Ekuqaleni, xa intshontsho, ibonisa uvuyo oluqhaqhaqhaqhakazi, ihlahlela inkosi yakhe ekhunjiweyo, abantu abafana nale nto. Kodwa ekugqibeleni umlingani akhula, umntu unokungena ngengozi ngokukhawuleza, kuyabuhlungu ukutshixa okanye ukugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo iimpahla ngeentsika ezingcolileyo. Ingakumbi oku kusebenza kwizinja ezinkulu kunye ezinzima, ezinokukwazi ukuphosa umntwana phantsi. Kwimidlalo ngamanye amaxesha ibonakala ihleka, kodwa imihla ngemihla ukuziphatha okugqithisileyo kuyacaphukisa kwaye kuphazamisekile.
Izindlela eziliqela zokuthambisa inja ukuxhuma kumntu
- Iyona ndlela inobungozi kukungayithobeli i-pet. Ukuba inja igxuma kumnini, kufuneka imbuyisele emuva. Yenza oku de uze uyeke ukuxhuma kwaye uhlalise. Emva koko uhlale phantsi uze uchukumise ukubonisa uthando lwakho, ukumphoqa ukuba ahlale. Nangona ukubulela isilwanyana ngokuziphatha okuchanekileyo akufanele kube, kuya kuphinda kuzame ukugxuma kuwe.
- Ungacinezela isilwanyana sakho ngamadolo, ungamvumeli ukuba agxume, aze adumise, angafihli uvuyo lokuhlangana. Emva koko, zama ukutshintsha ingqalelo kwilwanyana yakho kwezinye izinto, hamba ugqoke, kwaye uyithumele kwindawo leyo.
- Unokuhlwaya inja xa uzama ukuxhuma, ukuyikhupha okanye ukutyhila idolo, ukwenza isithintelo esiphilayo. Abanye abalimi beenja bayayisebenzisa ngendlela engqongqo, bebetha isilwanyana esingaphantsi kweedolo ngokunyathela unyawo. Kakade, kufuneka wenze oku ngenyameko, ukwenzela ukuba ngexesha lokufunda akukho nzakalo.
- Indlela ekhohlakeleyo, indlela yokunyanzela inja ukuba igxume kwi-passers-by kwaye umninimzi usebenzisa i- collar eyinqabileyo okanye eqhelekileyo. Ngethuba lokugxuma kufuneka wenze i-jerks ende, ujezise isilwanyana, uphinde uphinde ulandele imiyalelo ethi "FU!" .
Ezi zifundo kufuneka zenziwe ngokucophelela, ngaphandle kokulimaza izilwanyana. - Endaweni yezixhobo ezinzima, ungasebenzisa izixhobo ezininzi zobuntu ngendlela yobuncongo bamanzi. "Yihlawule" ngamanzi okanye isisombululo esinamandla samanzi emonsi (malunga ne-teaspoon nge-1 iglasi yamanzi), ucofa ngamanzi emehlweni okanye kwimpumlo yezilwanyana xa uzama ukunqumla phezu kwakho. Ngokuziphatha okulungileyo, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuyixabisa nokuyivuza ngokutya.
Ukuqonda ukuba kutheni inja igxuma kumnini, eyazi ezi ndlela zingentla, indlela yokuyichitha ngayo, unokukhawuleza ukujamelana nale ngxaki. Into ephambili kukuba usebenze kuwo onke amalungu entsapho kunye, kwaye ucele abahlobo bakho ukuba balandele imithetho efanayo ukuze badibanise izifundo zabo ngokusebenza.