Ukuba awufuni ukuba uhlaselo lwakho lutshabalalise intsapho, kufuneka wenze konke okusemandleni kwaye akunakwenzeka, ukuze indoda ingayifumani. Ukuba zonke izinto zicatshulwa ngokucokisekileyo kwaye zilandele icebo, ubuchule bokungaphumeleli buncitshiswa ubuncinane.
Behave ngathi akukho nto yenzeke
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iimvakalelo zentombi zichaphazela ukuziphatha. Umsebenzi wakho kukuziphatha ngokusemgangathweni ngokusemandleni, kungekhona ukutshintsha imikhwa yakho. Ukuze ukwazi ukuzithethelela ngaphambi kokungabikho komyeni wakho, kufuneka ube nesicwangciso sokubuya. Ngokomzekelo, mxelele ukuba kwi-salon enobuhle udibana nomfazi okwangoku ungumhlobo wakho wenene. Kulungile ukuba nawe uya kumama naye. Ngaloo ndlela, phantsi kwengqiqo yokuhlangana nomhlobo onokuzifihla inkohlakalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abasetyhini bazive benetyala baze bazame ukukwenza kumyeni wakhe, babonise ukugcinwa ngokunyanisekileyo kunye nokunyamekela, okwenkqayo. Zilawula ngokwakho, umsebenzi wakho ufanele ube noxolo kwaye ulinganise ngokusemandleni.
Gcina imfihlo
Nangona ucinga ukuba iintombi zakho zizona zilungileyo, kwaye azize zithengise, ukunyaniseka kuyimfihlo egcinwe kakuhle, kuba kuncinci into enokwenzeka. Ewe, ukuba uqhubeka udibene, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukhusele intombi yakho kwiintlanganiso xa unomyeni wakhe.
Shintsha indlela
Nika intlanganiso yomthandi kwenye indawo ekupheleni kwesi sixeko ukuze ungahambi naye kwiivenkile ezifanayo, ukutya kunye nemivalo ohamba nayo nomyeni wakho. Ekubeni abasebenzi beziko bangakubeka ngephutha endaweni ephazamisayo, uthi, umzekelo, "Ngaba uya kuyala, njengesiqhelo?
Ufunyenwe
Ngokomzekelo, indoda okanye bakhe abahlobo bakubona ngendoda engaqhelekanga. Kule meko, kuphela ukuzithemba okulungileyo kukunceda, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ungenacala kwaye emva kokuba umyeni ongeke ulungele, udidekile kwaye ukhathazeke. Ndifuna ukumxelela ukuba lo ngumhlobo omdala owafika ezweni lakubo, kwaye wahlangana ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba oku kuthethwa ngokuzithemba, kwaye kwakhona, nokugxeka umyeni wakhe ngokungathembeki, ngoko ke isicwangciso siya kusebenza.
Fihla zakho iimpawu ezintsha
Ukuba umthandi wakufundise ukuqonda imoto okanye iwayini ebiza, ke akudingeki ukuba wabelane ngolwazi nomyeni wakho, njengoko uya kuba nomdla kakhulu apho ufunde khona. Zilawule ebhedeni nomyeni wakho, ungambonisi "amatsha" amatsha ukuba umthandi uyakuthanda kakhulu.
Imali kuphela
Ukuba uhlawula into ngexesha leentlanganiso kunye nomthandi wakho, musa ukusebenzisa amakhadi-mboleko okanye ezinye iindlela zokuhlawula apho ungayilandela khona imali ngemali, hlawula kuphela ngemali.
Ungashiyi impawu
Zibukele, zigcine ngasese. Susa imiyalezo, iifowuni, kwigama lefowuni yegama lomfazi, kwiintanethi zentlalo ungayifaki kubangani, ngokuqhelekileyo, akukho zizathu zokungcatsha. Ukuba ubuncinci kanye ukubetha, kwaye umyeni wakhe ubona into engaqhelekanga, ukufihla kuya kuba nzima nakakhulu. Emva kweentlanganiso kunye nomthandi wakho, uhlambe ngaphambi kokuba ufike ekhaya, awudingi ukuvumba komnye umntu endlwini. Musa ukutyhoxisa umyeni wakho, ulale ngesondo, uchithe zonke iiholide zakho kunye nosapho yakho, soloko uphendula iimfowuni zakhe kwaye ngezikhathi ezithile wenza ama-scandals malunga nokusola kwakhe.
Gcina umgama
Musa ukuxelela umthandi wakho apho usebenza khona, idilesi yokuhlala kwaye njalo njalo. Mhlawumbi kuye akusiyo nje isondo kwaye ufuna ukuba nencoko enzulu nomyeni wakho, engathandekanga ngokupheleleyo.
Isiphelo
Ngoku uyazi ukuba ungazifihla njani kumlingane wakho. Kodwa yonke into phambi kokuba wenze oku kucingayo, kungase kube lula ukusebenza kubudlelwane nomyeni kwaye ubuyisele uthando kunye nomdla kunokuzijonga ebhedeni nomnye.