Kunzima kakhulu ukudibana nabantu abathandana ekuqaleni. Ngokuqhelekileyo iimvakalelo zivela emva kwexesha kunye nangemva kokunxibelelana. Iingcali zengqondo zithi ukuwela othandana nomntu odibana naye kulula, kuba intliziyo inokuthi "ihlelwe" kwiinjongo ezifunwayo. Ngangoko ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba akukho ndlela yokuba i-100% incede ngokukhawuleza ukuba ithandane. Iziphakamiso ezikhoyo ziya kunceda ukuba ziqhotyoshelwe kumntu, kwaye, njengoko uyazi, eli liyinyathelo lokuqala ekujoliswe kuyo.
Ungayithanda njani umfana onithandayo?
Uthando luvakalelwa unokuthi luvele luze luze luze luze lufanele ludideke kunye nothando lokwenene. Ukuba okwangoku akukho mvakalelo yomntu obonisa intsilelo, musa ukukhawuleza kwaye ukhathazeke, kuba yonke into inexesha layo.
Indlela yokuwa ngothando nomfana:
- Yenza kube ngumkhwa wakho. Ukuba kukho umnqweno wokuba uthandane nomntu othile, ngoko kufuneka abe yintanda yakhe entliziyweni. Kubalulekile ukuba kunye nomntu othandayo, iimpawu eziqhelekileyo, iingcinga, iinjongo, njl njl. Kwizigaba zokuqala zobudlelwane, ukunxibelelana rhoqo kubaluleke kakhulu.
- Ngokwezibalo, abafazi bahlala bebathandana ngethuba lobuthathaka babo, oko kukuthi, xa kukho iingxaki ezithile ebomini. Buza umfana ukuba ancede kule nto okanye kuloo meko, ukuze abe ngu-hero.
- Abaninzi banomdla wendlela yokuwa nomfana kwakhona, ngoko ke isalathisi esilandelayo sifanelekile kubo. Kubalulekile ukuba kunye nomlingane kwiimeko ezimbi. Into yokuba xa i-adrenaline ikhiqizwa, umntu uzive evakalelwa kukuba, ngombono wengqondo, kufana nesovakalelo sokuthandana. Yingakho ubuchopho buyakwazi ukudibanisa le ntliziyo ezimbini, eziza kubakho ukubonakala kwenceba kumntu owayesondele ngeli xesha.
- Zinike ixesha lokumazi umntu ongcono. Nangona kukholwa ukuba abayithandi into ekhonkco, uvelwano luvela ngokuchanekileyo ngesiseko sezinye izinto ezintle zeqabane. Vumela loo nto uxoxe ngobomi bakhe, ukhetho,
izicwangciso, mhlawumbi uya kuzibonela ngokuchanekileyo oko kufuneka ukuba kwimeko ekhethiweyo.
Iingcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nendlela yokuwa nomfana kwakhona. Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuyiqonda imeko, ngenxa yoko kwahlukana. Kubalulekile ukufumana izigqibo ezithile, ukuvuma iimpazamo kwaye ungabuyi kulesi sihloko. Okwesibini, khumbula ukuba kwakulungile ubuhlobo kunye nomfana kwaye uhambe kuphela kule ndlela. Zama ukuphinda uphinde uzivelele kwaye uphumelele kwizinga elitsha leemvakalelo. Okwesithathu, ukwakha ubudlelwane ngokubhekiselele kwimeko entsha, okokuba, ukuba into ayithandanga ngaphambili, kufuneka ixoxwa kwaye ichitheliswe, ukuze ingabuyi kuhamba ngendlela efanayo.