Enyanisweni, njengomntu onxibelelwano oluqhelekileyo kulula ngakumbi kunokuba ungokoqobo. Kwaye akukhona nje loo nto, ngaphandle kokubona umxhamli, singakwazi ukunyaniseka ngakumbi, kulula ukufihla intliziyo yethu, kwaye kungenokuba yinto ekhangayo kakhulu. Kwaye akunakucaluleka apho idilesi yakho iya khona, ubuncinane ngeencwadi zephepha (ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho abantu babhala), nangona uncedo lweWebhu yeWebhu yehlabathi. Kukho nawuphi na, imigaqo kunye nokulawula indlela yokutsala kunye nokutshixa umfana ngokubhaliweyo kungatshintshi, kuya kuxutyushwa namhlanje.
Umgaqo 1. Sebenzisa zonke iinzuzo zeenkcukacha
Masicacise ngokucacileyo. Ngoqhagamshelwano oluqinileyo, uncedo olungundoqo kukuba unokucinga ngokucokisekileyo ngamazwi akho uze uwabuyisele kwakhona (ukuba ungakacinezeli "Faka"). Yaye ke unako ukubhala nokucima umyalezo wakho ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kude kube ngumbono wakho. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba xa uthetha nge-intanethi kwaye bobabini bahlala ngelo xesha emva kweikhomputha, ngoko awukwazi ukucinga ixesha elide, ubeka engozini ukucinga ngokungahambi kakuhle nokunciphisa. Kwaye ungayithanda njani lo mfana ngokubhala? Ewe, akukho nto. Ngoko, gcina igolide ithetha.
Umgaqo 2. Yiba ngumhlobo othakazelisayo
Le yindlela enye indlela umfana enithanda ngayo i-intanethi kwi-intanethi. Unolwazi oluninzi olulahlayo. Kwaye konke oko, kukukhathaza ukuthetha ngezulu, akunjalo? Fumana isihloko onomdla kuyo, cinga ngako, kodwa nokuba kuya kuba mnandi kuye kwaye phambili! Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa eziphumelelanga, kunye nezihloko ezimbalwa ezilungileyo kwintetho, enokukunceda ukuba uthande umntu ngokungena kwi-intanethi. Akunamdla ngaye izihloko: imozulu, ukuhleka okutsha (nangona okokufihla, abafana banomdla, kodwa abaze bazingenise engqondweni ukuba banomdla), imfashini kunye nezinye izihloko ezizimeleyo. Ngexesha elifanayo, abafana banomdla ngokuthetha ngezinto ezintsha ze-IT (ukuba unobuthakathaka kwesi sihloko - bhetele ukhethe omnye), iminqweno kunye neengcali kwiimbali, imidlalo entsha yekhompyutha kunye njalo njalo. Unokuqala incoko malunga nokuzilibazisa kwakhe, kodwa okokuqala kufuneka uqhelane ubuncinane neengcamango eziqhelekileyo ezivela kulo mkhakha, mhlawumbi umntu unokucinga ukuba ubeke amehlo kuye kwaye uyamthoba.
Umgaqo 3. Gwema iimpazamo zegrama.
Mhlawumbi, akukho nto iyancipha kwinkqubo yobhaliso njengempazamo kwisicatshulwa senkulumo yomnxibelelwano. Ukuba uyayazi "buck" enjalo, musa ukuba novila ukujonga izinto ozidalileyo ngaphambi kokuba uthumele, ngoku ziinkonzo ezimbalwa ezinika le nkonzo. Nika ingqalelo kwimeko echanekileyo yamanqaku eempompo. Ukungabikho kwabo okanye ukungalunganga oku lungatshintsha ngokupheleleyo intsingiselo yomyalezo wakho. Khumbula i-cartoon malunga ne-comma: "Awukwazi ukuxolela ukubulawa." Ukubhala nokungafundanga kukungahloneli wena kunye nomlingane wakho. Musa ukwenza loo mpazamo.
Umthetho 4. Musa ukuzibamba, yiba ngumhlobo nje
Umele uzibuze ukuba ungamkholisa njani umntu ngokubhala, ukuba ungumhlobo nje? Siza kukuphendula ngale ndlela. I-intanethi yindawo ekhethekileyo apho ungeke ube nomdla kuphela, kodwa kulula nje ukuba umothe umntu.
Ngaphandle koko, ukuba umfana akaphendulanga kwisigidimi sakho, ngoko ungeke uyithande xa ucela yonke imihla "Kutheni ungaphenduli?" Okanye "Ngaba ufumene umyalezo wam? Kutheni uthula? ". Ngako oko, isikhundla somhlobo ngokubhaliweyo ekuqaleni siyinzuzo kakhulu. Wenze isinyathelo sakho, ngoku unike umfana ithuba lokuba anqobe.