Umbuzo othi kutheni umfazi engafuni ukuthandana nomyeni wakhe, ukukhathazeka ngamadoda amaninzi abatshatileyo, kuba ngaphambi kokumisela ubudlelwane bezobudlelwane, akukho ziingxaki zesini. Wayevuya, kulula ukunyuka, kwaye ulungele ukwenza uthando nanini na emini okanye ebusuku nakwiindawo ezingafanelekanga. Yintoni eyatshintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo - kweli nqaku.
Ukulahla kweiglasi ezibomvu
Kukho imibhangqwana embalwa ehlabathini evumelanayo kuyo yonke into "elwandle" kwaye uyazi ukuba ungalindela ntoni kumlingane xa uqala ukuhlala kunye. Ngokuqhelekileyo umfazi unokholo lokuba umntu othandayo uya kuba ngumyeni noyise onobuhle, unike intsapho kwaye ancede malunga nendlu. Amadoda, nabo, banamathemba abo, awanakulungele umtshato. Abo bazibuza ukuba kutheni umfazi engafuni ukusondelana, unokuphendula ukuba kuvela ingqungquthela enobungozi. Wonke umntu uyazikhubekisa kuye, "i-sulks," ithemba ukuba iqabane liza kuqiqa yonke into ngaphandle kwamagama, kodwa oku akunzeki. Kodwa ukuba umnqweno wesondo womntu awunayo impembelelo, ngoko umnqweno wesifazane uphonsa kwi-zero.
Akasayi kufuna iqabane, kuba libido yakhe ixhomekeke kakhulu kwiimvakalelo , kwaye ngoku awona mbi kakhulu. Kwaye nangona amaqabane engathuli aze athole ubuhlobo, kuchaphazela kakubi umnqweno wesifazane wokwenza uthando, kuba uyaziwa ukuba ubuhlobo obusondeleyo buqala ngaphambi kwegumbi lokulala, kwaye ukuba umzuzu uphuhlisiwe, akukho nto andingayifuni, kodwa andithandi ukunyamezela kumbhede.
Kutheni umfazi engafuni ukusondelana emva kokubeletha?
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi, apho siyakwazi ukwahlula:
- Ukuzalwa kwengane kuhlala kulonwabe, kodwa ukuba intsapho ibeneenkathazo ngaphambili, iyancipha. Indoda inyanzelekile ukuba ixhase intsapho yayo kwaye isebenze yedwa, ngokuqhelekileyo ithatha inxaxheba emsebenzini, ngenxa yoko ikhathele kakhulu kunye namaphupha okuza ekhaya kwaye ifudumala phantsi kwezandla zomfazi. Nangona kunjalo, ujongene nenyaniso yokuba umfazi akafuni ukusondelana ngokusondelene, ephikisana nokuba ukhathele kwaye intloko yakhe ibuhlungu. Umyeni akayiqondi indlela onokukhathala ngayo ngaphandle kokusebenza kwaye uhleli ekhaya, kwaye naye uyacaphukisa, ukuba akayiqondi ukuba umyalelo awukho ikhefu kuyo yonke into, ukuba unzima, ingakumbi ukuba umntwana ongenasiphelo. Kodwa usenayo ixesha lokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Ngenxa yoko, umfazi uyazikholelwa ukuba umyeni ovela emsebenzini uya kumnika ithuba lokuphumla okuncinci, kwaye ziza kubakho izibango.
- Ukunganeliseki kunye nokuhlambalaza kunokukhokelela ekubeni umfazi akafuni ukusondelana kweenyanga, kuba umyeni uhlala ekhathala ngokumfuna aze amshiye yedwa, kwaye ukuzingca kwakhe akukwenzeki.
- Ukutshatyalaliswa kwembonakalo, emva kokuba bonke abafazi emva kokuzalwa bahlutha kwaye abafuni ukusondelana, njengoko beqala ukuziva benamahloni emzimbeni wabo, ngakumbi ukuba indoda iyayeka ukuhlaziya kunye nokunyamekela ngaphambili. Ngendlela, ukutshintsha ukubonakala kwendoda kuchaphazela ukuhla kwe-libido, kuba abantu besoloko besona ngokukhusela isisu esiswini, bayeke ukusebenzisa i-perfume enhle, musa ukugcoba, njl njl.
Ewe, kunye neemeko ezikhulayo ezinxulumene nokulindela umyeni wakhe kunye nokufakelwa komoya ngokuthe ngqo, akuvumeli ukuba iqabane liphumle, lidibanise kumgca wolungileyo kwaye ininzi ifuna ukusondelana. Oko kukuthi, ukuyiqonda njengomsebenzi, uyaphela yonke into enqwenelayo. Yintoni endiyithethayo ... Ininzi iya kuxhomekeka kwiminqweno yamaqabane omabili ukugcina intsapho kunye nobudlelwane babo, kodwa indoda ayifanele icinezele umfazi wayo, kodwa iphulaphule iimfuno zayo kunye namabango kwaye iya kuhamba nayo ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zakhe. Kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo malunga neengcamango zesondo zomnye nomnye, uzama ukungafani nokuphila obusondeleyo , mhlawumbi ngoncedo lwezilwanyana zesini, njl njl. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuvumela ukuba iqabane liqonde ukuba liyakuthandwa kwaye lifunwa, kunye namanqaku atyululwe kwisisu emva kokubeletha kunye nemibuso ebusweni bakhe.