Ekubeni, yonke into iyahluke, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka wenze izigqibo ezinzima. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo baya ekupheleni kokufa, amaphupha okonwabileyo kwintsapho yokuwa, kwaye amaninzi amabhinqa kule meko enza isigqibo malunga nomtshato . Nangona kunjalo, akulula kulula ukwazisa malunga nesigqibo somlingane, ngakumbi, xa kubantwana bakho kunye nabasemva kwamalungu eminyaka emitshatweni yomtshato. Makhe sizame ukufumanisa indlela yokuhlukana nomyeni wakhe, ukuze yonke into ihambe ngokuthula, kwaye ingenabuhlungu kunokwenzeka wena nabantwana bakho.
Ngaba kubuhlungu kangakanani ukuhlukana nomyeni wakhe?
Ukuba umnqweno wokufakela umtshato uqabane, kulula kakhulu, kodwa ukuba indoda iyahlukana ngokuhlukana, yonke into iyaba nzima kakhulu. Kule meko, abafazi banenkxalabo malunga nendlela yokwenza ngokufanelekileyo, ukuze kube lula ukuhlukana nomyeni wakhe ukwenzela ukuphepha iingxabano kunye nokungqubuzana okungadingekile.
Okokuqala, kufuneka uxoxe nomlingane wakho. Zama ukuchaza isizathu sokuba zigqibe ukuqhawula umtshato, kodwa ungacingi ukufungela, ukuthuka nokumgxeka, kule ngxoxo ukuzola okukhulu. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukucacisa uxolo lobudlelwane kunika iziphumo ezintle.
Ukuqhathaniswa kuhlala kunzima, kwaye ngokukodwa xa kufuneka uyingxenye nomyeni wakho omthandayo, abaninzi abafazi baziva, njengale meko, musa ukufumana uncedo uze uqhubeke nokuhlala. Kule meko, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ufumane isifundo esithakazelisayo. Bhalisa kwezinye iikhosi, umzekelo, ulwimi lwangaphandle, okanye wenze into ongazange ube nayo. Zama ukucinga okungakumbi malunga nento eyenzekayo, ukudibana nabahlobo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukuba kukho abantwana, hlawulelani kunye nokuphumla. Konke oku kuya kukunceda uphazamise kwaye unike amandla.
Ewe, kodwa malunga nokuba ungayahlula njani nomyeni wakhe, ukuba unayo