Iingcali zengqondo azidinanga ukuphinda: "Iingcamango zomntu zizinto eziphathekayo." Yaye ukuba ucinga ngokubi ngaso sonke isikhathi, unokuba nzima kakhulu ukuhlala kwakho. Kodwa ukuba ufunde indlela yokuphatha ubomi lula kwaye ubona kuyo impawu ezintle, akunjalo lula. Nangona lo msebenzi unokwenzeka nakumntu wonke.
I-motto yam kukuba-jonga ihlabathi lula!
Kodwa okokuqala, kufuneka uchaze imida "yokuxolelwa." Kuthetha ukuthini "ukujonga ubomi ngendlela elula"? Ukuba yi-nihilist? Hamba uye kwindawo yokutsalwa kwemifuno, equka ukuzanelisa iimfuno ezilula? Ukuyeka ukulandela ukulandela ukuphazamisa ukuziphatha ngokuziphatha nokuziphatha kwaye uhambe kuphela kwimeko ngexesha leeminqweno ? Kodwa enye enye ingxaki - isithuba seengxaki ezintsha, uxinzelelo kunye nokubuhlungu okubangelwa kukungabi namsebenzi wobuntu bomntu .
Kulula ukuhlala - kuthetha imihla ngemihla ukufumana kuyo isizathu sokuvuyisa, okuya kuthi kunika amandla okujongana noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Naliphi na ingxaki inokuthatha ingqiqo kwindlela esizibonelayo ngayo. Kodwa abaninzi babo, abanokubangela ukwesaba ngenxa yempembelelo yomzuzwana, ngokuqhelekileyo, bahlala 'bachitha' ngokwabo. Ngoko ke, ukuqala ubomi kulula, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zakho kunye neengcamango.
Indlela yokufunda ukuphatha ubomi kulula?
Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa isisombululo seengxaki, indlela yokuqalisa lula ukuphatha ubomi, ukudibana nokuqonda izakhono zokucinga kakuhle. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka:
- Yeka ukukhononda, uzama ukuvusa uvelwano. Kwaye bonke abantu abakujikelezile bathi usenza kakuhle, kwaye ekugqibeleni, kuya kuba yinyani.
- Yeka ukumisa u-ewe, uneziphene, kuba akukho mntu uphelele, kodwa akufanelekile ukuhlala kuyo. Gxininisa kwiimpawu zakho, zidla ngokuzidumisa, nangengqondo.
- Ukukhupha izikhalazo, ungagcini ububi, ungenzi izicwangciso zokuphindezela.
- Qiniseka ukuba ulala ngokwaneleyo, ufumane isiluleko esibalulekileyo esivela kuScarlett O'Hara owaziwayo: "Ndiya kucinga ngalo ngomso" kwaye ukhumbule isaga saseRussia: "kusasa kobusuku bodaka." I-postpone yokuxazulula imiba yehlabathi jikelele emva koko, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo abaninzi babo baya kulahleka ngokufanelekileyo ngexesha.
- Qinisekisa ukuba neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuphumla, unciphise umkhuba wokuphumla kuphela kwiqhekeza: ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuphuma kwindalo, hamba ukuhamba, uye kwiimvumi, ukuya kwimiboniso, ukuya kwiivenkile zentlalo, ukuhlalisana nabantwana.