Utywala, ingoma ebuhlungu kunye nenkampani yamantombazana - konke oko kuyimfuneko ukuba intombazana iphile kunye nokuthandana naye. Kwaye abantu bafumana njani ukwahlukana kwaye benza ngokusemthethweni? Mhlawumbi yinto yesini esilungileyo esenza iinyembezi, ukukhumbula ixesha elonwabileyo elichitha kunye kunye, ukwenza izenzo zokukhawuleza "ukumkhathaza" nokuphulaphula abahlobo bethetha "njengokuba unamanye amawaka uya kuba." Makhe sibone indlela iinqumama zethu ezingenangqondo ngayo, kwaye nokuba ukupheliswa kobudlelwane kubathintela kunye nathi.
Abantu bafumana njani ukwahlukana?
Okokuqala, kuyafaneleka ukufumanisa ukuba ngaba amadoda ngokubanzi afumana ukuhlukana , okanye ukuba ulwahlulo lwentlanzi luyinto engokwemvelo, yintoni ekufuneka ingayihlawulwa ingqalelo? Ukuba sithetha ngesidlo esiphezulu, akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu uya kupheliswa kweintlanganiso kunye nentombazana, ivelidi elula ayifuni ukubunjwa kweekhonkco eziqinileyo, ngoko ke i-gap ayiyi kuvelelwa, njengento ephazamisayo. Kodwa ukuba ngumbuzo wobudlelwano besikhathi eside, ngoko imeko iyahluke. Naphezu kokunciphisa kwangaphandle, iimvakalelo zesigxina sethu esinamandla asikho bonke abaphambukeli, ngokugqithiseleyo baya kuba kuqaliswe ukuhlukana kwentombazana. Emva koko ukukhukhumaza okunokwenyuka kuya kusebenza, loo ndoda kufuneka ibe ngowokuqala kuyo yonke into, oko kuthetha ukuba wayenokuthi "yenze" kuye.
Ekubeni sifumene ukuba abantu bafumana ukuhlukana, kuhleli ukuba baqonde indlela abayenzayo ngayo, kwaye lide kangakanani eli lizwe lihlala. Ukungakwazi ukubonakalisa ngokucacileyo iimvakalelo zabo kwenza kube nzima ukuba indoda isebenzise iindlela ezizithandayo zezilwanyana ukuze ziphile kwiisondlo - i-sobs kwimilenze kunye nemihlangano yabantu abasondeleyo. Abameli besigqeba esisisiseko sabantu banamanye amanyathelo athile.
- Fumana intombi yesikhashana. Oku kuvumela umntu ukuba aqinisekise ukuzingca kwakhe aze azibonakalise ukuba ukhuphisana ngokupheleleyo, kwaye yonke loo nto yayingumntu owayengenakuyixabisa yakhe injabulo. Kakade ke, kwiimeko ezininzi, iireveli ezinjalo azihlali ixesha elide, kwaye umntu uqala ukutshintsha iinqweno, njengeiglavu. Nangona, ngamanye amaxesha, emva kokuphefumula okunjalo, kukho isidingo sobudlelwane besikhathi eside, ngoko umntu uya kukhangela iqabane elifanelekileyo. Ngaloo mizuzu, iinzame zenziwa ukuba zidibanise kunye nabafazi beentombi kunye namantombazana, abathanda kakhulu abalobi banoveli.
- Enye indlela, ngokuzingela ezisetyenziswe ngababhali be "sopha mafutha", kuyinzame yokunciphisa ubuhlungu kotywala. Enye into kukuba akusoloko ibonakala kwi-cinema-indoda engavumelekanga kwisitya sokunxila, indawo engcolileyo, ibhotile ye-vodka kunye nokutshisa ukutya. Umntu wakho wangaphambili unokubonakala ebonakalayo, kwaye uhamba ngeenxa zonke kwiiklabhu, nje kuphela ukuba imida yakhe iya kuphelelwa yinto endala yokudakwa kunye nokulibala ".
- Wonke umntu uyazi indlela enkulu yokulibala ngeengxaki-ukuguqula imeko. Ukuba umntu ucebile, ngoko unako ukusebenzisa le ndlela, eshiye i-resort, apho kunokwenzeka ukudibanisa zonke iindlela ezintathu ezi ngasentla.
- Enye indlela ethandwa ngabantu ukuba basinde ukuhlukana kukushiya iintloko zabo kwizinto zokuzilibazisa, ngokuqhelekileyo zidlala imidlalo yekhompyutha. Kwaye kaninzi oku
Ukuzilibazisa kuba ngumlutha wangempela, umntu uqala ukuchitha ixesha elide kunye nemali kwinyani.
Ngokuphathelele ixesha lamava, yonke into ixhomekeke kumntu kunye nobunzulu beemvakalelo azivelayo. Abanye abantu balungiselela into yabo yentshiseko, balandela ubomi babo iminyaka, ngokulandela ngokusemthethweni umlingane wangaphambili kwindawo. Abanye, emva kokutshisa ngaphantsi kwenyanga, babuthele ngomoya kwaye bazame ukuphucula ubomi babo. Kanti abanye bayeka nje ukuyeka abafazi abanokholo, baqala ukuwasebenzisa ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zabo.