Abaninzi abasetyhini kubudlelwane bexesha elide ukucinga malunga nokuba umyeni uthembekile okanye ufumene uvuyo kwicala. Ndifuna nje ukutsho ukuba akufanele uzingciphe ngokuqulunqa iindaba ezingekhoyo, kuba oku kuya kulukhuphaza ingxaki. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokufunda malunga nokungcatsha kwendoda yakhe ngasese, ukuze xa kunokwenzeka ukungaxolisi ngokungathandabuzeki ukuba ungabhubhisi ubudlelwane nabathandekayo. Iingcali zengqondo zincoma ukuba zingaguquki zonke ezi zinto zibe mania, kuba ayiyi kubakho nantoni na.
Ungafunda njani malunga nokuhlaselwa?
Nangona umntu enetalente yomdlali, xa kwenzeka ulwalamano kwicala, ukuziphatha kuguquka kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ungaboni. Kubalulekile ukuba ungayonakalisi umkhuhlane kwaye uqonde ngokucacileyo imeko, kungenzeka ukuba utshintsho ekuphatheni luhlobene nezinye iingxaki.
Iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokujonga ukukhohlakele:
- Ukuba iqabane liye lincinci lokuba lugxininise umlingani obusondeleyo, kwaye isibalo sobusuku obunomdla siye sancipha kakhulu, ngoko, mhlawumbi, uhlangabezana neemfuno zakhe nomnye umfazi. Kwezinye iimeko, ukungahambelani okunjalo kungabangela iziphumo zempilo.
- Ukucinga malunga nendlela yokufunda malunga nokunyaniseka, kubalulekile ukukhankanya isizathu esinye, esibonisa ukungathembeki-indoda ingasabikho ekhaya, ngelixa idala izizathu ezingezizo. Amadoda amaninzi adibana namanye amabhinqa kwishedyuli ethile, oko kukuthi, ngexesha elinye.
- Isalathisi siyimfihlo yomlingane. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntu omthandayo waqala ukufihla ifowuni, ngokugqithiseleyo ukucima amanxibelelwano asekuhlaleni kunye nokuguqula rhoqo iimpazamo, ngoko, kunokwenzeka ukuba unento yokufihla.
- Enye intonga, indlela yokujonga ukukhwabanisa - jonga ukubonakala komntu othandekayo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, amadoda ahamba ngecala, qalisa ukuyilandela kangcono. Ngokomzekelo, ixesha elide ukhetha okokugqoka, ungakhethi ukhethiweyo okanye ungakufanelekanga umbala. Ukuba indoda
Andizange ndiyenze ngaphambili, kuthetha ukuba into yatshintshile kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuyiqonda. - Kwindoda ezitshintshayo, kukho utshintsho kwimoya. Umlingane uhlala ecinga ngento ethile, egoqela kuye, kwaye ukuba sele efuna ukubuza into ethile, uqala ukucaphuka nokucaphukisa, oku kungabonisa ukungathembeki.
- Kwakhona kufuneka kuthiwe malunga neempawu ezibonakalayo ezibonisa ukuguquka kwemifanekiso, iintloko zeentsimbi, iinwele zeentombi, iphunga leqhumiso nezinye izinto.
Kwizinto ezinokumangalisa kunye nokuhlola okuphambili, into ephambili akuyikuyidlula, kuba ukuba intanda ayitshintshi, ukungazithembi okunjalo kungakhokelela kwizinto ezimbi kunye nokuhlukana.