Njengoko uyazi, uthando luyakwazi ukumelana nosizi lonke kwaye lunqobe yonke imiqobo. Kwaye ukuhlukana kunye nokwahlukana kwintandani akuyithintelo kwiimvakalelo ezinyanisekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuhlukana nomntu omthandayo, kwimihla embalwa, kunokubonakala kungunaphakade. Nangona kunjalo, kukufanele sikhumbule okokuba oomama kunye nogogo bafana nabo, abalindela abayeni babo nabathandekayo emkhosini, besuka kwimfazwe, ukusuka kwiihambo eziqhelekileyo nokude, ukusuka kwiindawo zokufunda kunye nomsebenzi. Ngokukodwa ngaloo mihla kwakungenakwenzeka ukuthetha ngexesha elide kwifowuni, imilayezo emihle ye-SMS nganye kwiyure, kwaye akukho mntu wakuva malunga noonxibelelwano lwevidiyo. Kwaye ke umlilo wothando wawuxhaswa yiileta ezahlukileyo, ezintle kwaye zigcwele ithemba kunye nokulindela.
Ileta eya kumthandekayo ngokuhlukana inokuqhawula ukulinda ixesha elide kunye nobuthixo bentombazana. Ukubhala incwadi enhle kumntu othandekayo ngokuhlukana, akazange ashiye iyure enye, kodwa ephepheni zonke iimvakalelo ezinyanisekileyo-uthando nothando, ukulindela kunye nethemba, izicwangciso kunye namaphupha athululelwe. Ileta eya kumyeni wakhe ngokuhlukana ayinakuqulunqa izicwangciso zekamva kuphela, kodwa neenkcazelo ezide zobomi bemihla ngemihla, iziganeko kunye neemeko, impumelelo yomfazi nabantwana kunye nezinye izinto ezithakazelisayo. Ziziphi iileta kwiingkondlo zezibongozi ezidumileyo kubathandekayo babo kunye nezimpendulo zabo. Imbalelwano yonke isele ibe ngumzekelo weencwadi zakudala, kuba ngamaxesha amandulo ubude obukhulu bungabanqamula abantu ngonaphakade.
Iileta Zothando noKwahlukana
Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, iileta zamaphephancwadi kwiimvulophu ezithunyelwa ngeposi ziye zatshintsha ngempumelelo iibhokisi zecomputer, intanethi, intetho, ukuxoxa ngemiyalezo ye-SMS. Nangona kunjalo, ubugcisa bokubhala iileta ezi zinto abuzange bubi. Kwaba lula ngakumbi indlela yokuhanjiswa kwazo. Ngaphezu koko, ukunxibelelana nomntu ekude kwixesha langempela akuyi kukwazi ukutshintshela ileta kumntu othandekayo ngokuhlukana, konke ukuthanda kwakhe kunye neemvakalelo.
Ukuba ufuna ukunyamezela ukuhlukana kumntu othandekayo, ngoko kufanelekile ukubhala ileta kumntu oyintanda ehlukileyo, le nto iya kuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokubonakalisa iimvakalelo zakho kuye. Incwadi eya kumntu othandekayo ngokuhlukana ingabandakanya ezininzi ezinkumbulo ezinokuthinta, okukuphela kwakho kwaye uyazi. Ukongeza, unokwazi ukuvakalisa zonke iimvakalelo zakho ngamazwi, uze ubenxibe ngefomati, njengoko okhokho bethu benza.
Ileta eya kumntu olwahlukileyo - oko ukubhala?
Incwadi eya kumntu ohlukeneyo akuyona into elula, edinga indlela enzulu. Kunzima ukuchaza yonke into ovakalelwa ngayo ngamazwi, kodwa ungazama ukwenza. Iincwadi ezilungileyo zohlulo kufuneka, nangona kunjalo, zingabandakanyi izikhalazo malunga nokuba ungendawo kangakanani ngaphandle komntu othandekayo. Kungcono ukuba ubhale, ukuba ulindela njani intlanganiso kunye noko uza kukwenza xa udibana. Chaza izicwangciso zakho ngexesha elizayo, iinjongo zakho, amaphupha kunye neminqweno, apho ufuna khona. Kuya kuba yinto engenakongezwa ukuba ungeze inqaku lokuthandana kunye nokukhangela kwileta yothando. Oku kuya kuba yinto eyongezelelweyo yokukhuthaza amadoda akho ukuba ahlale enyanisekile kuwe kwaye ukhumbule imizuzu engcono kakhulu esetyenziseneyo kunye kwaye ujonge phambili ukudibana nomonde.
Kubalulekile nokuba indoda yakho kwileta yakuva yonke inyaniso
Ungathumela ileta nge-imeyile, i-SMS, kwinethiwekhi yentlalo. Kodwa indlela engcono yokubhalela umntu obathandayo ileta kubhala ngesandla. Ukubhaliweyo kwakho, ukuthuthumela kwesandla sakho, iinyembezi ezihamba phezu kweqabunga, zizinto zonke, ezinjengeentsuku ezindala zothando kunye neentsiba ngeyinki. Kwaye ezo ncwadi zikhokelela amadoda ukuba abe nekratshi. Ngoko bhala, bafazi kwaye ningabi namahloni ngeemvakalelo zenu!