Ukuba ubomi bobuqu abuzuzanga, kwandula i-voarm voices incomela isibini ukuba zifumane ukuba zikhawuleze zizandile. Kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, akukho bani wabacebisi abaxelela ukuba bangaphi na umntu ontle. Njengokuba oku kulula! Kwiindawo zokuthandana ziya kubonakala ngokugqithiseleyo abathandi beintlanganiso ngobusuku obubodwa, kwiitafesi kunye nemivalo imeko leyo iyafana, kungekho kwidolophu efanayo ukuba ihambe kunye nomqondiso "ukufuna ngokukhawuleza umntu, ubize yonke into." Kodwa yonke into ayibi kakhulu, kukho indawo eyaziwayo kakhulu, zifuna nje umonde kunye nentle.
Ndingazifumana phi na umntu onzulu?
Ngaphambi kokuba uye kukhangela kwindoda, kufuneka uzigqibelele i-portrait yakhe. Ngokomzekelo, amantombazana ahlala ecetyiswa ukuba aye kwimidlalo yemidlalo, kuba ngokuqhelekileyo ukwanda kwamanani abantu. Kodwa hamba khona kuphela ukuba ulungele ukujonga emva komntu onomdla kakhulu kwimidlalo. Ukuba awuyikuthandi zonke ezi zihlwele, kwaye uhlala udibanisa isiteshini, uhlasele ukusasazwa kwemicimbi yezemidlalo, ngoko kungcono ukuba ungenzi uphando kulolu hlobo. Uphi na ukuza kumana nomntu olungileyo?
- Umsebenzi . I-romance romance, kunjalo, ayiyona nto ingcono kakhulu, kodwa akukho bani unokunyanzela ukuba ukhangele oogxa. Ngokuqinisekileyo kusekho iiofisi ezikufuphi, apho i-destin yakho ingafumaneka kuyo. Ukongeza, ukuba ucinga ukuba ungaphi na umntu ocebileyo, ke iofisi yindawo enhle. Nasi ngokukhawuleza ukucaca imeko yakhe yentlalo, kwaye oogxa bakhe banokufunda okungakumbi ngaye.
- Iikhosi zokuzifunda . Akubalulekanga ukuba kuya kuba yinto: inkulumo yiprofesa ehloniphekileyo ngesihloko sentshisekelo, izifundo zeelwimi zangaphandle okanye uqeqesho, unokufumana abaqhelana nabo yonke indawo. Musa ukuthetha kunye namantombazana, ngokukhawuleza unomzalwana omangalisayo okanye ubhedu buntwaneni?
- Thenga . Amadoda anesithakazelo ahamba kunye nokuthenga, funda ukufunda ukujonga. Unokwazi, naliphi na, inketho enomdla iya kuba yincwadi yokugcina. Apha unalo ithuba lokuvavanya ukuthanda kwendoda kwaye uqale incoko nomntu onomdla okwenene ukuzama ukukhulisa i-horizons yakhe. Nangona ukugxeka okugqithiseleyo kufuneka kushiywe ekhaya, sihlala sifunda iincwadi, kungekhona kwimiba engcono, ukukhawuleza ukukhulula ingqondo.
- Uhambo . Ukuba unomdla omncinane kweli bali, kuyafaneleka ukuthobela le nketho. Amadoda amaninzi athathwe ngcaciso malunga neziganeko zangaphambili, ngokukodwa xa uthetha imfazwe. Khumbula oku xa ukhetha uhambo.
- Ibhola loLimo . Ukuba ukhathele ukucamngca ngamadoda ngesisu, ngokuqinisekileyo uzicingela ukuba ungaphumeleli iphupha lomfazi, uze uye kwiklabhu yezempilo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho bonke u-Apholo, kodwa aba bantu bengahlali esihlalweni esithile kunye nepakethe ye-chips, bekhalaza ngomsebenzi. Olu khetho lufanelekile ukuba ufuna ukwazi apho ungayazi khona umntu ocebileyo. ukuba ufumene imali yokuthenga ukubhalisa, ke yonke into ayimbi.
- Iqela lezinto ezinomdla . Amadoda amaninzi anezinto ezithandwayo ezinikezela ukuphumula emsebenzini. Ngoko ke, khetha umdlalo womntu, othakazelisayo kuwe, uze ufune abaqhelana nabo.
- Umboniso . Xa ubuzwa ukuba ungabonisana nomntu ophumelelayo, bahlala besabela ngesiphakamiso sokuya kwinkcazo, umboniso, i-premiere premiere okanye i-concert yomculo.
- Internet . Akukona malunga namasayithi okuthandana, nangona unako uzama ukufumana umntu. Enye into kukuba ngokuqhelekileyo ukukhangela okunjalo kuthatha ixesha elide, baninzi abaviwa kwizinto ezinjalo ezingafanelekanga ukunakwa. Ngoko ke kungcono ukuya kumasayithi athile. Ngokomzekelo,
Ukuba unemoto, uye kwiphepha elifanelekileyo, kukho kulula ukuqala ingxoxo, vele ucele iingcebiso okanye ubonise uluvo lwakho ukuba uyayiqonda isihloko.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, naphi na ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba udibana nomntu ohloniphekileyo, musa ukubeka lo mnqweno kwindawo yokuqala. Yiya kwiikhosi, unomdla kulo mbandela. Amadoda ngokukhawuleza ayazi umkhohlisi, ozenza ngathi ufuna ukufumana iibini. Kwaye abamele "abazingeli" beli qingatha elinamandla labantu abayithandanga kakhulu kwaye besaba.