Umntu ngamnye unombono wakhe malunga nokuba kukho uthando. Phantse wonke umntu kulo mbuzo unikeza impendulo engqinelanayo, kodwa umntu ngamnye ubeka intsingiselo ehlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kule ngqiqo. Yingakho umbuzo wothando ungabonwa ngongqangi, apho akunakwenzeka ukunika impendulo eyodwa.
Ngaba kukho uthando lokwenene?
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zaphanda esi sihloko iminyaka emininzi, kwaye zakwazi ukwenza izinto ezibalulekileyo ezibalulekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuhlala othandweni ngumzuzu wesiqingatha nje. Yingakho iimbono zobukho bobubele ekuthandweni kokuqala yindawo ekumele ibe kuyo. Naluphina ulwalamano luqala ngethuba lothando, olwenzeka kuphela kwizinga le-hormonal. Ngeli xesha, kukho iimvakalelo ezinjalo: ukwanda kweemvakalelo, ukunqwenela, ukwandisa umnqweno wesini, njl njl. Ixesha lothando luhlala kwiinyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwezi-17.
Ukuqonda isihloko, nokuba kukho ukuthandana, kuyafaneleka ukuphawula ukuba ngokudala, umntu uguqula ingqondo yakhe ngale nto. Ukuba ekuqaleni yonke into yakhiwa kuphela kwizinga lomzimba, emva koko inendima enkulu, iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo, njl njl. Ziqala ukudlala. Ngokwezengqondo zengqondo, uthando alukwazi ukuba khona ngaphandle kwezinto ezintathu ezibalulekileyo: ubungani, uthando kunye nentlonipho. Ukongezelela, kukho inkolelo yokuba ukuze ubudlelwane bubizwa ngokuthi uthando, kufuneka bahambe kwizigaba ezi-7 ezahlukeneyo. Abantu abaninzi banokudideka, batyhidiwe, kwaye oku ekugqibeleni kukhokelela kwisigqibo sokuba uthando alukho kwaye luphela uthando.
Iingcali zengqondo zithi, nangona abantu abaninzi bambiya bathanda umuzwa, ngokwenene, lo "msebenzi" omkhulu wabantu abafuna ukwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye obuhlala njalo.
Iingcali zenzululwazi zenze uvavanyo, ziqikelela ukuba kukho uthando lobomi okanye luyintetho nje. Ngenxa yoko, kwagqitywa ukuba iimvakalelo,