Kwixesha elide, ubuhlobo bokuqala phakathi kwendoda nomfazi luhlobo lomdlalo. Yonke imidlalo inemithetho yayo. Kodwa abafana bangabonisa uvelwano lwabo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Abanye baya kuthetha ngokuthe ngqo malunga nale nto kwaye benze, kodwa abanye baya kufuneka bajongwe ngaphambi kokuba bafunde iinjongo zabo. Ngoko ke, unokwazi ukubona ezinye iimpawu ukuba umntu ufuna umfazi, kodwa uyazifihla.
Iimpawu ukuba indoda ifuna umfazi
Intombazana nganye iluncedo ukufunda ukwazi ukuba zeziphi iimpawu eziza kubonisa xa indoda ifuna ibhinqa. Ngenxa yokuba abaninzi abanokusola ukuba, umntu ubeke amehlo abo phezu kwabo, kwaye aqhubeke ekhononda ukuba abanomdla kubo.
Imiqondiso ephambili xa indoda ifuna ibhinqa:
- KwiWadi . Indoda enomnqweno kuye, iya kuhlala isondele. Buza imibuzo eyahlukeneyo, cela uncedo ngento ethile, okanye uzonwabe. Ngale ndlela, uya kubonisa ukuba unomdla kuwe, kwaye mhlawumbi ugxothe amanye amadoda.
- Khangela . Ukhangeleliso olunomdla, olujongayo luya kuxela yonke into, endaweni yamagama amawaka. Ngaloo ndlela, kunokuthiwa ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba indoda ibonakalisa ngokucacileyo umnqweno.
- Izwi . Xa uthetha nentombazana oyithandayo, ilizwi liba lincinci, lisezantsi kwaye lithandeka ngakumbi.
- Chukumisa . Indoda iya kuzama ukumchukumisa loo ntokazi ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Oku kuya kwenzeka nayiphi na ithuba elifanelekileyo - gxininisa izandla okanye uyisebenzise xa kuyimfuneko. Okanye uya kukucela ukuba ubambe amaxwebhu akhe, okanye uphathe ikhofi yakho kumgudu wakho.
- Izipho . Uphawu olubonakalisa kakhulu luyisipho . Ngokuqinisekileyo ngeli nqanaba unokucinga-ufuna wena, uthanda okanye uvelwano. Ngomnqweno oqinileyo, umntu uya kunika izipho onokuziva - ukuvumba, zama. Ingaba ngumgubo, ubucwebe okanye ikhofi ebiza. Kwaye inqaku elinyanzelekileyo liintyatyambo. Baya kubapha onke amaxesha. Kwaye izimbali ziya kuba nemibala emihle. Emva kwexesha, umfazi uya kuziva ukuba kufuneka aphendule into ethile ngezipho ezinjalo.
Into eyiyo kukukholelwa intuition yakho kwaye uyigcine le miqondiso, ngoko ubomi bomntu bunokuba lunomdla kakhulu.