Umntu ngamnye, nangona kunjalo, njengowesifazane, ufuna ukuba nenani labantu abathembekileyo, abathembekileyo nabathandekayo, ngoko ke, ukhetha umfazi wakhe, uqhuba ngokukhetha ngokucophelela, ngezinye iinkqubo onokuyicinga. Kodwa indoda ikhetha njani umfazi wayo-umbuzo ofuna ingqwalasela enzulu.
Ziziphi iintlobo zabasetyhini abazenzayo?
Bakhetha lowo uya kubakhathalela. Emva koko, ekujuleni komphefumlo kuwo wonke umntu uhlala encinci encinane, elambile ukufudumala komama kunye nothando.
Ukunyamezela akusiyo inkcazo yexesha elide, elibi kakhulu, ubudlelwane. Okhethiweyo wakhe kufuneka abe thobekile, omnye ofuna ukubonisa kubamhlobo bakho abakhulu, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - kubazali bakho.
Ukuba sicinga ukhetho lomfazi wendoda ngokubhekiselele kwidatha yenyama, uphando lwezenzululwazi luye lwabonisa ukuba: isondo esahlukileyo njengomfazi ukhetha intombazana enamacala amaninzi. Yile nto, njengokuzaliswa kwemilomo, efaka ubungqina kubundlobongela besifazane.
Amadoda atyathwa kumabini ngenxa yokuba enye yezimpawu ezenziwa ngabasetyhini kuphela besini esilungileyo. Nabani na ofuna ukusondeza kubathandekayo, wayekhululekile, wayeziva ekhuselekile. Ngoko, ukukhethwa kwakhe kuya kuwela kumnye oza kukhangela ukuthembela , lowo onokuba nguye.
Kutheni amadoda ekhetha abancinci abasetyhini?
Umdala, xa efuna ukubona intombazana esecaleni kwayo, kaninzi iminyaka engama-3-4 engaphantsi kwayo. Ukususela kwinqanaba lemvelo, isiqingatha sabantu sabantu soloko sifuna ukuziva ukukwazi ukutsala umfazi omncinane kuye. Ngaloo ndlela, indoda, ngokungathi ingazi, iyazama ukuphepha ingcamango yokuguga, ukunyaniseka nokungabikho kobuhle bexesha langaphambili.
Kutheni umntu ekhetha umfazi omdala?
Abaninzi bathandwa ngabulumko babasetyhini, okuthi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kuve buhlungu kangakanani, kuza kuphela kwiminyaka. Ukongeza, kwinqanaba elithile apho iqabane likhulile kunelikhethiweyo lakhe, iingxabano zisombululwe ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza. Konke oku kuchazwa ngamava amabhinqa.