Kutheni abantwana bebaleka?

Uninzi lwabantwana beenkolishi zasesikolweni nabantwana besikolo bayathanda ukudweba. Kodwa ngezinye iimeko, umama kunye noodade bamele baqaphele ngokukodwa, ingakumbi ukuba umxholo wemizobo ushintshile ngokuphawulekayo. Izizathu zokuba kutheni abantwana badonsa imikhomo, kunokuba luninzi:

1. Kungekudala bafundela kubazali, ootitshala okanye iincwadi malunga nobomi bezi zilwanyana ezizimeleyo kwaye banquma ukwenza umsebenzi wabo kumaphepha.
2. Umntwana ufumana isabelo esifanelekileyo evela kumfundisi ekudwebeni.
3. Okwesithathu, ukhetho olubi kakhulu - unyana okanye intombi yakho yaba ilungu leqela eliyingozi kwinethiwekhi yentlalo ye-VKontakte.

Kutheni sifanele sihlale siphapheme xa abantwana bethola imikhomo?

Ngokwabo, izilwanyana ezincinci emhlabeni jikelele, ezihlala kwimibhobho yamanzi kwiplanethi yethu, ayinakubungozi ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa ukuba iindonga zala manzi zizele imifanekiso apho izilwanyana zibukeka kuzo zonke imibala kunye nazo zonke iimbombo, lixesha lokulila i-alamu. Khawucinge ukuba kutheni abantwana bengenakuvame ukukhawula imikhomo:

1. Abahlali basezintini zelwandle ngamanye amaxesha baxoshwa ngaphandle kwesizathu kummandla wonxweme baba ngumqondiso kwiindawo ezininzi ze-VKontakte inethiwekhi (kukho ubuncinane i-1,500 yabo) ukuzenzekela ngokuzibulala kubaselula. Ubungqina boqobo, emva koko inani labo liye landa ngamaxesha amaninzi, lwaqala emva kokuzibulala uRina Palenkova, oneminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu ubudala, ozala u-Ussuriysk, oza ngokuzithandela waya emanqeni omzila weloliwe waza wafa phantsi kwe-convoy.
2. Abazali bamele bahlale besazi ukuba kutheni kubi xa umntwana edonsa imikhomo. Ngomlinganiselo ophezulu wokuba umonakalo wengqondo uyahlanganiswa nokunyuka okhatyayo (abantwana bahlala kumaqela kwiintanethi zentlalo basebenzisa izilwanyana zasemanzini njengempawu kakhulu ebusuku), ukuphulaphulwa kwengqondo ye-psychedelic, i-gothic kunye neminye imimangaliso, imiqondiso ye-melancholy, njl.
3. Mhlawumbi uya kuqinisekiswa ngubu bungqina obunesizathu sokuba kutheni ufanele ukhathazeke ukuba umntwana ubamba imikhomo. Abalawuli basekuhlaleni abaxoshe abantwana ukuba bazibulale, bafunde kakuhle iindlela zengqondo kwaye bazenzela ukuba ngabahlobo bezingane zesikolo, bakha amaphepha amanga. Kule khosi iprogram ye-neurolinguistic, iingcamango zasezidolophini malunga nevidiyo ebulala (njengefilimu "Call"), imiyalezo engaqondakaliyo, amanani omnxeba abelwe amalungu eqela kunye nokubonisa umyalelo wokuzibulala ngabantwana, nokunye okuninzi. Yingakho kuyingozi xa umntwana wakho edonsa imikhomo. Le yifowuni yokuqala kwi nyaniso yokuba intombazana ivakalelwa yedwa kwaye ihlukaniswe kwaye iyithuba lokuthetha nentliziyo yakhe entliziyweni.