Iingqondo zentsapho-ubudlelwane bomtshato buyinkimbinkimbi, kuba emva komtshato abantu bajamelana neengxaki ezahlukileyo, ezithi, ngokwemibare, zikhokelela kwimiphumo emibi. Yiyo le nto inokusichazela ukuthandwa kakhulu kweengqondo zentsapho.
Ingqondo yeentlobano zentsapho yomfazi nomyeni
Bonke abantu bahluke, ngoko ke iingxabano ziyabaleka. Nangemva komtshato, amaqabane akufanele ayeke ukusebenza kubudlelwane ukugcina iimvakalelo nokuqinisa umanyano okhoyo. Kukho iintlobo zentsapho ezahlukileyo kwizengqondo, umzekelo, xa into eyona nto ingumfazi okanye indoda engumtyholi. Kwimeko nganye ethile, kukho imigaqo yokuziphatha ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo. Ngokubanzi, sinokuqulunqa iziphakamiso ezimbalwa ezilula eziza kwenza ulonwabo luvuyiswe:
- Abathandayo akufanele bazame ukuphula okanye ukutshintsha iqabane, kuba le yinto ebangelwa yintlukwano. Ukuba umntu uyayithanda, ngoko uya kufuna ukutshintsha.
- Ububaluleka obukhulu kwintlalano enovuyo kukunyaniseka kwamaqabane, ngoko kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokungaxiliseki okukhoyo. Kubalulekile ukwenza oku ngaphandle kwamabango. Sombulula imeko kwiimeko ezizolileyo.
- Ngokuqinisekileyo abazithandayo kufuneka banomdla, kuba badibanisa abantu. Ngokomzekelo, ingaba yi-movie, ukukhetha amakhowe, ukuhamba, njl.
- Umntu ngamnye, indawo yakhe yinto ebaluleke kakhulu, ngoko ke abafazi abangekho mcimbi onokumthintela. Ukuba indoda ifuna ukuya ebhola ekhatywayo okanye ukuhamba kunye nabahlobo, ngoko akufanele abe yindlela.
- Ingqondo yengqondo ithi umyeni nomfazi kufuneka bahlale bencedana, kwaye oku kusebenza kwimiba emincinci yendlu. Ngokomzekelo, abatshatileyo kufuneka basebenze ndawonye ekhaya, bakhulise abantwana, njl.
- Iingcali zengqondo zincoma ukusekwa kwezithethe zentsapho ezikunceda ukugcina iimvakalelo. Ngokomzekelo, kunokuhamba kwindawo epaki ngeveki okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa. Kubalulekile ukuba izithethe zigcinwe ngamaxesha onke, kungekho zizathu.
- Kwiintsebenziswano, akukho mntu kufuneka abe lixhoba kwaye ungayihoxisi iimfuno zakho ngenxa yeqabane, kuba kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kubangela iingxabano .
- Mbulele umthandayo kwaye uhlale uncomela ngempumelelo yeqabane lakho. Ukuthi "mbulela" udinga ngisho nekomityi yeeyi. Ngale ndlela, ubonisa inhlonipho yakho.