Ubundlobongela basekhaya kwabasetyhini

Akukho mfazi onothando ongenakukwazi ukuba isandla somntu obonakala ngathi, izolo, wayengumntu onguThixo onengelosi, uya kuvuka kuye. Ubundlobongela kwintsapho malunga nomfazi aluvumelekanga. Yaye ngamnye, umntu ohloniphayo, kuyimfuneko ukwazi into enokuyenza kunye nobani okumele alungiselele kwiimeko ezinjalo.

Ukuxhaphazwa ngokwenyama kwintsapho

Ingxaki yobundlobongela bentsapho ifanelekile namhlanje. Wonke umntu oqhekezayo uyaqonda ukuba igama elithi "indlu" kufuneka likhumbule iimemori ezifudumeleyo, iimvakalelo ezithandekayo, kwaye zingasiphakamisi isiqhwithi sengqondo esichukumisayo.

Ngokwezibalo, ubundlobongela basekhaya buvela kwintsapho nganye yesihlanu. Amalungu amaninzi kwiintsapho ezinjengeenkathalo aziboni ukuba kufanelekile ukuba umntu akhulume ngawo. Okugqithisileyo, abathandana abanothando bayesaba ukutshatyalaliswa kwengqumbo yomsindo kunye nexesha ngalinye bazikhuthazela ukuba " Ukwahlula kuthetha ukuthandwa ."

I-Psychology of Violence Domestic

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abo bazama ukubonakalisa ukufaneleka kwabo okanye bazibhokoxa ngazo nayiphi na indleko baphakamisa izandla zabo ukuvala abantu. Ngokwenene, lo mntu unenkxalabo. Ubonakala ekhubekiswa yihlabathi lonke. Akunakunyulwa ukuba loo mntu unelungelo elingenanto elingaphakathi lingenamandla okwanela ukujamelana nefuthe leemvakalelo.

Umtshutshisi wentsapho unokusebenzisa ulwalamano ngokwesondo kwintsapho yakhe, engakhokelela kuphela kwiingxaki zomzimba zexhoba, kodwa kunye neengxaki zengqondo.

Ubundlobongela kwintsapho - apho uya khona?

Ukuba ngaba unobundlobongela. Yiba nesibindi uze utshintshe ubomi bakho ngokubhekiselele ngokuqhagamshelana nala magunya alandelayo:

1. Isiko samazwe ngamazwe soKhuselo lwamalungelo eSifazana. Inombolo yefowuni inokufumaneka kwi-intanethi kuxhomekeke kwilizwe ohlala kuyo.
2. I-Ofisi yoLuntu, uLutsha kunye neMidlalo.
3. ISibonelelo seNkonzo zoLuntu kwiNtsapho, kwaBantwana noLutsha.

Ukuthintela ubundlobongela basekhaya

Akuyi kubakho ukukhumbula ukuba kukho ukuxabana ngenxa yokungaqondi okanye ukusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala . Ngoko ke, ukwenzela ukunqanda ulwalamano lwentsapho, landela kule migaqo elandelayo:

1. Gwema ukukhwaza, ukuthetha kwiitoni eziphakamileyo.
2. Yiba nobulumko kwaye ngethuba lobushushu befuthe ufunda ukushiya ingxoxo.
3. Ukwazi uhlobo lomntu othandekayo, sigqibo malunga nexesha apho uya kuba nengqondo efanelekileyo kwaye uya kukwazi ukukuchazela isizathu sokunganeliseki kwakhe.

Hlonipha kwaye uzithande ngokwakho, ungalokothi uvumele umntu ukuba akuphathe njengenceku.