Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu baya ecaweni xa befuna ukuxhaswa kokholo lwabo kuThixo, bafuna ukuthandazela zabo kunye nempilo yezihlobo zabo, ukwenza isithethe sokubhaptizwa, ukutshata, ukucela iingcebiso kunye nokusondeza kuSomandla. Inkolo yamaOthodoki, ngokungafani namaSilamsi, ayinyanzeli imimiselo emininzi kubasetyhini ekutyelele ibandla leNkosi, kodwa ikhuthaza ukuba kunjalo ukuba ungayivakali ecaweni ngexesha lokuya esikhathini. Ngoko ke, ukucwangciswa kwama-Orthodox amasiko ngamaKristu kufanele kwenzeke ngokuqwalasela iintsuku zomjikelezo wabasetyhini.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka kwaye kutheni ungeke uhambe esontweni ngexesha lokuya esikhathini? - iimpendulo kule mibuzo zivela kwimvelaphi kunye nezithethe zekholo lobuOthodoki kwaye zidibaniswa nokungcola 'kwenyama' yowesifazane ngeli xesha.
Kutheni umfazi angenakuya ecaweni xa ehamba ukuya esikhathini?
ITestamente Endala iyakwenqabela ukuhamba kwecawa kwezi zilandelayo zilandelayo: iqhenqa, ukukhulelwa kwe-purulent, i-spermatozoa, ixesha lokubeleka (iintsuku ezingama-40 zokubeletha inkwenkwana kunye neentsuku ezingama-80 ukuba ubelethe intombazana, i-Lev 12), ukuphuma kwindoda yamanzi (inyanga kunye ne-pathological) isidumbu). Oku kubangelwa ukuba ezi zibonakaliso zihambelana ngqo nesono, nangona zingaboni ngokwabo.
Kodwa, ekubeni ukunyaniseka kokuziphatha kubakholwayo kubalulekile kwinkolo, uluhlu lwezinto zokuthintela ekuqulunqweni kweTestamente eNtsha zahlaziywa kwaye zishiywe imingcipheko emibili yokuvakashela itempile:
- kubasetyhini emva kokubeleka (ukuya kwiintsuku ezingama-40, ngexesha lokukhutshwa kwe-postpartum);
- kubafazi ngexesha lokukhutshwa kwenyanga.
Izizathu zokuqwalasela ukuba kutheni kula maxesha umfazi "angahlambulukanga" ngenye indlela.
Okokuqala, isizathu sihlambulukile. Emva koko, into enjalo yezo mfihlelo ihambelana nokuvuza kwegazi kwindlela yokuzala. Ngoko bekuhlala njalo, kwaye ngexesha lokungabikho kwindlela yokucoceka enokwethenjelwa kubangelwa. Ithempelini ayikwazi ukuba yindawo yokuchithwa kwegazi. Ukuba unamathela kule nkcazo, namhlanje, usebenzisa iitamponi okanye i-gaskets, unokuthintela ukuba kwenzeke eso siganeko, kwaye u tyelele icawa.
Okwesibini, isizathu sokuba "ukungcola" kuchazwe ngento yokuba ukukhutshwa kowesifazane kubandakanywa nokulahlwa kwe-endometrium ngenxa yokunikezelwa (okuthetha ngokuthe ngqo ukuqaliswa kwesono sokuqala somntwana owazalwa), okanye ukucoca ngokuphathelele ukufa kweqanda kunye nokukhululwa kunye negazi.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uye esontweni ngokuya esikhathini?
Ngokuxhomekeke kwimbono ye-abbot yecawa ethile ngenxa yokuvalwa, isigqibo senziwe kumbuzo othi "Ngaba ndingaya ethempelini ngexesha lexesha?". Kukho abo bafundisi abangaboni nantoni na engalunganga ngokutyelela ibhinqa ngemihla ebalulekileyo yecawa, kwaye kukho abanye abathile ngokuchasene naloo nto.
Enyanisweni, kubonakala kwithuba lokuphuma kwenyanga okanye ukuphuma kwenyanga, loo mfazi akayi kwenza nasiphi na isono. Emva koko, kuba uThixo, okokuqala, ukuhlambuluka kwangaphakathi komntu, iingcamango zakhe nezenzo zakhe zibalulekile.
Ngaba ndingaya ecaweni ngexesha lam?
Okwangoku, phantse bonke ababingeleli baya kwisigqibo salolu daba ukuya ecaweni baza bathandaze kumfazi onokuxutywa ngegazi, kodwa kufanelekile ukuba angabikho kwinxaxheba kwimicimbi yecawa (ukuvuma, ukuxolelana, ukuchithwa, ukubhaptizwa, njl.) Kunye nokuthintela kwiintsika.