Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo kukholwa ukuba amadoda kufuneka abelwe indima yabanqobileyo, abaphethe umkhonto ekulungele kunye nekrele benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuba bathande intanda yakhe. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umxholo wokububula kwakho:
a) kungekhona i-knight;
b) akathandanga ukwenza nayiphi na imisebenzi yobuqhawe;
c) akakhange abhekise kwicala lakho.
Kule meko, le nyathelo kufuneka ithathe ezandleni zazo kwaye ucinge ngendlela yokumnceda ngayo loo nto ukuze awazi.
I-Aerobatics - ukwenza loo mfana acinge ukuba ulwalamano olusondeleyo nawe luyodwa ingcamango yakhe, kwaye nguye yena owaba ngumntu okhohlisayo okholisa intombi ephosa.
Indlela yokukhawulwa ngumntu: amaqhinga ambalwa
- Menze acinge ukuba unamacala amabini enye kunye kunye nolwalamano olukhethekileyo phakathi kwakho. Ngomhla wokuqala, sichaza ngokukhawuleza ukuba "indlela emangalisayo ndidibana ngayo ne-latte, njengawe, kodwa ndiyayithiya itiye eluhlaza. Andiyi kukholelwa indlebe zam, wanyanzelwa ukuba udansa njengomntwana! Ndineengxaki efanayo. " Nangona kunjalo, oku akufuneki ukuba yinyani. Ngaphambi koko, kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukukhupha ulwazi malunga nokuthanda nokuthandayo.
- Indlela echanekileyo yokukhangela umntu ngomhla kukudibanisa naye kwingxoxo ngomtshangatshi omnye. Ukwenza oku, ukuphulaphula ngokucophelela, ngamanye amaxesha uhlaziye iinkcukacha uze ucele imibuzo ehamba phambili. Ngexesha le ncoko, zama ukumbiza ngegama rhoqo. Iingcali zengqondo zithi oku kubangele ukuzithemba kwi-interlocutor. Nangona kunjalo, kule ngxaki kubalulekile ukuba ungadlulanga intonga, kuba ukuba uthetha igama lakhe ngalunye ngomzuzu, kuya kukhangeleka.
- Yakha uxhulumaniso olunxibelelwano kunye nomnxibelelwano wakho. Okokuthi, ngethuba lencoko incinci ingachukumisa ingalo yakhe okanye igxalaba, njengokungathi uyasusa ingubo yakhe engabonakaliyo kwimpahla yakhe, okanye ukuchaphazela ngephutha ngeminwe yakhe, ukuhamba, umzekelo, iglasi lejusi. Kodwa apha kwakhona, ungalibali ngokuqaphela, kuba ukuba uzama ukuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo, ngoko umfana angakwazi ukubona oku njengengxowankulu kwindawo yakhe kwaye enze ukwesaba.
Ubugcisa bokuthetha okanye amagama amnandi kumntu
Ngesizathu esithile, sithathwa ngathi sikholelwa ukuba ngabafazi kuphela "abanokuthanda iindlebe", ngelixa abameli bezesondo eziqinileyo bengabandakanyeli ukubonakaliswa kwothando. Kodwa ngokwenene oku akunjalo nhlobo. Amadoda, ngokwenene, ngabantu abanobuqili nabangenanto, ngoko akudingeki ukuba bangamncoma ngaphezu kwethu. Kodwa ukuba intombazana ifuna ukuva kumthandi wayo ukuba isikhumba sakhe sithandeke njengesilika, kwaye ukumncuma kufana nelanga, ngoko umntu ufuna ukuqonda iimpawu zakhe zobuntu okanye ukuphumelela kwakhe.
Ngaba ufuna ukumkholisa? Yithi unesimo esingaqhelekanga sokuhleka, iqondo lokuhlalutya kunye ne-intuition ephakamileyo. Ezi mpawu zikwinqanaba elithile phantse wonke umntu, kodwa kusoloko kulungile ukuva izinto ezinjalo kwidilesi yakho.
Amehlo njengezixhobo eziphambili okanye indlela yokuthabatha umfana ngokujonga
Kodwa nangona izityholo ezithandekayo kunye neengxoxo eziqhelekileyo aziyi kuvelisa ingqiqo efanelekileyo ukuba zihamba kunye "nokugijima", ukukhangela okuphazamisayo kunye nenkohliso. Nangona ukuba uzama ukufihla intloni yakho ngale ndlela, u-interlocutor wakho unokujonga
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, iingcebiso eziphambili njengempendulo yombuzo othi "Ndingamthandayo njani umntu?" - ungesabi ukuba nguwe. Oko kukuthi, ukuba uphulaphule idwala elilukhuni kwaye uhlaba ukubhoboza, akudingeki uzame ukuvela phambi kwesikhulu sakho esinokuba yinxalenye yeCinderella, kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba wayehlala ekhangela i-vamp.