebenzi, ukubona abantu kunye nomntu, kunye nomqeshwa wekampani.
Iincwadi ezithakazelisayo kwi-psychology kumntu ngamnye zinganiseli iiyure eziliqela zokufunda okumnandi, kodwa kunye nenzuzo yangempela ebomini, eya kusombulula iingxaki zobomi kwaye iphumelele ngakumbi. Ukufunda rhoqo, uphuhliso kwaye ufumane ibhonasi ezininzi zobomi.