Ubunaphakade ubomi bentsapho buzaliswe uvuyo kunye nothando. Kukho ixesha apho iqabane liyazi ukuba abazali bakhe bacaphukile. Ngomxholo ofanelekileyo, akakwazi ukujonga ngenyameko ubudlelwane bakhe namalungu kunye nosapho, fumana isizathu sokubacaphukisa. Emva kwayo yonke into, xa edibana nale ndoda, kodwa ngoku yonke into iyajika.
Makhe sizame ukuqonda izizathu zeso sidima kunye nento enokuyenza xa indoda iyithiyile, indlela yokubuyisela kwakhona iimvakalelo ezindala.
Kutheni umyeni enomsindo?
Ukuze ufumane imbangela yokucaphuka ngokumalunga nomyeni wakho, misela yakho kunye nobudala bakhe bengqondo. Akunandaba nomda ochaziweyo kwipaspoti yakho. Unokwenza into enjengomntwana omncinci, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumdala. Yaye umyeni wakho unokuziphatha njengomntwana osemtsha kunye nobutyebi obungapheliyo. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba, eneneni, uyithukuthelele umlingane okanye, umzekelo, uyamcaphukisa udadewabo wendoda yakhe kuba ngumhlobo wabantu ongenakukwazi ukumelana nokuphefumula.
Wonke umntu ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, kodwa ufuna ukuguquka ebomini babo. Emva kokuba uthandane nomfanekiso wesitabane somyeni wakho othandekayo, kodwa ngoku ukhathele. Ufuna into entsha. Kwaye umyeni wakho wayesemfanekisweni ongeke unomdla kuzo.
Kwakhona unokucaphukiswa kukuba, umzekelo, indoda ifuna utshintshe ubudlelwane, kwaye awufuni ukutshintsha umfanekiso wakho, ukhululekile nayo. Eli lixesha leengqondo.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukucacisa izizathu zokuthi kungani unganeliseki ngesigqibo sakho sesibini okanye ukuba kutheni unxunguphele kwiintsapho zomyeni wakho ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani ofuna ukutshintsha nantoni na, kwaye ubani ofuna ukuguqula yonke into kwangoko. Yenza uluhlu, olubonisa amacandelo achukumisayo nongalunganga enoba umyeni wakho okanye abanye abantu abakucasulayo. Phawula iimpawu ezilishumi eziphambili kwiimpawu enye kwikholamu enye. Ubonise kumlingane wakho. Hlalanisa ndawonye ezi mpawu, kuquka abo bakucaphukisayo. Xoxa ngeendlela zokukhetha ukuphuma kwimeko.
Kwaye ngoku siya kudlulela kwisihlomelo sezona zizathu eziphambili apho ungaba nomsindo nomlingane wakho.
- Isizathu sokucaphukisa sakho sinokuba ngathi asizange sihambisane nawe ekuqaleni, kodwa ngoku konke kwavela kwakhona.
- Ngoko ke kukho isizathu sokuba umyeni uyeke ukukwabelana nawe ngeziganeko ezibalulekileyo ebomini bakhe. Unomfanekiso wokuba ubomi bakho obelwe ngokudlula kuwe.
- Umyeni wakho engafuni ukutshala imali encinci yakhe kwimicimbi yakhe. Ngenxa yoko, uqala ukulawula ubomi bakhe, njl. Kukho ukucaphuka kunye nentukuthelo kumlingane.
- Ukuba, emva kokubeletha, indoda iyacaphukisa, ngoko uzama ukuvuselela isizathu sokutshintsha kwindlela yakhe yokuziphatha, okanye ekuziphatheni kwakho, ngenxa yoko, uzive ucaphukile.
Ngoko, izizathu zokucaphuka komlingane zinokuba luninzi. Ukususela kwiminyaka yengqondo kunye nokuphelisa ukuba izizathu zokunganeliseki zifihliwe kuphela kumfazi.