Ukuzifeza ngobuntu

Ngaba wake wazibuza ukuba abantu abadumileyo baphumelele njani? Yintoni eyabiza? Kwaye yintoni eyabangela impumelelo yawo? Ukuba ewe, eli nqaku lihlukile kuwe.

Ukuzimelela ebomini kubandakanya indima ebalulekileyo. Emva koko, yindlela yokutyhila ubuchule obufihlakeleyo kunye namakhono omntu, ekhokelela ekubeni uphumelele kwaye uphile ngobomi obuninzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo imali ayiyiyo injongo ephambili yokuziqonda, ngenxa yokuba ukwaneliseka umntu azuzayo, ukuqonda ukukwazi kwakhe ngokupheleleyo, kuthetha okungakumbi kunokuchuma okulula.

Iingxaki zokuzifeza zenzeka kumntu ukususela ebuntwaneni kwaye zihamba naye rhoqo. Ngelishwa, ngokwabo abaqapheli kwaye banqobe, kubalulekile ukuba basebenze kanzima.

Ngokwenza, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuzifeza, kodwa ebomini kukho ezininzi ezinokuthathwa njengento eyintloko, ngoku siya kuthiwa ngabo.

1. Ukuzimelela kobugcisa kuyona nqanaba eliphezulu lokuphuhliswa komntu kwimisebenzi yobugcisa. Ukuzimelela kobuqu bomntu kuya kukuvumela ukuba ufumane oko ngokuqinisekileyo kulo "ubomi" kwaye uza kunceda uncedo luncedo kakhulu ekutsaleni imizamo ethile kwimisebenzi ethile.
2. Ukuzibona ngokuzikhethela kukufumana ithuba lokuzivula kwihlabathi ngelo elitsha, engaziwayo, ukuzityhila ngokwakho njengomntu odala kwaye uzive inkululeko xa uzibona ngaphakathi. Njengomthetho, lolu hlobo lokuziqonda lulula kakhulu kwaye lufikeleleke kakhulu, kodwa oku akusiyo yonke i-pluses yayo. Kukholelwa ukuba ngoncedo lobuchule umntu unokufumana uvuyo ngakumbi kunye nokuseka ubudlelwane nomntu ongaphakathi.

Ngokugqithisileyo ingxaki yokuziqhelanisa nokuqeqeshelwa kwezinto eziqhelekileyo ibhekene nexesha elibuthathaka lomntu, ekubeni kuluntu ixesha elide umfazi uthathwa njengomgcini we-hearth, kwaye akayena umcebisi. Nangona kunjalo, ukuzimelela kwabasetyhini kunzima kakhulu kwaye kuyinkqubo ende kunamadoda. Umba wukuthi ukuzimelela ngokweenzame zentlalo kunikwe ubunzima kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kulula ukuba bawenqabe nonke, kunokuba "badonsa" ngokwabo ikhaya kunye nemisebenzi ngexesha elifanayo.

Isidingo sokuzibonela ngokwezizathu siyabonakala kulowo nalowo wethu. Thina sonke isibini sempilo yethu siphupha ekufumaneni iitalente ezininzi kunye nokunyamekela ngakumbi kuluntu. Omnye uyakwazi ukuguqulela iminqweno ebomini, kwaye umntu ulahlekile ngenxa yokwesaba kunye nokungabaza, ngaloo ndlela ukwakha izithintelo ngezinye izihlandlo ezingenakuwela. Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba iinkolelo ezakhiweyo kuluntu zizona zintshaba ezona zizenzekelayo kwaye zivuyiswe kubalulekile ukulibala ngazo kanye kunye nazo zonke.